earthangel ( member #44357) posted at 10:55 AM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
Wow! What an awful few days you have had, so glad you're home and with your pain under control
Rest, recover and enjoy being in the place you love with those you love
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it’s bad - it's experience.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 10:56 AM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
Thank you for the update. I'm very happy they have gotten the pain under control. Sending mojo and praying that the trial kicks cancers butt.
(((((((DS & MH)))))))
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
HouseOfPlane ( member #45739) posted at 1:46 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
That's a lot of excitement...not needed!
As always, I think of you throughout the day, DS. Hope you have a great halloween and get lots of candy tonight. Or beer, wine. 
DDay 1986: R'd, it was hard, hard work.
“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
― Mary Oliver
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 1:50 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
Thanks for the update.
Sending you prayers.
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 2:46 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
..((((((((((((((((DS & MH ))))))))))))))))
Sending you ALLLLLLL the positive mojo I've got...
That includes the mojo I had reserved for the Cubbies... but they'll just have to win the series without it!!!
So glad to hear that the pain has subsided..
Prayers sent to the Big Man upstairs for a complete recovery ASAP.
smy 
think ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:45 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
I'm sorry you had such an awful week.
As always, I'm sending you my thoughts, hopes, wishes, love, and encouragement.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 6:22 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
Strength and MOJO
Praying for you
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 6:39 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
Hoping for this trial to work its magic and that your pain lessens ASAP!!!
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 8:40 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
Not exactly the update I was hoping for, but I am super glad that your pain has subsided. This just SUCKS!
Continue to hold you both in my heart. 
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 12:50 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
Thanks for the update. I'm glad that you are back at home and the pain is manageable. I'm hoping that the TD works and that it starts being all good news from here.
BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.
Divorced
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 3:28 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
Dear DS,
Thank you for updating us. I often think about you and say a prayer for both of you.
I'm glad that you are at home again and that you are feeling less pain.
Always praying and sending strenght and light for both of you.
Also I wanted to ask you if you have heard of a brasilian miraculous doctor/healer called John of God?
He is famous among spiritual circles and has even been on Oprah.
He also healed Dr. Wayne Dyer who had leukemia and he got to live without pain and without symptoms for many years until he died last year from a heart attack (nothing related to leukemia)
I believe he is a miracle and blessing for this world and that maybe it would be good to give it a try to ask a remote healing.
I have a contact if you are interested or you can google him and find more info about him.
Please do anything that comes your way and that sounds good to you to help the healing of your body.
I firmly believe that a lot of stuff is related to spiritual and energetic things.
Sending lots of love and hugs to you and MH (((((DS MH))))
Please keep us updated
dday: september-12-2014
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 4:48 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
Lovingmyselfmore...
Thank you so much..I truly appreciate the referal, for sure.
I am super interested in any information you an provide...that would ve great!!
I'm starting to read up on John this evening
To everyone else...
So very grateful for you all.....thank you very much!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 5:31 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
DS,
Thinking of you and so glad that they got your pain level under control. Things are so much easier to bear when the pain is under control. Everyone here is on your side and thinking about you and wanting nothing but the best for you. Stay strong, and I am hoping that this TD is the thing that is going to get you back to feeling amazing and kicking cancers ass.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 9:33 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
Thanks for the update, but as others have said, not quite the update we (and you!) were hoping for. But the experts have worked on you and put you in a place where you can find the strength to carry on with treatment and knock this damned thing on the head and keep it under control.
Mojos, strength, white light and anything else needed coming your way!
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 10:35 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
Thank God your pain is under control.
Positive, healing thoughts for you and continued support for MH.
Love to you both. ❤️❤️
She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 10:59 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 11:16 AM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
(((((Hope & AN)))))
Thank you both very much
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 12:49 PM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
Oh DS, I join the others in saying that we are happy your pain is being managed, and so VERY sorry you had to go through that. You are so incredibly strong! I will continue to pray for you and MH.
Definitely AK-47 this shit!
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 6:02 PM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
MrsYop and I continue to think about you both. Continued prayers and mojo your way. Strength and healing to you!
#ak47thisshit!!!
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
collateraldamage ( member #32546) posted at 6:22 PM on Tuesday, November 1st, 2016
Praying for you. (((DS&MH)))
Me:BS (46) Him:WH (46)
Married 20 years/together 26
Two DS 16/14
DD#1 2/1994 (PA) DD#2 1997-2000?? several EA DD#3 2/17/2011 PA 6 months DD#4 7/13/2011 My Space Account (from 20007) looking for casual sex 10/17/2011 DD#1,000,000... new EA
