jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 12:52 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
DS - If any one can kick cancer's tired old ass, you can!!!
All my love and prayers and mojo for you and MH.
If you need anything, anything at all, please don't hesitate to ask your community here. We're all here for you.
((((DS and MH))))
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 2:26 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
You know you have our prayers, DS.
Love you. 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Mommato4 ( member #15906) posted at 2:35 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Sending positive healing mojo!!
BS-me 34
XH-doesn't matter
4 kids
Divorced-7/25/2008
sportsfan ( member #9918) posted at 3:08 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
You were here for me while I battled and beat my cancer - in turn I will be here for you while you battle and beat yours’.
MD Anderson Houston is awesome…you’re in great hands.
Kuwaited ( member #5491) posted at 3:53 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Very sorry to hear this. 
But I believe this to be the case:
DS - If any one can kick cancer's tired old ass, you can!!!
Plus….I have a feeling MH will have a part in that!
Positive thoughts to you and MH.
"For every trip to the vet, there's a car ride.", Satchel Pooch.
"At some point in life, everyone has gambled on a fart and lost." -- Tad.
"When the bad stuff happens, you walk it off any way you can"
Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 4:03 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Wow...the love on this thread is overwhelming...truly and deeply...unbelievable. Thank you so very, very much!!
FH...my darling friend!! I have the same wonderfully special Post It note from 15 years ago in our address book. Amazing how far we go back...and I love you to pieces!
Today was a wonderfully awful day 
And Saturday they will be shaving my head because I can't stand the thought of it falling out and solidifying that I'm sick. So, I'd rather take control and have it done on my terms...not to mention that wigs are incredibly beautiful (and fucking EXPENSIVE!!! )so I'm ready to go.
Today my tumor started bleeding during my exam and my radiologist said "it's ok...that will happen" and I said "that's because I scare the shit out of it!" 
So, onward and upward...full force right on through it!!!
AK47 This Shit!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
punky ( member #12233) posted at 4:21 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Oh DS...I just don't know what to say. Thinking of you and MH and sending prayers for all the kick-ass-ery you can summon-- which knowing you will be quite a bit! I think you have the right attitude and know you of all people can "AK47" this crap. Let me know if there is anything I can do. I'm not that far away.
Remember you are deeply loved by many. ❤️❤️❤️
13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 4:26 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Praying for a full recovery, you wonderful woman. Every hair that falls out is a signal that cancer is dying.
I believe your cancer has officially been named New York Jerry!!
You and MH take care of eachother!
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:38 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Every hair that falls out is a signal that cancer is dying.
This is what we believe in our family, too!
Saturday they will be shaving my head because I can't stand the thought of it falling out and solidifying that I'm sick. So, I'd rather take control and have it done on my terms...not to mention that wigs are incredibly beautiful (and fucking EXPENSIVE!!! )so I'm ready to go.
BRAVO!
timetraveler ( new member #40714) posted at 7:15 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
DS & MH,
Sending you prayers, strength, confidence & positive thoughts.
You've got the feisty part already covered.
BW-49
WH-52
M-27, 2 great kids 20's
DD#1 1/10
DD#2 8/13, same COW
When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard & steep. For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you.
Kahlil Gibran
ADryHeat ( member #46484) posted at 7:16 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Healing thoughts and energy being sent your way from Arizona.
Me: BSMarried 11 years, 2 young kidsDDay 11/3/14, Discovered he was still a fuckwit: 7/10/15 DIVORCED 11/12/2015"Sometimes when you're in a dark place you think you've been buried, but actually you've been planted."
MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 8:09 AM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Deeply Scared, I can't possibly express my thanks sufficiently for this site, and all that you do.
Just wanted to send my heartfelt love, respect, thanks and
M-O-J-O M-O-J-O. M-O-J-O M-O-J-O
.......from across the pond.
MOB x
Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.
tournesoleil ( member #47101) posted at 12:20 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Sending hugs and prayers to you and MH.
Me: BW Him: WH Married in 1986 D-Day: 3/14/2014, TT until January 2016 D-Day #2: 10/31/2016 (LTA 1997-2009)
NaiveAgain ( member #20849) posted at 12:40 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
You will beat this. You MUST, because we all need you. The world needs you and a lot more people like you.
Well said!
And Saturday they will be shaving my head because I can't stand the thought of it falling out and solidifying that I'm sick. So, I'd rather take control and have it done on my terms...not to mention that wigs are incredibly beautiful (and fucking EXPENSIVE!!! )so I'm ready to go.
So now, you can try all the colors and styles you weren't sure about before. Be bold and adventurous!!!! Maybe something like:
Or, personally I LOVE blue....
I could totally see you in something like this....
I could also see you rocking the long red....
You could change every day...be someone different every day and surprise everybody!
Whatcha think? 
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Briarrose33 ( member #46345) posted at 2:46 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
DS-
When I went through my own battle with cancer years ago. A good friend bought me a necklace with this poem. It always meant a lot to me.
What Cancer Can Not Do
Cancer is so limited...
It cannot cripple love.
It cannot shatter hope.
It cannot corrode faith.
It cannot eat away peace.
It cannot destroy confidence.
It cannot kill friendship.
It cannot shut out memories.
It cannot silence courage.
It cannot reduce eternal life.
It cannot quench the Spirit.
I am sorry this is happening. I am glad you have access to good treatment and support. I will be thinking of you and MH. You have helped so many...now we can give back to you. When you need laughs, we will be here to provide them. When you need love, feel 50,000 hugs surrounding you. When you feel like you can't fight anymore, know that we are all just a tap out away...use our strength. We have your back, your front....well with 50,000 people...any side you have is covered! Lots of love and prayers being sent your way!
Me-BW-34
WH-34 (SA)
10 months- prostitutes and massage parlors
DDay #1- 10/17/14
DDay/TT #2- 10/22/14
DDay/TT #3- 10/24/14
StrongHeart ( member #45092) posted at 3:00 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
I am so sorry DS. I will be praying for you and MH as well. It so crazy that you would have to go through this, but you have truly shown how strong you are in the past! You will AK47 this shit for sure!
BS: 32; XWH: 34; DS: 3
DDay: 3/8/2014; D: 8/31/2015
"There is little growing in comfort and little comfort in growing"-unknown
"Don't take your emotional temperature in the ass of a psychopath."-unknown
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 3:59 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
AK47 the fuck outta that cancer!!!!!
And preemptively shaving your hair is genius! I shaved half of mine and it is very liberating.
You & MH are loved, supported, held up in prayer, and protected by your SI family.
I believe your cancer has officially been named New York Jerry!!
ITA!!
XOXOXOXO
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 4:29 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
Sorry so late to this news… sending love, mojo and strength
xx
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 4:54 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
I just saw this.
Praying for you.
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
cocoabean ( member #76) posted at 5:09 PM on Wednesday, April 20th, 2016
You are strong and you are loved.
Sending you positive thoughts and healing energy. (Wish there was more I could give you - I owe you so much)
CB
"There are only two types of women - goddesses and doormats"
*Pablo Picasso*
"I am a goddess"
*Cocoabean*
