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CurseBreaker ( Member #64201) posted at 2:27 PM on Tuesday, August 21st, 2018

Back to your old tricks like a the dog you are. Hope you don’t get fleas from these other strays.

PS- I broke that chain of fools! Too bad this is what you know.

Me: BS, 30’s
D-Days: Up to 14! Must be a record or something by now...

D-I-V-O-R-C-E, that’s what infidelity means to me

posts: 171   ·   registered: Jun. 19th, 2018   ·   location: Taking MARTA is SMARTA!
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WhoTheBleep ( Member #49504) posted at 9:50 PM on Friday, August 24th, 2018

Why couldn't you have been normal? We could have had it all. I would have loved you forever. I would have been faithful forever. I adored you. After 19 years you were still the sexiest man in the world to me.

My God, did you blow it. I'm fucking incredible.

Damn you.

Too late. You're already damned.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

posts: 4360   ·   registered: Sep. 6th, 2015   ·   location: USA
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WhoTheBleep ( Member #49504) posted at 9:53 PM on Friday, August 24th, 2018

I loved you from the moment I saw you. My heart filled with warmth and comfort at the mere sight of you.

You proceeded to abuse me in every way it is possible to abuse another person.

I pity you. Beyond empathy...I pity you.

You have no idea.

[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 3:54 PM, August 24th (Friday)]

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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Neverbeblindagain ( Member #58260) posted at 8:45 PM on Monday, August 27th, 2018

Would you fucking stop already?! Every bloody thing you do to hurt me, attack me, HURTS THE KIDS you bloody douche canoe! Fighting child support now? Really? What's next, you say you're not the parent?! You are suppose to help SUPPORT YOUR KIDS Regardless if there is an order, orders happen BECAUSE some people LIKE YOU, need to be TOLD THEY HAVE TO HELP SUPPORT THE KIDS THEY HELPED MAKE! This is getting so ridiculous.

LTA with slutisourus/2DDAYs
Fuck his lies and fuck the lies I told myself that kept me trapped.

Divorced the narcissist and bloody loving it.

" years of love have been forgot
In the hatred of a minute" edgar Allen poe

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hcsv ( Member #51813) posted at 10:20 PM on Monday, August 27th, 2018

Oh karma. I am laughing my ass off.

If you knew what I know, you would be so embarrassed.

After 40 years, ex turned into someone I didnt know and couldnt trust anymore. Divorced. 1/17

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Hawke ( Member #47517) posted at 7:57 PM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2018

You know when you shouldn't be visiting schools to potentially change where one of your kids' is attending? A week before school starts. That's right, you brainiac. And you know what else school administration hates? When you mess up their student counts and budgets a week before school starts.

Me: BS (b. '75)
Him: exWS (b. '76)
D-Day: April 2015
Together 10 years
2 kids: 2011 and 2014
Separated (no divorce required for common law couple in my jurisdiction)

posts: 2370   ·   registered: Apr. 13th, 2015   ·   location: Alberta, Canada
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LLXC ( Member #62576) posted at 8:29 PM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2018

OMG. I hate how much I miss you. Actually, I don't really miss you. I do not miss the anxiety, I do not miss the "why am I not good enough?" I sure as fuck miss how I felt around you though. Sigh. I just wish you'd been honest with me instead of lying about absofuckinglutely everytthng.

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BearlyBreathing ( Member #55075) posted at 10:26 PM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2018

Tough day. I miss you. I miss the safety net I thought you provided— financially, emotionally, everything. I wish you had been the person you said you were. I liked our old life. I liked you.

All the other stuff in my life right now is not directly your fault, but you started me in this tailspin and I hate that you had no consequences other than “feeling badly about yourself”.

Fuck that.

I will get better. I am getting better. But it still sucks. How can it be 2 years already and I am not over you yet?

Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTAKinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4211   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
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Sadsap ( Member #63524) posted at 4:17 AM on Thursday, August 30th, 2018

Can I just tell him to fuck off? Ughh I don't care that you're cold and forgot to pack them when you came to get your stuff. Go check out Goodwill I'm guessing they might still be there.

Me BS 47
WH 50
M 25 in August 28 together
DS 21 DS 18
D Day March 28 2018
Filed last week but confused
No longer confused 7/2/18. Ready to divorce this POS

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WhoTheBleep ( Member #49504) posted at 6:14 PM on Thursday, August 30th, 2018

You don't want to bring the girlfriend around "out of RESPECT for me?". RESPECT???? Hahahahahaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!

The same RESPECT you had for me while stabbing me in the back for 17 years? The same respect as when you called me a c***? A SKELL? A cumdumpster (that was rich, as I was faithful, and still am!!). The attorneys already know who you are! After knowing you for 3 minutes!!

More like you have multiple girlfriends and don't want them to find out about each other by exposing our loose lipped children to any of them.

I see you. Liar. Cheat. Thief.

[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 9:34 PM, August 30th (Thursday)]

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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balloons ( Member #65475) posted at 2:14 PM on Friday, August 31st, 2018

You ducking bastard

Even my autocorrect has more manners than you

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breatheme ( Member #62715) posted at 3:10 PM on Friday, August 31st, 2018

Ugh, can we just get on with this already? My boxes are packed. We've agreed on everything. Stupid lawyers.

