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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 8:32 PM on Saturday, March 24th, 2018

...which ended with me telling him "No f-f-f-f-f-fucking way, Charlie", both in redneck English and Portuguese

- Said Twisted to Regular Crazy (aka Stuttering) Charlie.

[This message edited by Chili at 2:39 PM, March 24th (Saturday)]

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Loving flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

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Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 4:04 AM on Friday, April 13th, 2018

Am I allowed to just copy and paste a quote here I think is awesome, or do I have to get the posters ok first?

Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 3:45 PM on Friday, April 13th, 2018

This is from GoldenR in his thread: "It wasn't about you"/"I never chose AP over you"

Sure, I've cheated on a diet. But when I cheated on my diet, I never ate a vagina. I draw the line at soda!!!

Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
-Brene Brown

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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 8:37 PM on Friday, April 13th, 2018

I haven't asked for permission from the originator. I sometimes apologized, but I don;t think I've ever asked for permission....

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 5:36 AM on Saturday, April 14th, 2018

hmmm.... sisoon, a guide you are, but know the answer you do not?

Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
-Brene Brown

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:57 PM on Tuesday, April 17th, 2018

And here I thought BCD meant bastard crybaby dick.

My bad

SCARLETT94 in JFO thread, the BS is high level Navy, it's acronym city there, clarification requested.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 11:58 AM, April 17th (Tuesday)]

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 5:33 AM on Wednesday, April 18th, 2018

I'm going to allow myself to mourn my lost marriage properly but I'm not going to internalize my stbxw's character flaws.

-LtCdrLost

Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
-Brene Brown

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twisted ( member #8873) posted at 3:17 PM on Wednesday, May 2nd, 2018

from DevestatingDee, in response to makesmewannapuke's vent:

Don't you just hate that? You look at them and think "There's no way you're that fucking stupid. Do not tell me that I married someone that fucking stupid. Only a dumbass would have married someone this fucking stupid. Come on, try one more time. Get it right for the sake of my own damned self-esteem."

[This message edited by twisted at 9:17 AM, May 2nd (Wednesday)]

"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

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IceThee ( member #53715) posted at 7:11 AM on Sunday, June 3rd, 2018

Are there rules for this thread?

"It's ok to not be ok"

Me: BS Him: xH (still cheating I'm sure)
Dday 1: November 2012 (didn’t realize it was a Dday until April 2018)
Dday 2: April 2016 Dday 3: July 2017
D final July 2018

"He who is without sin, cast

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IceThee ( member #53715) posted at 8:01 AM on Sunday, June 3rd, 2018

Chili, D/S, in response to thread “Famous Last Words from WH”:

They all sound like fortune cookies where the translator was not quite fluent

"It's ok to not be ok"

Me: BS Him: xH (still cheating I'm sure)
Dday 1: November 2012 (didn’t realize it was a Dday until April 2018)
Dday 2: April 2016 Dday 3: July 2017
D final July 2018

"He who is without sin, cast

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Bigger ( Guide #8354) posted at 10:29 AM on Wednesday, June 6th, 2018

a person who cheats betrays her/his own self first before they betray their partner.

Jduff with one of the quotes of the century IMHO.

"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 2:06 PM on Saturday, June 9th, 2018

Are there rules for this thread?

You seem to have figured out what they are.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 4:50 PM on Wednesday, June 13th, 2018

The best listeners are found on Casual Encounters on Craigslist.

Brilliance from Lilies21

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 4:19 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2018

The only thing that's going to stop his cheating is two broken legs, his phone and computer and iPad taken away, his mouth duct-taped and the world supply of Cialis and Vigara completely obliterated. Otherwise, all bets are off.

NoMercy to an OW (now BW) on what it will take for her WH (formerly ACC) to be faithful to her.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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honesttoafault ( member #27105) posted at 5:01 AM on Sunday, June 24th, 2018

The person you'd have taken a bullet for is the one holding the gun.

Josiep in The Divorce and Separation section. Perfect!!! This sums it all up beautifully!!

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Hope2B ( member #40474) posted at 9:29 AM on Sunday, June 24th, 2018

I have not read through all the pages but I really want to quote myself.

WH (in his 60s, very overweight, with ED/PE/and a weenis) had a LTA with a prostitute, he was sure she was not a hooker (he thought she was a 'girl' down on her luck until our pastor told him differently), he believed he was the only one she was "seeing" and by golly, he was convinced he got her off.

WH: How do you know I didn't get her off?

Me: Because I've had sex with you!

Cue the hilarity!

DDay: Feb. 25, 2013
Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)

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Hope2B ( member #40474) posted at 9:32 AM on Sunday, June 24th, 2018

Oh, I gotta say I LOVE the quote by DevastatedDee. To me, it bears repeating!!!!

Don't you just hate that? You look at them and think "There's no way you're that fucking stupid. Do not tell me that I married someone that fucking stupid. Only a dumbass would have married someone this fucking stupid. Come on, try one more time. Get it right for the sake of my own damned self-esteem."

[This message edited by Hope2B at 3:38 AM, June 24th (Sunday)]

DDay: Feb. 25, 2013
Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)

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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:39 PM on Wednesday, June 27th, 2018

From OldWounds:

I think we only have to accept that it happened, I don't think we have to accept as if we're somehow okay with it.

[This message edited by sisoon at 12:40 PM, June 27th (Wednesday)]

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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CaptainRogers ( member #57127) posted at 12:23 AM on Thursday, July 19th, 2018

Expecting the O's to get a deal like this right is like expecting Charlie Brown to finally kick that *&%# football...

Oldwounds, discussing the potential trade of Manny Machado from the Baltimore Orioles.

BS: 42 on D-day
WW: 43 on D-day
Together since '89; still working on what tomorrow will bring.
D-Day v1.0: Jan '17; EA
D-day v2.0: Mar '18; no, it was physical

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:52 PM on Thursday, July 19th, 2018

Strutter1960, with two winners in the same post "335 Days..."

Hello Fellow Suffers of the Shit Sandwich Happymeal.

I'm happy rediscovering the life I gave up when I married the deranged, disordered concubine

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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