Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 2:13 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
OH, DS, I am so sorry to hear the news.
BUT, the fact that you are at a top tier medical facility eases my mind.
I will come out if you need me. Yes, I will. No question.
You got this.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 2:23 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Sending prayers and mono and huge hugs.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 2:30 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
((( DS & MH ))))I am sending a million good thoughts and prayers your way! YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS! Hugs to you and MH. We love you both...
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 2:38 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
{{{DS}}} {{{MH}}}
Those cancer cells had better be 'deeply scared' of you because you are one feisty and formidable woman and have a very strong support system around you (starting with MH)!
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
nme1 ( member #44360) posted at 2:41 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
OMG! Sending you both all the healing mojo I can muster. It's easy to see that you are surrounded by people that love you both.
Me: BS
Him: WS
M 16 yrs 2 x DS
D-Day 6th March 2014
lilies21 ( member #35833) posted at 2:58 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
(((Deeply Scared)))
I'm so sorry, DS. I'm so glad you have wonderful support from family and friends!
Me: BS, 30s.
One son.
Many D-Days for excessive porn, Craigslist ads, and EAs/PAs.
Happily divorced since September 2015.
latebloomer45 ( member #18021) posted at 3:12 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Let the cancer ass- kicking BEGIN!
Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 3:16 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Oh DS, I am so very sorry you are facing this battle. Your health & attitude will play a huge role in your conquering this beast!
I will keep you & MH in my prayers for strength & courage throughout this journey.
[This message edited by Lucky2HaveMe at 11:30 AM, April 18th (Monday)]
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
xswimmer ( member #44867) posted at 3:37 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
You and MH are in my prayers. You can kick this.
{{{{DS}}}}
ChewedMeUp ( member #8008) posted at 3:49 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Mojo and prayers and good thoughts of ass-kicking for you!
BS - over 40
DivorcED, finally.
2 Kids
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:03 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Flinging all the mojo I have your way... I have every confidence you will kick ass!
(((DS & MH)))
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:31 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Aw, @#$%&*! Any mojo I have is on its way.
Laughter supposedly will help - look for a local outlet for the 'Antenna' network. Johnny Carson is on at 10 PM 5 nights a week and 9 PM on weekends, and it gets repeated later. On those nights you can't sleep, tune in. Carson and his guests define 'laughter provoking'. It's so good that plainsong will sometimes stay up past her favorite bedtime to watch. 
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 4:37 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Oh, DS, I'm so sorry to hear this. My gut feeling is that if ANYONE can beat this, it will be you. It's really important to stay positive. In 1998, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer as a fluke; I was prone to ovarian cysts and my doctor sent me for a scan for what we thought was another cyst. There was, but the scan also showed The Big C. Stage 1, which is almost never discovered. The next place my doctor sent me was to a local gentleman who specialized in positive thinking. This man--some people called him a faith healer, he was not per se-- taught me all kinds of visualization techniques for mentally attacking the disease. If you have someone like that in your community, I would wholeheartedly recommend getting an appointment soon as possible. You can't start mentally zapping that shit fast enough. I know how hard it is to stay positive in the face of a scary diagnosis, so we need all the help we can get.
In the meantime, all the prayers, mojo, good thoughts, etc. that I can possibly muster are with you.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
hellzapoppin ( member #5655) posted at 4:51 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
healing vibes and prayers for you
Him-WH
Me - BW
M 22 years
Divorced by stealth
UnlovedAndBroked ( member #47870) posted at 5:17 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
DS & MH,
I am so deeply moved by reading this. You've got my prayers/mojo/vibes/thoughts.
Hugs to you both.
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
scarredforever ( member #23875) posted at 5:35 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Prayers for healing and fortitude.
"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."
Mark Twain
Me-BS 54
Him-WS 55
Together 35 years
6-5-06 Day of Reckoning
Familiarity breeds contempt.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 6:16 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Oh man - I am so sorry!
Sending mojo to you and all the warriors here that are fighting the battle.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 6:20 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
DS,
I just saw this post. I echo what everyone else has said. If you or MH need anything at all, you know how to get in touch with me.
Tred
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 6:50 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Oh, DS. This blows. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. Sending you and MH all the healing light and energy I can muster.
I fucking hate cancer.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 8:27 PM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Wow. I totally missed this, until today. I just stopped by to see if you guys were okay because of the flooding.
It's a rollercoaster, for sure! I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
