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grubs ( member #77165) posted at 6:33 PM on Tuesday, April 13th, 2021
Hate Ohio, not Michigan. M! Go Blue!
Don't hate the entire state because of the fans that are so very proud they can spell the four letter state name.
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 7:07 PM on Tuesday, April 13th, 2021
I'm sure it is not just me, but shortly post-infidelity, I could relate ANYTHING to the A. Right down to our dog peeing on the floor inside the house.....yep--directly related to the A.
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
WarriorPrincess ( member #51806) posted at 8:02 PM on Tuesday, April 13th, 2021
My brain used to go down these horrible bizarre thought paths too. Like:
1. Somebody is talking about riding the bus. Rhey mention someone gets off the bus.
2. "Get off" also means to climax.
3. Climax is what my XWH did in his car while chatting with AP.
4. ACK!!! DANGER WILL ROBINSON!!!!! DANGER!!!!! DANGER!!!!!
5. Oh, look, there is a car outside.
6. ACK!!! TRIGGER!!!! TRIGGER!!! CAR!!! 
7. And so on. Picture water circling around a toilet bowl on the way down. That is the way my thoughts went.
Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest o' the world
I wanna be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls, they wanna have fun....
(Cyndi Lauper)
Merti (original poster member #72842) posted at 2:26 AM on Wednesday, April 14th, 2021
If I had a plant with the same name as ow, I might decide to destroy it, but I'd be more likely to give it away. Why keep a constant reminder of the A around? And why destroy a life?
*****
I can't possibly understand why you think your thoughts, or the ones like them that other BSes entertain, are ridiculous 
I am glad I am not the only one. I’d thought it might sound weird or funny to look at a plant and ask if I should destroy it.
But it seems to be very common among BS.
I don’t want to look at that plant, so it’s now gone to someone who wanted it. I feel relieved.
[This message edited by Merti at 8:28 PM, April 13th (Tuesday)]
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:58 PM on Wednesday, April 14th, 2021
Thank you, grubs, for that thought. I no longer hat the whole state.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
humantrampoline ( member #61458) posted at 4:24 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
Merti,
I'm glad you got rid of the plant if it bothers you. I don't feel a need to be rational after all this. I will get rid of all flowers or plants with the same name in support and solidarity if you want. Roses or lillies? Gone.
Chaos,
After this post, I threw a dish towel with donut prints in my firepit. A few days later I found it in the laundry room. I asked my WH about that. He said he found it there and thought it was a mistake. I told him I put it there purposefully. I said I was also thinking of giving up donuts for 2 years. He said he was glad because he had been concerned about my donut habit and wanting to talk to me. It was sarcasm obviously.
Anyway, whatever it takes to help with the pain.
SomethingOminous ( new member #77393) posted at 2:16 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Dolphins.
I hate a lot of things now because of it all, but one of the ones that I loved before was dolphins.
The AP had a dolphins set next to her name on WHs phone.
He knew that was my favourite animal but that's completely tarnished now.
Maybe in time I will be able to enjoy them again, but I just can't right now anymore.
BS (me) WH (him) - Together 5 yearsD-Day1 - 14.11.20 - discovered EA and PA with COWD-Day 2 - 6-3-21 - discovered that WH had been online cheating for 4/5 years
'Him cheating was never about me.'
LadyG ( member #74337) posted at 2:36 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Knitaknee, on behalf of all the people of Australia, we are Sorry.
To be fair, I despise Greece and all and anything Greek and that includes Cyprus and all things Cypriot.
Fake bottle redheads make me vomit too.
A FB psychic sent me an unsolicited message telling me to be careful as my WH is surrounded by evil Angels. I showed WH the message and thought it was insane. Guess what exAP calls herself.
My WH has Transylvania ancestry so it makes sense.
September 26 1987 I married a monster. Slowly healing from Complex PTSD. I Need Peace. Fiat Lux. Buddha’s Love Saves Me 🙏🏼
20yrsagoBS ( member #55272) posted at 10:52 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
96 AP wanted to have coffee in the morning With my husband before work
I haven’t ditched coffee
She also liked to give WH blowjobs because he splooged so fast ( Thanks untreated PE)
No more bjs for WH, not from me anyway
BW, 54 WH 53 When you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas
utterly broken ( member #25005) posted at 2:49 AM on Wednesday, April 21st, 2021
I dislike some beautiful places due to WWs cheating. Cape Cod and the Columbia River gorge are two of them. I used to like the Grateful Dead. Unfortunately, so did one of the POS.
BH (me) 54 yrs WW 52 yrs Together over 33 yrs Married Aug 1994 Two boys 28 and 23 yrs D-Day 1 June 11, 2009D-Day 2 Aug 9, 2009D-Day 3 April 19, 2011 separated March 2025
Knitaknee ( member #71772) posted at 6:00 PM on Wednesday, April 21st, 2021
Lady G,
No need for YOU to apologise. I guess I really despise Australian men. And I know it's irrational to lump a whole nation of people into one asshole. It's just that he played the Australian angle to the hilt, even though he's been in the states over 25 years. Even had my WW using Aussie slang in her texts to him ("this arvo..."). He has been thrice married and divorced (not Matt Foley) and is a serial cheater. I know not all Aussies are like that but the male accent is a trigger. I would likely have the same irrational prejudice if he was British, French, German, Redneck, etc. Thank goodness he wasn't a American redneck, I would be literally insane living here in the South!
You can’t lose what you never had, you can’t keep what’s not yours, and you can’t hold on to something that does not want to stay.
Westway ( member #71747) posted at 4:55 PM on Thursday, April 22nd, 2021
I am actively avoiding Italian-American women now.
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Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
3yrsout ( member #50552) posted at 7:24 PM on Sunday, April 25th, 2021
Flowers, especially pink ones. Hate them.
I also hate Hyundai Santa Fe vehicles, all things wedding planning (a job for OW), anyone with red hair, and all BDSM, especially silky white rope. And 50 Shades of Grey. JFC.
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