hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 10:41 AM on Monday, December 12th, 2016
Thank you tor the update...
love the set up and your pooch as well!
there's no place like home ....
Prayers continue for you and MH....
me-BS him-WS
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
circe ( member #6687) posted at 12:45 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2016
I had tears in my eyes reading about your homecoming! I'm so glad you're at home with your wifi and dogs and all the warmth and love of friends and family surrounding you! Your spirit is amazing. I think of you often and specifically come back to check for updates - you are wonderful, and MH is a powerhouse! Sending love and healing to you both.
Everything I ever let go of has claw marks on it -- Infinite Jest
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:49 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2016
So happy that you are home!! Thank you for the update.
(((DS & MH))) you both are in my prayers. Sending all good thoughts and tons of mojo.
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
earthangel ( member #44357) posted at 2:07 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2016
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it’s bad - it's experience.
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 4:39 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2016
Keep smiling, DS! So glad you're home - we was gettin worried 'bout ya!
Hugs from across the ocean. 
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:55 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2016
So glad you're home... you guys are always in my thoughts!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:14 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2016
I'm so happy you're home.
I'm still doing my best to send out vibes of courage, hope, healing, and love.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 11:12 PM on Monday, December 12th, 2016
So happy you are home. Lots of positive thoughts and prayers with you all the time.
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
sadcat ( member #8637) posted at 1:11 AM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
Yay to being home! Puppies and wifi make a lot of things better!
Never let your fear decide your fate.....AWOLNATION
If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 5:14 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
Look at your big smile! You guys are such an inspiration. And dammit I love those dogs, lol.
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
dotterofTheKing ( member #45223) posted at 5:45 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
So happy you're home DS! You look so cute and cozy in your pics. Wishing you continued strength and complete healing! 
I was BW (48), He was WH (47) at D-day
Together 27 years, married for 24
D-day was August 4, 2014
We have 3 beautiful children. (Two sons 19 and 20, one daughter 14.)
Affair with HS sweetheart.
Divorced January 26, 2016
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 5:49 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
Yeah!!! You are home!!!!
(((DS & MH)))
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 6:27 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
There's that beautiful face and smile! Welcome home!!!! Sending continued love and light to you and MH....
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 6:32 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
Welcome home my friend!!! Not a day goes by without you being in my thoughts. I don't post much, but you are constantly on my mind and in my heart.
Keep fighting! Sending you every bit of healing energy, peace and strength I can muster!
FUCK CANCER!!!!
PS. Had my first follow up mammo since the cancer. All clear!!
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 7:45 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
Glad to see you back home my friend. 
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 7:49 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 8:49 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
I hope the elves saved you some of the goodies I sent with my cards. If not, I'll send more just for YOU! <3
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 8:56 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
So glad to hear that you are finally home. I have been waiting to hear that you were home again. I hope that you are finding yourself more comfortable there and feeling better.
Wishing you healing thoughts and a wonderful Christmas DS. I so want you to start getting better.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 9:57 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
Good to *see* you out and about DS.
Sending you warm and well thoughts and holiday cheer. Suppose I could drop off some more AK47 ammo while I'm at it.
Good to hear you are home.
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Newlease ( member #7767) posted at 10:15 PM on Tuesday, December 13th, 2016
Sending strength and peace.
NL
Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.
