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SI Prayers/Mojo Request...Cancer


Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 11:56 AM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

Praying for you each and every day. You look gorgeous by the way!

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

posts: 8410   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2008   ·   location: Not Oz
id 7540181

Scarlett12 ( member #48889) posted at 12:51 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

You are a beautiful lady but more importantly you are a beautiful soul.

As a stage 3 cervical cancer survivor I want to give you tons of hugs and prayers.

In a weird way my battle with cancer was much like my walk with infidelity and reconciliation. Setbacks, finding my inner strength, leaps of hope and promise, despair, joy, exhausted, devastations, and love.... and ultimately being successful.

Much love to you and to yours as you travel this road.. Successfully......

Marriage #1

Reconciled successfully since 1993
Keep passing the open windows

posts: 438   ·   registered: Aug. 9th, 2015   ·   location: Indiana
id 7540203

devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 1:25 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

I have been off site for a few weeks now and just saw this. I am so sorry DS. My prayers and thoughts are with you and MH. Your strength and determination are incredible. I know you will beat this. (((((DS))))) (((((MH)))))

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

posts: 1930   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2013   ·   location: Ontario, Canada
id 7540220

ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 3:31 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

You look great, you're doing GREAT, keep fighting like a girl and FUCK CANCER!!!

((((DS)))) ((((MH))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

posts: 8443   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2009   ·   location: EU
id 7540357

yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 5:01 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

You look great! You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. You've got this and we've all got you.


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4519   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 7540469

LoveActually ( member #31030) posted at 5:03 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

I hate cancer!! You look amazing and strong enough to battle anything. Sending you prayers and hugs

BS (Me)
WS (Him)
D-Day 5/29/09
Married 15 yrs, together 20 yrs

posts: 862   ·   registered: Jan. 30th, 2011
id 7540480

nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:10 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

(((((DS and MH)))))

Right now I'm visualizing the chemo beating the crap out of your cancer cells like one of those old Batman TV show fight scenes.

Stupid cancer doesn't stand a chance.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

posts: 40250   ·   registered: Aug. 29th, 2011
id 7540487

sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:23 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

(((DS))) & (((MH)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 27296   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 7540930

jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:52 PM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2016

((((DS and MH))))

You kick ass, my friend. That crap doesn't stand a chance. Sending mojo, love, and strength.

posts: 51034   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2011
id 7540963

madseason ( member #13224) posted at 12:27 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

Doll, you look *be-yoo-tiful*!! I know I only met you once, but you are one of my favorite people. Ever. And that's saying a lot. Attitude is everything and you have the right attitude!! You have been in my thoughts and I hope you keep us updated.

Lose my breath in waves
Knowing that every crash is bleeding the hourglass
And taking the stride
From all our lives

*Somewhere, far away from here, I saw stars. Stars that I could reach.*

posts: 10443   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2007   ·   location: Southeast of Disorder
id 7541021

Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 12:48 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

Continued prayers & mojo my friend! Love the hair!!

You got this!!

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

posts: 8488   ·   registered: Jan. 18th, 2007   ·   location: WNY
id 7541039

ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 1:32 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

Your new hair looks SO pretty and natural! I love it!

posts: 12215   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 7541074

jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 1:37 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

Continued prayers for you. ((( DS))))

posts: 869   ·   registered: Jan. 27th, 2013   ·   location: SE PA
id 7541078

Skye ( member #325) posted at 1:47 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

I just saw this and wanted to add my good thoughts for you. I will be keeping my fingers crossed that your treatment and healing go easy for you. While you're fighting this horrible disease, remember to self care.

posts: 5662   ·   registered: Jul. 21st, 2002
id 7541091

JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 2:36 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

Wow, you look stunning, and I'm happy to see that smile.

That hair is yours, right? I know you were going to shave it off and get a wig. That looks like your own hair, so natural, so just checking?

What a busy week you're having. I hope you get a lot of time to nap while all these treatments are happening.

posts: 3077   ·   registered: Nov. 25th, 2003   ·   location: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada
id 7541140

CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 3:49 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

You're a fucking rock star DS!!!!!

Love you!!!!

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

posts: 1968   ·   registered: Oct. 11th, 2011
id 7541196

Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:16 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

DS, you look great. Take good care of yourself and get lots of rest.(((((DS)))))

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
id 7541218

devotedfool68 ( member #38047) posted at 4:38 AM on Thursday, April 28th, 2016

I just now am seeing this😞😞😞

You are in my prayers ((DS))

BH 47
WW 39 (Lost94)
DS 17
DS 16

many DDays, primary 7/4/2012 and 8/10/2012

posts: 300   ·   registered: Jan. 8th, 2013
id 7541229

little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:14 AM on Friday, April 29th, 2016

I love your hair!!!! I was secretly hoping you'd post a picture, but I felt that was selfish of me, so I didn't say anything. I always wondered what you'd look like with your hair down and now I know!!! Beautiful either way!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

posts: 5493   ·   registered: Aug. 1st, 2007   ·   location: michigan
id 7542176

trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 8:49 AM on Friday, April 29th, 2016

Sending lots of Aussie mojo across the miles lovely lady.

You got this.


Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.

"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".

posts: 8212   ·   registered: Feb. 7th, 2006   ·   location: The Land Down Under
id 7542361
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