Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:01 AM on Saturday, June 18th, 2016
I'm so glad to hear the news that it hasn't spread. Now, to kill off the rest of the bastard! (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
madseason ( member #13224) posted at 1:28 AM on Saturday, June 18th, 2016
Still thinking about you. MWAH. 
Lose my breath in waves
Knowing that every crash is bleeding the hourglass
And taking the stride
From all our lives
*Somewhere, far away from here, I saw stars. Stars that I could reach.*
JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 3:39 AM on Saturday, June 18th, 2016
fantastic news DS. You continue to be in my thoughts.
timetraveler ( new member #40714) posted at 3:10 PM on Wednesday, June 22nd, 2016
Positive thoughts, prayers, energy and peace coming your way. Big hugs to that caregiver, MH!
BW-49
WH-52
M-27, 2 great kids 20's
DD#1 1/10
DD#2 8/13, same COW
When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard & steep. For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you.
Kahlil Gibran
tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 3:51 PM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2016
Thinking of you DS and wishing you the very best.
Hoping that this clears quickly so you can stop treatments.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
truthsetmefree ( member #7168) posted at 5:30 PM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2016
Hugs, DS...big, big hugs.
Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo
Funny thing, I quit being broken when I quit letting people break me.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 10:50 PM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2016
DS.......hoping your day has been good. 😊
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
soverybetrayed ( member #32948) posted at 11:56 PM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2016
Oh DS I am so sorry to hear this. I just saw this thread and am sorry that I am late to send you hugs and prayers.
I will send up a few dozen prayers that you are ok and it shrinks. Wished I was closer so I could take you food or whatever you need. My heart goes out to you and MH.
Me- Happily single
Divorced 8/23/2012
I am stronger and better than before.
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 2:21 AM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
Still thinking of you and hoping you are doing as well as can be.
#ak47thatshit
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Deeply Scared (original poster administrator #2) posted at 11:31 AM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
AK47 This Shit is right!!!!!!!!
Today is finally here...MY LAST DAY OF RADIATION!!!!!!! I get to ring the bell when I'm done too...lol!!! At 1:00pm my time...I'm outta there!!!!!!!! 
Certainly not done with more treatments, but for now...radiation is behind me. I can take just about anything that this shit bag of cancer has dealt me, but radiation just knocks me down from the pain and exhaustion.
My boss said to me yesterday that she's amazed that I'm working through all of this and I told her that unless I'm making significant mistakes and no one is telling me, I want to continue to work. I have the greatest management team and co-workers any one could ask for 
Thank you everyone for your continued support!
And did I see Truthsetme's name???? Holy Mother...I can't believe its you!!!!!!!! Thank you so much for popping in and saying Hi...you are such a gem
[This message edited by SI Staff at 8:30 AM, June 24th (Friday)]
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:48 AM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
That's great DS!!! You are a total inspiration. I'm so happy I've got tears running down my face. You made it through this part and whatever comes next I know you'll keep going strong. Many hugs and prayers.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
amitheow ( member #4691) posted at 2:03 PM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5 hour countdown!
Old Timer, Just here to help
My screen name is: Am I The Ow? - Not Ami the OW.
Because in my situation I didn't know if I was the OW at first or if I was being cheated on. Found I was being cheated on.
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 2:29 PM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
I'll be celebrating at 1:00 your time with you!!! You are one tough amazing lady!!!
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:50 PM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
Woo hoooooo, and don't let that radiation door hit you in the ass on the way out!!
Sending more strength and mojo, and positive healing thoughts. Cancer picked the wrong person to fuck with!!
((((DS))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:08 PM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
I swear, I just heard a bell ringing.
(((((DS)))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 7:10 PM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
Ding dong!!!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:17 PM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 9:57 PM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 10:47 PM on Friday, June 24th, 2016
WHOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 4:33 AM on Saturday, June 25th, 2016
((((hugs)))
You are amazing woman.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
