Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 11:56 AM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
Praying for you each and every day. You look gorgeous by the way!
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
Scarlett12 ( member #48889) posted at 12:51 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
You are a beautiful lady but more importantly you are a beautiful soul.
As a stage 3 cervical cancer survivor I want to give you tons of hugs and prayers.
In a weird way my battle with cancer was much like my walk with infidelity and reconciliation. Setbacks, finding my inner strength, leaps of hope and promise, despair, joy, exhausted, devastations, and love.... and ultimately being successful.
Much love to you and to yours as you travel this road.. Successfully......
Marriage #1
WW-ME
BS-ex
Divorced
Marriage#2
Me:BS
Him:FWH
Reconciled successfully since 1993
Keep passing the open windows
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 1:25 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
I have been off site for a few weeks now and just saw this. I am so sorry DS. My prayers and thoughts are with you and MH. Your strength and determination are incredible. I know you will beat this. (((((DS))))) (((((MH)))))
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 3:31 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
You look great, you're doing GREAT, keep fighting like a girl and FUCK CANCER!!!
((((DS)))) ((((MH))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 5:01 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
You look great! You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. You've got this and we've all got you.
yop
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
LoveActually ( member #31030) posted at 5:03 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
I hate cancer!! You look amazing and strong enough to battle anything. Sending you prayers and hugs 
BS (Me) WS (Him) D-Day 5/29/09Married 15 yrs, together 20 yrs
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:10 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
(((((DS and MH)))))
Right now I'm visualizing the chemo beating the crap out of your cancer cells like one of those old Batman TV show fight scenes.
Stupid cancer doesn't stand a chance. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:23 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:52 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
((((DS and MH))))
You kick ass, my friend. That crap doesn't stand a chance. Sending mojo, love, and strength.
madseason ( member #13224) posted at 12:27 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
Doll, you look *be-yoo-tiful*!! I know I only met you once, but you are one of my favorite people. Ever. And that's saying a lot. 
Attitude is everything and you have the right attitude!! You have been in my thoughts and I hope you keep us updated.
Lose my breath in waves
Knowing that every crash is bleeding the hourglass
And taking the stride
From all our lives
*Somewhere, far away from here, I saw stars. Stars that I could reach.*
Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 12:48 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
Continued prayers & mojo my friend! Love the hair!!
You got this!!
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 1:32 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
Your new hair looks SO pretty and natural! I love it!
jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 1:37 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
Continued prayers for you. ((( DS))))
Skye ( member #325) posted at 1:47 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
I just saw this and wanted to add my good thoughts for you. I will be keeping my fingers crossed that your treatment and healing go easy for you. While you're fighting this horrible disease, remember to self care.
JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 2:36 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
Wow, you look stunning, and I'm happy to see that smile.
That hair is yours, right? I know you were going to shave it off and get a wig. That looks like your own hair, so natural, so just checking?
What a busy week you're having. I hope you get a lot of time to nap while all these treatments are happening.
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 3:49 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
You're a fucking rock star DS!!!!!
Love you!!!!
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:16 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
DS, you look great. Take good care of yourself and get lots of rest.(((((DS)))))
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
devotedfool68 ( member #38047) posted at 4:38 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016
I just now am seeing this😞😞😞
You are in my prayers ((DS))
BH 47
WW 39 (Lost94)
DS 17
DS 16
many DDays, primary 7/4/2012 and 8/10/2012
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:14 AM on Friday, April 29th, 2016
I love your hair!!!! I was secretly hoping you'd post a picture, but I felt that was selfish of me, so I didn't say anything. I always wondered what you'd look like with your hair down and now I know!!! 
Beautiful either way!
Failure is success if we learn from it.
trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 8:49 AM on Friday, April 29th, 2016
Sending lots of Aussie mojo across the miles lovely lady.
You got this.
tts
Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
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"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".
