DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:19 PM on Sunday, October 16th, 2016
Awesome! Just a total inspiration. I will have to find a way to make a trip down there to meet the most amazing woman ever! Truely, the positivity you have is so humbling. And MH, what a man! Such beautiful flowers.
I love the hat!
Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:07 AM on Monday, October 17th, 2016
Laughter, Courage, Positive thoughts, Hope, a Wonderful Spouse, IRL support and the prayers and mojo from hundreds of people....you will beat the beast and kick ass.
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
atalosss ( member #47882) posted at 5:00 AM on Monday, October 17th, 2016
What a fantastic photo and such beautiful flowers, love the hat!
I've been doing some research on the health benefits of Kombucha (fermented, tasty tea). It has a natural benefit for cleansing the liver and some cancer patients drink it during their treatment phase (Ronald Regan drank it daily for his stomach cancer). Anyway, I just thought of passing along that info to you in case you are maybe looking for a natural way to boost your energy and cleanse your liver. It's a Chinese tonic that goes back 2000 years.
Stay strong and much love 💕.
"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66
NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 9:47 PM on Monday, October 17th, 2016
I'm so glad that you are able to try this new drug trial. Been thinking a lot about you lately so had to come back and see how you were doing. You have such a great, beautiful spirit. Also glad to hear you and MH are sharing such a loving, close bond....that can be so healing when you have someone that can be there for you in that way.
Beautiful flowers and Hello Kitty is awesome. Love you guys and will keep checking on you, sending prayers and positive energy and vibes, and can't wait for the post when you say damn, in remission and no pain!!!
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 10:26 PM on Monday, October 17th, 2016
Thinking of you both and sending strength and healing to you.
Wear whatever hat you want or none at all...anyone that doesn't like it can fuck off.
AK47 that shit!
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
justdoit ( member #25898) posted at 10:36 PM on Monday, October 17th, 2016
Although I've never met you I have such deep admiration for you - and for MH. To have fought the good fight for your own marriage (no small thing, as so many here know)and to turn that into this forum that has helped so, so many - well you must be Super Heros! And we all know cancer is not kryptonite so logic follows that cancer can't win! The new meds will work and you will win the battle! All the mojo in the world is coming your way - and cancer!!
Me - 67
WH - 74
Married 44 years
DDay - 5/14/09
He's reconciled, I'm in limbo.
"Stuck in the middle with you"
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 10:39 PM on Monday, October 17th, 2016
Sending positive thoughts your way. You truly are an inspiration.
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
I attempted R, he was a lie
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 12:21 AM on Tuesday, October 18th, 2016
Mmmmm .... tequila!
Just thinking of you and MH and wishing you the best.
...and a future with more... tequila...
[This message edited by Unhinged at 6:22 PM, October 17th, 2016 (Monday)]
Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 1:47 AM on Tuesday, October 18th, 2016
DS, I'll be saying a prayer to the "Patron Saint of SI" for you
My new ritual...you're spirit is inspiring DS.
Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 2:18 AM on Tuesday, October 18th, 2016
I'll pass on the tequila because...well...you know tequila makes my clothes fall off. Well, at least it did back in college, lol!
Great news and sending mojo for a positive outcome for you!
BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
Lovingmyselfmore ( member #46119) posted at 5:25 AM on Wednesday, October 19th, 2016
Thinking of both of you today and sending love and gratitude with all my heart.
(((DS and MH))))
Me: 42 EX: 46 gay or bisexual (go figure!) together: 12 years
Dday to 3 months: suicidal 1 year after: huge depression- 1.5 years still kind of depressed-Took me 2.5 years to be kind of happy again
takeadeepbreath ( member #26025) posted at 5:43 AM on Wednesday, October 19th, 2016
Sending Love and Strength your way DS.
Gentle Hugs and Prayers for your Peace of Mind knowing that you're doing Everything Humanly Possible to Win This Battle.
Sending Prayers up for an Immediate Miracle.
May God Speed with the answer to all of your prayers DS, and all of our prayers on your behalf.
Praying that you're held in the Light.
Much Love (((DS & MH)))
For all those born beneath an angry star
Lest we forget how fragile we are
Gordon Sumner ~ Fragile
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 6:39 PM on Wednesday, October 19th, 2016
More mojo, because you can never have too much!!
((((DS & MH))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 8:06 PM on Wednesday, October 19th, 2016
Big hopes for the new drug! Love the Hello Kitty hat, I think it is purrfect! (too much? lol)
We've got your back, sister! I hope you can feel us all back here.
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 8:27 PM on Wednesday, October 19th, 2016
Sending prayers for the new drug!
Flowers, a hat AND tequila?? Oh my!
Continue to feel our prayers, mojo and hugs as you go thru this, DS and MH. May you always feel them. They are meant just FOR YOU.
Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 4:46 AM on Thursday, October 20th, 2016
I sure do love you, Lady.
You stay on my prayer list and in my heart. And know this... that little lady in the movie War Room? Picture me in my War Room with your name on my wall.
Him, 45 (JMSSC)
Married 24 years. Reconciled.
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, October 20th, 2016
^^^same here!! You have an army of prayer warriors fighting with and for you DS! Hope today is painfree for you
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 4:43 PM on Thursday, October 20th, 2016
Tequila - The delete button for your brain. Hopefully making all the shit you are going through a bit more bearable.
You go girl. You two are an inspiration.
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
swizzlestick03 ( member #30102) posted at 8:12 PM on Thursday, October 20th, 2016
Lots of prayers and sunshine from FL! ❤️❤️❤️
D-Day #1: 16 August 2010
D-Day #2: 16 January 2011
One smallish kiddo.
Walloped ( member #48852) posted at 4:09 AM on Friday, October 21st, 2016
Thinking of you and the new drug trial tomorrow.
Had a conversation yesterday with my daughter who just passed her nursing boards about what field she wanted to enter and she mentioned the maternity ward because it's generally the most positive ward in a hospital.
And I thought, "True, unless you're at MD Anderson in Texas where DS is. The positive vibes there must be through the stratosphere!"
Prayers for you and MH.
Me: BH 47
Her: WW 46
"Every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don’t always soften the bad things, but vice versa the bad things don’t necessarily spoil the good things or make them unimportant.” - The Doctor