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How accurate is this info? I went to ashleymadisonsucks. The name, email, city, age, weight, credit card zip code is all acurate.

Could this have all been stolen info and not really that person?

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Could this have all been stolen info and not really that person?

Nope. I mean, it's a fair question to ask, but of course the legions of people whose veil was just yanked away are going to take the course of denying the data. I mean, we expected that, right?

[This message edited by SI Staff at 1:36 PM, August 23rd (Sunday)]

Thanks Jrazz. I kind of thought that. I just don't want to jump to conclusions.

None of us do, Myname. The truth is, ANYTHING on the web can be fabricated and it's due diligence to consider that every time. In this case there's now a handful of websites that are all kinda saying the same thing, so that increases the legitimacy of the information. A bit. To me.

I've read that it is possible to initially set up a profile using an unverified email. So someone could do a typo or use someone elses or a fake email address.

Its ironic to me that a cheater site stores the ip sign up address and latitude longitude where last updates were made. This really helped me quell my fWHs attempts to gaslight me by claiming MOW probably set it up to get back at him for ending things. She was no where near the IP sign up and besides I was there upstairs.

I imagine its possible to setup a profile for someone else if you have the info. Sometimes people catfish (use their identity and pics) people on dating sites. Perhaps the IP sign up and latitude longitude could help further confirm where the acct was created and updated.

Ive noticed there is an email verified item which in our case is marked as Y.

[This message edited by whattheh at 1:57 PM, August 23rd (Sunday)]

Anyone with experience with Sublime text? Both versions 2, 3 stop in the middle of opening a file.

ok the ashley sucks site got reported because they were releasing too much information and the search got disabled

What is no longer available/was disabled? Because it was searchable all of 10 seconds ago.

have deleted the database on my computer. I no longer felt clean having it.

If it's wrong, it's wrong. But it's not selectively wrong, once you've learned what you wanted to learn.

I guess I will see at the neighborhood block party if anyone is looking hinky at me.

I don't think this hack is affecting the general public in anything resembling the way that the media portrays, or is evident on a site such as SI, where the focus is infidelity. Most people I know either (a) haven't paid a bit of attention to it, (b) have no idea what all the hullaballoo is about, or (c) wouldn't think to search a soul, because their lives, as far as they know, have not been touched by infidelity.

Here on SI, we occupy a bubble that is infidelity-focused. While infidelity is widespread, the world, as a whole, does NOT focus on it. Focus shifts by necessity; those without suspicion aren't feverishly searching their parents, cousins, neighbors, and friends. Those of us affected by infidelity? I'd bet the vast majority are like me: searching EXACTLY ONE person: our WSs.

If you're searching others? Stop it.

But I have no qualms about any BS searching his/her WS.

[This message edited by solus sto at 2:45 PM, August 23rd (Sunday)]

whattheh, the lat and long was for the next town over which was what was listed as the persons location. Their credit card info had their actual town correct. The person lives in a really small town so it would make sense to put the next town over as your location because even people living in the area may not know where the town is located, it's that small.

The email wasn't verified but everything else is accurate.

Ashleymadisonsucks.com is being redirected to ashleymadisontestimonials.com. Anyone else?

Nevermind...if anyone is as unobservant as I am, there should be a "." between "madison" and "sucks." Works just find that way.

[This message edited by scaredyKat at 3:46 PM, August 23rd (Sunday)]

So is it safe to type a name in the search box on the A M Sucks site? Is that the best way to go about seeing what's out there????

I'm new here but not new to surviving infidelity. Three and a half years ago I found a hidden email account with emails to three different women met on--you guessed it!--AshleyMadison. And that's just part of it....

We did a lot of hard work and I felt ready to recommit in May. Mainly things are good but this leak is excruciating and triggering and unnerving. I hate the fact that once again MY intimacy has been betrayed, my control is taken away and I didn't do anything!!!!

It's good to have support though.

I don't think this hack is affecting the general public in anything resembling the way that the media portrays, or is evident on a site such as SI, where the focus is infidelity. Most people I know either (a) haven't paid a bit of attention to it, (b) have no idea what all the hullaballoo is about, or (c) wouldn't think to search a soul, because their lives, as far as they know, have not been touched by infidelity.

I hope you are right, Solus. Fact is I live on a tiny friendly cul de sac, most folks DO know about my FWH, and have been awesome at being nice to him when I decided to R. Doesn't mean they aren't snoops, and if you're on GMA, it's big news. I'll be OK. Actions have consequences, and sometimes those consequences are people will treat you unfairly because of your actions that are based on someone ELSE'S actions. I still am basically happy about the leak, as I hope and pray it will kill AM forever.

One little victory....since Friday afternoon the disgusting Ashley Madison Facebook Page is DOWN. I had tried to encourage betrayed spouses to write in and complain. No idea if that played a role, but I like to think so!!

It could still reappear but there's a decent chance it's gone for good and the website is soon to follow, I hope!

Not sure if it's been posted as this thread is so long. So I apologize if everyone already knows. Canadian lawsuit against Ashley Madison over $500 million.

Yup h's ap's email was found on there. Not so sweet and innocent now was she? Sigh I hope he finally gets how she played him.

Hello Everyone. New here. I found WH's email on the trustify site and several others. Then through this forum found ashleymadison.sucks where I retrieved additional information. He opened an account in 2005 and last update was 2011. He had multiple affairs prior to 2003 (that I found out about in 2003). We went through counseling and stayed together. Now this seems to confirm he didn't change. Now I would like to find more information from the dump. Does anyone know if services offered by Trustify will provide more details than was on the AM sucks page? Has anyone used the service?

[This message edited by stunnedagain at 8:01 PM, August 23rd (Sunday)]

At first I found myself over the moon thankful that this isn't something I have to worry about - my H's info out there because he tried to "hook up" on AM. But when I stopped to think about what it was that I was happy about, it all of a sudden hit me, I don't have a damn thing to be happy about because he still cheated.

This shit has almost sent me right back to where I was on my last DDay.

As an aside - to all those who are concerned about people finding you or your spouse on there, think about it like this: SO WHAT if someone sees it. How do THEY know that you haven't been a victim of identity theft or a stalker? They don't know squat unless you admit to it. Practice your game face and be ready for an ignorant idiot to approach you. There's so many of them out there it's likely to happen. Keep the game face ready, look them in the eye, and tell them point blank "I have no idea what you are talking about". If they try to explain - keep walking, driving, whatever. Give them no time or space in your world.

I already knew my SAWH had an AM account at one point although I never asked details. Didn't seem important, after all, since that was the least of his issues.

With this leak, though, I did find out that he signed up for AM a year before he met his AP (met through work--not AM). So it hurts to know that he was contemplating infidelity at least a year before actually committing it (and 6 days before our 20th anniversary). :(. What helps--in some strangely twisted way--is that he signed up for a second account in the midst of his A with her and after it had turned physical. So much for her being the love of his life! Seems even true love doesn't tame the SA beast.

[This message edited by RippedSoul at 8:55 PM, August 23rd (Sunday)]

Is the latitude longitude right or could it be off some?

A site ask 199$ to send the info!

I have the same question about the gps coordinates. I used 2 different converter sites and are given 2 different addresses for the same coordinates. They are not far from each other though.

I am blown away at what I found out on the sucks site. I knew my husband paid once. But I didn't know he had 2 profiles, all sorts of pics, and it started 5 1/2 years earlier than I suspected. This is some seriously crazy, mind blowing stuff! Who is this guy? He signed up for the it right after I gave birth!