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BearlyBreathing (original poster member #55075) posted at 8:34 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
Excited that I finished my MSOL. One BIG upside is a regained my ability to focus and read. I totally lost that as trauma side effect, but through sheer force and repetition, I got a lot of back in this program.
As always, now I have the “What’s Next?” Question and a big gaping whole in my time to fill, but that will be the project this summer.
I never would have or could have done this with my ex. He would not have been supportive enough (lip service only).
Love the silver linings!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 8:38 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
That is wonderful, especially in a Pandemic! Congratulations!
"Because I deserve better"
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 8:45 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 8:51 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 9:17 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
This is awesome - way to go, girl! 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 9:31 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 9:43 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
Woot to the woot woot! On the heels of your birthday too (did you see your cake in F&G?).
You have had so many challenges these last few years, and it's a testament to your strength and reclaimed confidence that you topped things off with this degree.
Such. Good. Goin'. Have you figured out how you're going to celebrate you and this accomplishment?
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:29 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:12 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 11:21 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 11:45 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 11:51 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
3kids30years ( member #38879) posted at 2:09 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
That is AWESOME!!!
You go girl!! You are amazing.
Let's get together and celebrate soon 
BW - 52 on Dday
WH - 53 on Dday
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm 2+ year EA/PA
TT until 2016 - why do they do that?
Trust is earned, respect is given, & loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one is to loose all three.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 3:33 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Happy dancing in the Midwest for you!!
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 3:43 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 4:26 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 9:23 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 11:01 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Great work!
I got my masters after reaching the ripe old age of +40 and for the first time really enjoyed learning.
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
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