ff4152 and others
Cf & Hollowhurt
While I did have a PA I’d still like to offer my opinion.
I think the likelihood of going through all the sneaking around, lying etc only to not have done the deed is extremely unlikely. The brain is a big sex organ. The little head will not function if the big one isn’t on board. During my A, my AP could get me so aroused, I could have cut diamonds without using my hands. Is it possible that ED occurred, certainly. But I would be very hard pressed to believe it.
But let’s say for the sake of argument that it did happen and the men couldn’t get it up. IMO that’s kind of beside the point. Both your WH and WW had the INTENT to go through with it. That’s really all that matters IMO. Whether they did the deed or not really doesn’t matter at that point.
Thank you for the response and I agree with all your points, too well in fact. I guess I am looking for the one person, male or female, that experienced the 'no erection' event, first hand.
The reason being, I know my WW WAS a liar and cheat: and the events described by CF is my WW's story, just switch the players.
Is my WW STILL lying? I know this is my burden.
I have done my research and know 'a no erection' is possible, due to guilt, medical condition, etc. I have asked the AP in detail, he confirms it, but he is also, like my WW, a confirmed liar.
Deceit, lies, mistakes are possible by anyone I suppose. But still lying when the truth would fit better is problematic.
I guess someone saying "Yes this is a thing, it happened to me" would be more supporting information. Hell, I would probably question that also.
Ain't infidelity just wonderful?