ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 1:43 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
I only wish I lived closer.
Covering you in prayer for strength and healing.
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:11 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Sending strength and mojo.
Thos really pisses me off that you have to go through this.
((( And strength))))
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Owl6118 ( member #42806) posted at 2:19 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
My thoughts and best hopes go with you both.
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 2:19 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Well that fucking sucks!
At least you are in a good area for treatment and it sounds like a good protocol.
Prayers going up and will continue to go up till this is beat!
Love you DS!!!
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 2:29 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
DS, I'm here for you. Whatever, and I do mean whatever you and/or MH need me to do I will do. I work 10 minutes from the medical center too. Sending you my love and my prayers.
(((DS & MH)))
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 2:37 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
DS - I'm sending you all the mojo I can muster...ill say a prayer for you as well. You got this DS - if anyone can kick cancer's ass it's you...give 'em hell...💖
(((DS & MH)))
My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 2:38 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
So sorry to hear this. I wish that there was something amazing I could say that would help you feel better.
What I will say is that I will be thinking about you, hoping that this goes absolutely the best way possible and that you have the best drs around. Keep us up on what is going on. Hugs. TG
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:44 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Sending prayers and mojo so that you can fight this. Please get lots of rest, if you aren't already eating clean, start doing so. Lots and lots of organic, fresh vegies. Incorporate flax seed in wherever you can. Your body is going to need all the strength it can get to recover from chemo. I'm sorry you are going through this but there is no doubt you can beat this.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
Jada4Max ( member #43987) posted at 2:48 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
LTL sending thoughts prayers and good wishes to you.
Peace, Love and Soul!
madseason ( member #13224) posted at 2:49 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Oh, DS. I hate to hear this!! I will be keeping you and MH in my thoughts and sending all my mojo to Texas!!
Lose my breath in waves
Knowing that every crash is bleeding the hourglass
And taking the stride
From all our lives
*Somewhere, far away from here, I saw stars. Stars that I could reach.*
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 3:17 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
(((DS and MH)))
You know how LD and I feel about you both. You are family. We have all the faith in the world that you will kick cancer's ass.
Sending all kinds of good stuff your way. Love you.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:23 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
..you got it DS!
Hear my prayer. I am asking for Your help.
I know this lady, well, sort of.. she's a pen pal friend of mine. Actually I'm just one of many friends, more than 50,000 friends she knows.
How many people can say they know 50,000 friends??
You see, she started this 'club'.. to help other people who really, really needed help themselves.
... and its been done all on her own dime!! So , yes she is generous above and beyond..
This very wonderful, special woman now is the one who needs help.. Your special kind of help..
Dear God, You know this lady too.. if You could look in on her and pass Your healing hand over her. I and 50,000 others in her club would really appreciate it. Thank You Lord. Amen
DS ..your positivity will beat this..
[This message edited by somanyyears at 9:48 PM, April 17th (Sunday)]
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 74 Her 70 Married 49 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumor!
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 3:45 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Nothing but prayers, MOJO and ((((DS)))
BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 3:52 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
DS, like you said, you live in a place where if you're going to have to stand this ground, there arent many better places to make that stand. While I won't discount the amazing things that happen in local medical centers, you have so much more here on top of world class healthcare. You have the support of so many, many people you and MH have touched. Lean on us and let us give you anything we can. Sending strength and the gifts you've given so very many - the gifts of support,safety, and survival.
Keeping you in my thoughts. Let us know anything, and I mean anything we can do for you. Looking forward to celebrating when you beat this thing!
[This message edited by MadeOfScars at 9:53 PM, April 17th (Sunday)]
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” - Steve Maraboli
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 4:15 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
The original survivor.
You got this. I am pulling for you, believing in you, praying for all involved.
Much love, my friend. Thank you for honoring us with your news and allowing the thousands who gather here to participate in your journey to healing.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:18 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Covering you in prayer my dear friend!!
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 4:30 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Sending as much mojo ans I can your way.
circe ( member #6687) posted at 4:43 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
((((DS and MH)))))
Sending you both warm hugs!
Everything I ever let go of has claw marks on it -- Infinite Jest
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 4:44 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
Holding you and MH up in prayer. I'm so sorry to hear this.
It was just a few short weeks ago that we were having a discussion about how Houston is the place to be if you need cancer treatments.
I know you've got the fight in you, and you've got all of us behind you.
You are loved. (((DS)))
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 4:49 AM on Monday, April 18th, 2016
DS, please know you are covered in prayer here in the SSC household. Take care of yourself, kick this thing's butt and get better asap.
Hugs and so much love.
Him, 45 (JMSSC)
Married 24 years. Reconciled.