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Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS

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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 3:37 PM on Friday, September 26th, 2014

BUMP

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
id 6959670
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 11:19 PM on Monday, October 6th, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6969495
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 8:10 PM on Wednesday, October 29th, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6993230
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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 12:27 AM on Sunday, November 2nd, 2014

BUMP

Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 6997090
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:56 PM on Saturday, November 8th, 2014

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7004511
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 11:17 PM on Friday, November 14th, 2014

Bump

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26163   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7010757
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:20 PM on Saturday, November 22nd, 2014

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7019272
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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 5:35 PM on Sunday, November 30th, 2014

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Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

posts: 6902   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2009   ·   location: Munchkinland
id 7026515
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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 11:56 PM on Wednesday, December 3rd, 2014

bump

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

posts: 3505   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2012   ·   location: Connecticut
id 7030041
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 4:31 PM on Thursday, December 4th, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 7030669
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trustedg ( member #44465) posted at 4:40 PM on Thursday, December 4th, 2014

Thanks for pushing this back up. I didn't find SI until well after day and made a lot of mistakes. Could have used this.

Me BWHim WH DDay 12/2012Married a long time, in R

posts: 2308   ·   registered: Aug. 11th, 2014
id 7030680
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:31 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014

Bump for weekend

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7033130
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Ready2beFree ( member #45913) posted at 10:21 PM on Thursday, December 11th, 2014

Great Post, thanks!

D-Day: 11/10/2014

posts: 69   ·   registered: Dec. 10th, 2014
id 7039243
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:26 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7048676
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:19 AM on Thursday, December 25th, 2014

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7054036
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:57 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2015

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7065260
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 lordhasaplan? (original poster member #30079) posted at 6:51 PM on Wednesday, January 7th, 2015

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BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 7069943
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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:27 AM on Sunday, January 18th, 2015

bump

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

posts: 3505   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2012   ·   location: Connecticut
id 7082972
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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 8:31 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2015

bump

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

posts: 5668   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 7084896
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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:49 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015

bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5955   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 7096790
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