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Cattlefarmer ( Member #55677) posted at 2:31 AM on Thursday, July 26th, 2018

You dumb fuck.

You thought you were so clever because you could consistently beat me when we played cards.

News for you sunshine.

I use to let you win.

No one won this game. This time the house won.

First rule when gambling. Don't gamble with what you're not prepared to lose.

Sign the fucking paperwork.

I'm no longer playing, and I want to leave the table.

Me. BS 1969
Her.WS 1978

22 years together
17 married
3 children
Dday April 2016
Separated September 2016

A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor.
People ask why is it so hard to trust?
I ask why is it so hard to keep a promise?

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breatheme ( Member #62715) posted at 8:28 PM on Friday, July 27th, 2018

Wait, wait, the guy you cheated with on me, was cheating on his wife with you, who was in turn cheating on him... and you are surprised to find out he was cheating on you!

Ha ha ha ha hah hahhahahhaaa....

Breathe Me
D Day March 2016
Divorce September 2018

When they tell you ILYBIANILWY, believe them. Take them at their word. That might be the most truthful thing they are saying.

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balloons ( Member #65475) posted at 8:37 PM on Friday, July 27th, 2018

Not only are you a shit head, you are ugly and you smell

I finally hate you

You are both lower than pondlife

[This message edited by balloons at 4:21 PM, July 27th (Friday)]

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DevastatedDee ( Member #59873) posted at 2:24 AM on Saturday, July 28th, 2018

I fucking hate you with the fire of a thousand fucking suns. I go two hours without thinking of your stupid crackhead ass and you text me asking for money. Like I OWE YOU money?!?!? You piece of shit lowlife fucking scum! I'm having to buy a fucking HOUSE because of your dumbass and gutted my damned retirement to do it and you think I should give you money for fucking drugs?!?!?!?! ARE YOU KIDDING ME??????

I know you can't feel it right now, but I AM A PERSON WITH THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS! YOU might not have any feelings, but I do. YOU might not give a shit about me, but I do. Really, you can go fuck yourself. Go ahead, kill yourself smoking crack. Clearly that's what you want to do. The way you've treated me is a fucking crime against humanity. You could have appreciated having me in your life, but you threw me away for whores and drugs. That was the stupidest fucking thing to do, really. Just dumb as hell. You really did have it made. Guess happiness wasn't exciting enough for you.

6 more fucking days left and I never want to see your stupid ass again. I would have had to commit mass murder to deserve the bullshit I've been served by you.

DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).

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Sadsap ( Member #63524) posted at 4:40 AM on Saturday, July 28th, 2018

So you take 2 weeks of leave while I continue to pack. Clean, toss and sell everything we have gathered over the past 28 years while working full time and getting DS off to school. Just to find out you have invited the whore to your newly furnished apartment and introduce her to DS 2 old girlfriend at lunch? Are you FUCKING kidding me? After sending me an email stating that you hope we can be friends. Best friends...you are a special kind of crazy.

Me BS 47
WH 50
M 25 in August 28 together
DS 21 DS 18
D Day March 28 2018
Filed last week but confused
No longer confused 7/2/18. Ready to divorce this POS

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doigoordoistay ( Member #55411) posted at 3:20 PM on Saturday, July 28th, 2018

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Me - BW 40's
M-17 years on Dday
Dday#1 - July 2016 - Double betrayal EA/PA with my best friend
Dday#2 - August 2016 - had a ONS with a stripper in 2006
Separated July 2, 2018

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WhoTheBleep ( Member #49504) posted at 5:43 PM on Saturday, July 28th, 2018

Wait a minute, what? You got STD tested for your new girl? Bahahahaaaaaa!!! What's the fucking point? You're still a liar and a cheat! Those tests are useless for folks like you! Who is she, this new victim? Let me warn her. Hahahaaaa!! You're a fucking joke. And she's a fool.

There's no way you're giving up all that strange for some new girl.

OMG you're a walking disaster. Thank GOD you're not my monkey anymore.

Oh, and I'll take "Half Our Assets" for 200, Alex.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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hcsv ( Member #51813) posted at 11:12 PM on Wednesday, August 1st, 2018

Bet you were really surprised to hear from your lawyer 1 1/2 years after the divorce was finalized.

I found my voice.

After 40 years, ex turned into someone I didnt know and couldnt trust anymore. Divorced. 1/17

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Dragonfly123 ( Member #62802) posted at 12:01 PM on Friday, August 3rd, 2018

I hate the days I'm not with my children. I just feel so lost without my boys. I try to be brave and put on a face for them but it's so hard.

You hurt me so very badly and now every week I have to endure this pain, pain of seperation from my little boys.

I wish I could see the good in all this. I spend time alongside you so that I'm healing my little family. The boys, our family, even you, as I know you miss them terribly. I hope the good will out in the end.

But today my arms feel empty.

When you can’t control what’s happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what’s happening. That’s where the power is.

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Reese1 ( Member #62724) posted at 2:56 PM on Saturday, August 4th, 2018

I don’t know HOW I’m still surprised every time your an asshole.

You didn’t come get the kids yesterday for visitation and couldn’t even call or text that you changed your mind. Then you go on Facebook and make all these post about how your so lonely and get all these people to comment on how mean I am. You know what would have made you feel less lonely? PICKING UP AND SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR KIDS ASSHOLE. I was supposed to meet my friends at my favorite restaurant for Happy hour and instead I’m was consoling our three year old who doesn’t understand why her dad doesn’t come get her when he says he’s going to.

