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SI Prayers/Mojo Request...Cancer


 Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 3:09 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016


You're always here offering your support...thank you so much!!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 6:57 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

BUT....the 2nd round of TD is DONE!!!!!


Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 7:42 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

MH and I have a great time no matter what!!


I'm glad you were able to take the treatment this time.

Sending lots of mojo your way!

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 10:24 PM on Sunday, November 13th, 2016

I'm so happy that second round is done. Go AK47 this shit right to nothing! Sending all the mojo and prayers and hugs and love that I can.

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 9:16 PM on Tuesday, November 15th, 2016

Yay, round 2 done! Thank you for the update.

Prayers and MOJO continue on a daily basis.

Sending you strength

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:25 AM on Wednesday, November 16th, 2016

Sending you lots more ammo for that AK47. xo FF

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 11:08 AM on Wednesday, November 16th, 2016

I'm thinking you need a fancy horn for that wheelchair. Ever so much classier than just yelling in the hallway! LOL.

Always thinking of you, DS, and sending loving messages of peace. You got this.



FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

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MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 11:47 AM on Wednesday, November 16th, 2016

Hey - another milestone passed!

Sending you so much love DS.

Stay strong,

Hugs, MOB xxx

Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 5:34 PM on Wednesday, November 16th, 2016

Your description of you and MH in the hall made me smile. And realize AGAIN how special the 2 of you are that you take the opportunity to find humor in what is a scary situation. Sending my daily dose of love, light and healing mojo via prayer to the 2 of you!

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 7:46 PM on Monday, November 21st, 2016

Checking in to see how your weekend was DS? Keeping you and MH in my prayers.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 11:25 PM on Monday, November 21st, 2016

Sending all my positive thoughts to you...


Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 7:08 AM on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2016


"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 9:50 PM on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2016

Been thinking about you and MH lately. Wanted to wish you guys a Happy Thanks. Continued good thoughts, prayers, and mojo your way.


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 10:03 PM on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2016


ditto 25


trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 74 Her 70 Married 49 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumor!

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 10:08 PM on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2016

Thinking of you!!! Sending all good thoughts and prayers.

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 2:15 AM on Wednesday, November 23rd, 2016

Here's something for you to announce your presence when you have your next round. Even has it's own air pack! Go get'em tiger!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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timetraveler ( new member #40714) posted at 3:31 PM on Thursday, November 24th, 2016

Happy Thanksgiving

I am giving thanks and prayers for you and MH. I hope you enjoy the day with family and friends.

Turkey promotes peace and calm, while pumpkin pie contains positive energy and love.

Enjoy the full healing banquet!

M-27, 2 great kids 20's
DD#1 1/10
DD#2 8/13, same COW

When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard & steep. For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you.
Kahlil Gibran

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Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 4:16 PM on Thursday, November 24th, 2016

Oh DS/MH, I've been away from SI for a while and come back to this thread! What HAVE you been doing DS?!

Went down the dark, scary cancer road with XH, trial drugs included and it was a shitty journey. But he's been clear of cancer for 13 years now and in good shape

You can do this.

Sending you much love and mojo from across the Atlantic xxx

Me 50 (BS) Him 58 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.

Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)

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Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 11:06 PM on Thursday, November 24th, 2016

Dear DS and MH,

I am thinking of you today and wishing you a wonderful thanks giving.

I have received signals from heaven that you WILL HEAL! You will BE OK!

I hope you receive signs from heaven too beautiful DS!

Love and hugs to you and your lovely husband!

(((((DS and MH)))))))

dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:07 PM on Friday, November 25th, 2016

Continued prayers and healing mojo. Love you!


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert

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