wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 2:43 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 3:19 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
Thank you for the update. Sending strength to both of you. I hope DS manages to get home by Saturday to supervise the Elfin mayhem.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 3:21 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
((((MH & DS))))
Thanks you for this update MH. I have been thinking about you both every day, and am sending out positive, healing thoughts and mojo every single day.
Being a cancer patient or care giver for your loved one is such a difficult and trying time on all levels. You are both lucky to have each other.
Love the coloring/colouring/drawing DS!!! I'm glad you're doing so much better.
Hang in there, AK47thisshit and FUCK CANCER.
((((DS & MH))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 3:21 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
I've been wondering how she's been doing, big hugs to you both, you are in my prayers daily.
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:21 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
I'm so sorry DS has to deal with this added pain, and I can imagine how awful you must feel not being able to help much - but, boy, being able to take DS to the ER is a real blessing.
My heart goes out to you, bringing mojo, hope, encouragement, and hugs.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 6:28 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
Thoughts and prayers to you both. You two, by virtue of this site have saved so many lives. We are all pulling for you.
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 6:33 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
Thanks for the update. I'm still thinking of you both everyday.
I was reading your update to MrsYop last night as she has been quite concerned as well and has been asking. We talked about how much healing I have done in the 3 years I have been here now. This place and what the 2 of you have created here is a huge part of that healing process for me. So wanted to take a quick second to thank you for that.
We continue to send positive thoughts, good mojo, and prayers your way. Onwards and upwards from here.
#AK47thisshit!!!
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 6:39 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
Sending lots of love and mojo to both of you!! I'm rarely on the forum anymore, but you are never far from my thoughts, DS. Keep fighting!
xoxoxoxo
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 6:45 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
thank you for the update MH..what DMW said - times a gazillion!!!!
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 7:13 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
More prayers and strength sent!!!
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 8:37 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
MH, thanks so much for the update. I join the others in saying that I'm sorry DS has had to suffer through this infection, but immensely grateful that they got her in the hospital to AK-47 that damned infection too!
You both are constantly in my thoughts and prayers as well.
Keep AK-47'ing every damn thing cancer throws at you!!!!
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 9:35 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
Thanks MH, so happy to see an update although I hate that DS has been hospitalized. Huge hugs for both of you and is spite of being called a MFer, I'm still praying! Lol 
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 9:37 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
Anyone who can colour in the lines that well when feeling that crappy gets a medal. 
Sending continued love and mojo and hopes and hugs and all the strength I have to the both of you. I can't wait until this is all in your rearview mirror my friends.
[This message edited by SI Staff at 3:37 PM, December 1st (Thursday)]
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 5:03 AM on Friday, December 2nd, 2016
Thank you for the update and the drawing
You are wonderful people who are a blessing to this world!
dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 10:44 AM on Friday, December 2nd, 2016
Thank you for the update. Prayers being sent!!
BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.
Divorced
brooke4 ( member #13581) posted at 2:45 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2016
Sending millions of good thoughts to you both.
Me: BS, 40, Him: WS 41
Married: 15 years
3 children
D-Day: 10/2005
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 5:04 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2016
I am SO glad I enclosed the 2 things that I did in my card exchange package.
Y'all continue to be in my prayers every day.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 5:10 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2016
Thank you MH for the update.
Bless you as you work so diligently to care for sweet DS. Please remember to take care of yourself as well.
Continued prayers, hugs, and support from our family to yours.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
k8la ( member #38408) posted at 9:06 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2016
{{{{MH and DS}}}}
I lost a friend to cancer a couple years back, who was recovering but those doggone sodium levels went nuts on him and they didn't catch it in time like your medical team did. Really glad for you that you have the care team you have!
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 11:17 PM on Friday, December 2nd, 2016
That's an awesome picture, MH.