You know what the crazy thing is? I’ve forgiven you for all the shit you put me through but every time I see my little girl looking out the window waiting for you I feel such haterd towards you that I don’t know how I’m ever going to be able to look at you without disgust but every single time I see you afterwards I suck it up and cordial for the kids. It’s so unfair.

BW-31 Wh-33
DDay1- January 12 2018
Married 3 years. Together 8. Daughters 3 and 9 months at DDay. 3 year LTA PA and multiple other PA and EA during LTA. Divorce final.

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DistantSky ( Member #56211) posted at 5:52 PM on Saturday, August 4th, 2018

I see you took your ring off.

Another sign this is truly over.

You destroyed me.

BS: Me (30s), XH (30s)
Dday: 3 Sep 2016
Divorced!

posts: 56   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2016
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AliceInWonder ( New Member #63584) posted at 9:49 AM on Sunday, August 5th, 2018

You nasty, lying piece of shit! How could you!! You fucking monster!!

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 MadOldBat (original poster Member #44146) posted at 5:22 PM on Sunday, August 5th, 2018

FFS

Any moment now.

I will disregard "What's Right"

I'll be spending our money on a VERY expensive rental - near to DD1 and near to the grandchildren.

I'm not tolerating your drinking, your "activities" , your arsehole behaviours, your one meal a day at 8 o Fucking clock.

Fuck off

Fuck off

Fuck off

...... and if you're not going to - I will

Tosser

Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.

posts: 3990   ·   registered: Jul. 17th, 2014   ·   location: In House Separation.
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hcsv ( Member #51813) posted at 6:39 PM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2018

I know where you were last weekend.....and who you were with. I could blow up her world with one phone call to her husband.....and Ive had his cell number for several years and never used it.

After 40 years, ex turned into someone I didnt know and couldnt trust anymore. Divorced. 1/17

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Dragonfly123 ( Member #62802) posted at 9:15 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2018

I see your pain. I hear it in your voice. I can almost feel it when you brush past me. I know you regret your actions. I actually believe you do. You're beginning to wake up. It's awful for someone who loves you and has loved you so much to see you feeling so sad. But this is regret, not remorse. You'd turn the clock back, I believe that, but you're still clinging onto her, as you don't know what else to do. You know I've gone and you can't be alone. You need a safety net. I didn't want this for us, for our perfect little family. We all loved you so much, warts and all. I'll never understand what you did to us. I'm trying so much to heal us all. When I say us all, I mean everyone that this affair has damaged. Your children, your family, my family, our friends, everyone who loves you so much. They all need to feel that they can move forward holding onto the joy we all had at being close, without your affair blighting everything. I'm trying to heal you. I know you miss them terribly, I know you hate yourself. And I'm trying to heal me. The good will out right!? It'll all be ok right?

When you can’t control what’s happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what’s happening. That’s where the power is.

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breatheme ( Member #62715) posted at 10:43 PM on Sunday, August 12th, 2018

Closing in on the end game. I think you are beginning to finally regret some of your actions. You finally know how much it's going to cost you. But it's too late. There's nothing you can do now. You should have tried harder at any point in the last 2 years since D-day. Maybe the 2 years before that when you were fucking around. Or the 2 years before that when I was struggling. But you didn't. I'm OK with that. I accept it. But now you are going to have to accept it, too. Good luck with that.

Breathe Me
D Day March 2016
Divorce September 2018

When they tell you ILYBIANILWY, believe them. Take them at their word. That might be the most truthful thing they are saying.

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Chili ( Member #35503) posted at 7:41 PM on Monday, August 13th, 2018

Seriously?

You did *that* to me as well? All these years later and I have to hear about more shit?

I hope your dick falls off.

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Loving flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

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Simplicity ( Member #60501) posted at 2:47 AM on Tuesday, August 14th, 2018

To the garbage homewrecker: 快去死!

To the garbage STBX: I know you keep lying to me, just sign the papers and stop with the lies!

My wish is that some woman disrupts that disgusting shameless homewrecker's life the same way she did mine, and for my STBX, that she treats him exactly how he treated me.

Both of them can 食屎!

I'm so sick of this saga! It needs to end!

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balloons ( Member #65475) posted at 8:08 AM on Wednesday, August 15th, 2018

So you are coming in and upped your hours

Ok

But you are lying that you are still spending time with her

You think I don’t know

But I do

I’m not going to tell you

I am just going to post it here

You massive stupid idiot

No fool like an old fool

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tiredofcrying59 ( Member #56180) posted at 5:38 PM on Wednesday, August 15th, 2018

I don't know if you're going to wind up with her or not. She's certainly the easy choice because I don't think there are many women who will put up with you.

If you do wind up together, I can't wait till she finds out what a high maintenance PIA you are. And what liars you both are. She's a serial cheater. And I hope she shreds your heart like you did mine.

And I will laugh my ass off. You cruel, lying, cheating asshole.

BW
Me-59
Him-57
M-33 yrs, not that I "celebrate" it
D-day-10/30/16 2mo.PA w/COW attempting R

new news- like a 5 year A w/COW, no longer attempting R. What am I, an idiot?

Getting on with life, without him.

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