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UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 11:13 PM on Monday, December 19th, 2016

Remember we are all with you. 3rd round - piece of cake. Christmas is waiting.

Thinking of you - hugs from over the pond.

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

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Wool94 ( member #53300) posted at 10:12 AM on Wednesday, December 21st, 2016

Never been to this forum before, but, just wow! You two are amazing people! Your posts break my heart, but there's hope. There's always hope! God bless you! (((DS + MH))).

[This message edited by Wool94 at 4:12 AM, December 21st (Wednesday)]

D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Me: 1975
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009
"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks

"My faith is mine now."

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:28 PM on Wednesday, December 21st, 2016

As always.... in my thoughts and prayers.

Sending you both strength, hope and peace.

((DS & MH))

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 12:53 PM on Wednesday, December 21st, 2016

Still sending prayers and love your way

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 5:00 PM on Wednesday, December 21st, 2016

I pray for you everytime I come across your name...which is pretty often since I look for it. Glad you're home and ensconced in love.

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plainsong ( member #37826) posted at 8:01 PM on Thursday, December 22nd, 2016

I'm so glad you are back in your beautiful home with your beautiful and loving husband (and loving dogs). Enjoy your festive decorations and have a talk with your stomach and your immune system about taking in the proteins that will support you and your body for the next round of treatment. MERRY CHRISTMAS! HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Me, fWW
Him, fBH (sisoon)
Dday, 12/22/2010
I use capital letters for emphasis, not yelling.
Reconciled and healing.

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UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 9:53 PM on Thursday, December 22nd, 2016

I'm away for the Christmas season, but I'll be thinking of you and MH at this special time. Strength, health, mojos, prayers and anything else to help you back to how you were before this crap happened.

Much love to you both. Mr UKg and I shall raise a glass to you both on Christmas day - Cheers!

Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.
Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boys
Having an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom

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bitchboots ( member #38051) posted at 12:22 PM on Friday, December 23rd, 2016

(((((DS and MH)))))

Tonight I have been reading through this past year's journey for you, and I just wish I had words that would make everything better for the both of you. I broke down several times while reading your updates...at times because I felt sadness and anger for you....but mostly because of the deep love you two have for one another and how fucking unfair this is. I don't think there are many couples who have the kind of relationship you two have. The mutual love and respect you have and your deeply connected friendship is truly inspirational. I think of what you have created and those of us you have helped, and I feel blessed to have been a part of that at one time.

You are both in my thoughts and prayers. Big hugs.

Me: BS
DDay 4/27/2012---3 weeks after our 10 year anniversary.
Second DDay--1/2/2013--R is over

~~~~Finding my moxie~~~~
"May your past be the sound of your feet upon the ground"...FUN

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 2:09 AM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

I always wanted to post to a page 51.

Wanted to pop in and let you know that I'm still thinking of you both. Still sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.

Wishing you both a Merry Christmas!

yop

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 3:45 AM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

My dear DS,

I wanted to wish you and MH a very Merry Christmas with all the love and blessings of the season.

Sending love and mono and many hugs.

Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.

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Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 1:20 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

Thinking of you both, DS & MH! May the angel of peace and hope bring light!

P.S. My 15mo grandson loves to play with the beer salts!! I will have to try to snap a pic

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:20 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

No matter how busy the day, there is always time for thoughts of you. Wishing you comfort, ease and healing this holiday season.

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:38 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

..sending up prayers for healing...peace, love and joy to both of you..

..almost time to break out the egg nog!

smy

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!
Me 74 Her 70 Married 49 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumor!

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 4:24 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

Let's all send as much collective SI light and love as we can towards MH and DS today.

We love you and you are both in our thoughts and prayers.

DS, I know how much you love Christmas. Your house always looks so beautiful and you and MH are the most gracious hosts. Surely there are many, many angels with you today.

As we spend time with our loved ones over the holiday, the gifts that you both are to all of us will be in our hearts.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 10:43 AM, December 24th (Saturday)]

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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UR_AN_IDIOT ( member #18764) posted at 6:30 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

Much love, prayers and strength are being sent your way MH and DS.

As I look back at my life since we met I realize that all of the things I treasure most are intact today because of the gift you have both given with your labor of love, SI.

I want you both to know how much you are loved.

I carry you in my heart today. <3

Peace and strength.

UR

Me: BW 51
FWH: 52
Married 28 years
DD 26 DS 24
Reconciled 110%

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sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 7:00 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

Sending prayers, good thoughts and love your way this Christmas!

...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

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lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 8:06 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

Thinking of you both. Sending love and prayers.

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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cass ( member #24261) posted at 10:14 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

Covering you both in prayers, peace, strength and many Christmas blessings. Warm hugs too from across the pond. You can do this DS, you can enjoy this Christmas and fight on for many more.

((((DS & MH))))

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

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Edie ( member #26133) posted at 10:31 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

Dear DS and MH, joy and peace to you both this Christmas.

Xxx

Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

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trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 11:10 PM on Saturday, December 24th, 2016

What authenticnow said.

((((DS & MH))))

I hope Christmas brings you much love, peace and relief from pain. Holding you close as always.

tts

Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
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"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".

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