Breathe Me
D Day March 2016
Divorce September 2018

When they tell you ILYBIANILWY, believe them. Take them at their word. That might be the most truthful thing they are saying.

posts: 110   ·   registered: Feb. 14th, 2018   ·   location: GA
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DevastatedDee ( Member #59873) posted at 4:16 PM on Friday, August 31st, 2018

Soooo....you're one week clean off of drugs. You're a changed man. You're going to church on Sunday to humble yourself in front of the congregation and confess to letting your family down. You're going to get better and be better and now we can resume our marriage. And you're shocked that I'm not on board with that? Like I was just waiting in the wings for you to come to your senses...again? I BOUGHT A HOUSE. I moved to another town. I left. You did actually fuck up so much that I left the marriage. You watched me do it like it didn't matter to you. And no, it didn't because you were high. "I messed up" doesn't fix it. You act like you pooped your pants but now you're all changed and cleaned up and all should resume as normal. Like we're in this together. No, actually. We aren't. You fired me from the marriage several times now. I got the message. I'm not here to pick you up and dry your tears after you wrecked me. Just because you're sober now and can feel again doesn't mean that your actions didn't end the marriage. Again. So...what...I'm supposed to come running back and have a few months of happiness before you get bored and check out again and either do drugs or cheat or both? Maybe I'd get really lucky and have a couple of years and really get my hopes up before you crash it all back down on me. This is real damned life, man. This is the adult world. You were LUCKY that I gave you another chance after rehab last year. LUCKY. I am not an extension of you. I am a separate person. I have to look back to 2015 for when we were happy last before you decided to fuck it all up. What exactly do you think I'd want back into this mess for? I don't have time for this shit. I have to work, raise kids, take care of myself...where in there do I have the energy to ride your rollercoaster? IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU AND YOUR NEEDS.

DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).

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DevastatedDee ( Member #59873) posted at 4:21 PM on Friday, August 31st, 2018

And and and....you "don't handle rejection well and have fear of abandonment issues". WTF? That does not obligate me to a damned thing! You abandoned and rejected me over and over, but whatever, right? We ALL dislike rejection and have abandonment issues. YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL. We ALL have bad and sad feelings. Most of us don't decide to devastate everyone around us because of our bad sad feelings. Handle your shit, man. When you earn rejection and abandonment, own it. You bring it upon yourself every single time. Yes, it's "hard" and it "hurts". You think maybe I'm aware of pain and difficulty just a little bit? FFS.

DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).

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balloons ( Member #65475) posted at 7:59 PM on Friday, August 31st, 2018

You shit for brains evil low life scum bag

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balloons ( Member #65475) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, September 2nd, 2018

You bastard

Pretended to be a decent man but true colours shown now, weak, evil bastard

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Trust55 ( Member #60672) posted at 1:27 AM on Monday, September 3rd, 2018

You put on your fake behavior yesterday for our grandsons birthday. You actually think your daughters didn’t notice!

No you will never wake up. I look forward to the day I don’t have to look at your lying face.

The whole family can see through your smoke and mirrors. You have hurt everyone and still show no remorse. Pity your next victim

Me - BS 65 yr
Him - WH 65 yr
D Day 03.19.2017 ( 2 days before our 31 wedding anniversary)
False R Divorce in progress
I will NEVER accept how CRUEL he is
I AM MOVING FORWARD

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WhoTheBleep ( Member #49504) posted at 4:09 PM on Monday, September 3rd, 2018

Just give me half, douchebag. This can all be over, if you just give me half.

Or, we can spend 50k, and the judge will give me half.

Either way, I'm getting half.

And you can go fuck yourself. Fucker.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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hcsv ( Member #51813) posted at 9:54 PM on Monday, September 3rd, 2018

Another family event you missed because you weren't invited.

Your son's wedding. He didn't want you there. You shit on your own vows, why would he invite you to celebrate his?

I remember the day I found the " lets have a quickie" text. I asked you what the kids would say when they found out.

You said " my son will never speak to me again." you knew this and you continued the affair despite it.

Consequences. This is a consequence to your actions. In order to understand that you'd have to take responsibility for those actions. But you can't because you see your self as the victim. Poor you.

I don't know if your mother told you about the wedding. It was a hard day for her, but she was there. Welcomed and invited to celebrate their vows.

Responsibility. Take responsibility for your actions and maybe, just maybe, your three adult children will speak to you again.

After 40 years, ex turned into someone I didnt know and couldnt trust anymore. Divorced. 1/17

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lizgwvet ( Member #15967) posted at 2:52 AM on Tuesday, September 4th, 2018

I finally permanently blocked you. When I found out your GF was going to have her adult son legally declared incompetent, I could not sit back and let this go without informing the guardian at litem that you were declared a threat to any vulnerable adult.

Did you think you could hide the fact that you drove insanely drunk with our severely disabled adult son? I would of done the same thing for anyone else, be they related or not.

Your crazy rich girlfriend can kiss my ass, did she think she could get away with not disclosing her bf almost killed his disabled son?

I believe God was instrumental in helping me find this out, my friend told me about the upcoming court hearing. Yes, I could of taken the easy road and not call the guardian at litem but my conscience wouldn't allow it.

When someone reveals their true self the first time believe it!

Maya Angelou

posts: 453   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2007   ·   location: Washington state
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