ChamomileTea ( Guide #53574) posted at 8:46 PM on Monday, May 9th, 2022
This is painful...and the first year with seeing her new patterns can feel like the unending fuckening. Remember that this is ornamental and not functional...kinda like a Kentucky Derby hat.
A gem from Funnelcakes, mined in the Divorce/Separation forum. 
{edited to BOLD the author}
[This message edited by ChamomileTea at 8:49 PM, Monday, May 9th]
BW: 2004(online EAs), 2014 (multiple PAs)Married 38 years; in R with fWH for 7
No one can make you into a liar but you.
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 4:24 PM on Saturday, June 18th, 2022
I was able to drive home ok, I’m so sore, and swollen in the face, but my junk has recovered 😀 Told my W, heart and lungs, meh. But when the junk isn’t right "Call 911!!!’"🤣
From Tanner in the Off Topic Forum...talking about an allergic reaction to a bee sting in his thread titled I Had a Health Scare today.
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
MIgander ( member #71285) posted at 2:00 PM on Tuesday, June 21st, 2022
Dr. Phil said he tried to work with NPD patients, but it was above his pay grade. laugh
From the D forum- once a narc, always a narc.
Thanks leafields!
[This message edited by MIgander at 2:00 PM, Tuesday, June 21st]
WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Back at it again- bantering w the younger woman. Lied about blocking phone calls and deleted texts. Carried on with her. Financial infidelity again- who says you only cheat with lovers?
MIgander ( member #71285) posted at 8:27 PM on Tuesday, June 21st, 2022
I... politely tell them that I don't need their diagnosis, I just need them to tell me the behavior and the events.
... I tell them that some people are, in fact, merely married to common assholes.
Thanks Wiseoldfool! In General about narcs.
WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Back at it again- bantering w the younger woman. Lied about blocking phone calls and deleted texts. Carried on with her. Financial infidelity again- who says you only cheat with lovers?
MIgander ( member #71285) posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, September 8th, 2022
If he wants to hoard his secret life like it's a box of treasure instead of a shit filled cesspool, I can't change that, but I can change what I do while he continues to lie.
From Sigyn in JFO.
WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Back at it again- bantering w the younger woman. Lied about blocking phone calls and deleted texts. Carried on with her. Financial infidelity again- who says you only cheat with lovers?
