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Mine showed himself 4years younger. I was able to google the latitude and longitude to further confirm that the acct was set up from our second home. Theres an ip address too if that helps anyone.

His is status 2 and shows no pics. He updated acct next day. This was set up near the end of his getting rid of MOW which shows he had the intent to cheat again. I would also love to know what staus 2 is.

This means massive TT and false R for me. But I am so gratefulto have this info. I feel like vomiting and am shaking.

[This message edited by whattheh at 7:37 PM, August 22nd (Saturday)]

(((((whattheh)))))

You're in shock, honey. Is there someone you can call to come and sit with you?

How does the ashley madison.sucks site work? When I link to it, it appears to be a forum. I'm trying off my phone. Is that the problem?

Where do you search info? Does it cost?

[This message edited by Ambergray at 8:09 PM, August 22nd (Saturday)]

Yes, thank you no more blue skies. Thank you. Hard to deny those dates. :, (

Amber, hit the 3 lines in the corner and click view desk top view. Then you can search.

And yes I would like to know what status 2 means as well.

Omg! I found everything I feared! I am scared to death. I cannot handle this. My world is over. He used a Fahd email that only we know, but his real name is listed. If that ever becomes searchable, I don't know what I wil do.

My fWH is denying he set this up at AM. It has a sign up ip of our second home. The latitude and longitude is our first home where he was the next day. So he was planning to cheat in our first home location different state than MOW who he was in process of dumping. He would have more alone time at first home since I got FT gig there and he retired when I did this. Makes me feel even more manipulated and used.

His height and weight are spot on. Screen name makes me want to vomit. His real name not there.

I don't believe him... now I know why he secretly ordered some ERD supllements 2weeks before his sign up date. I found this out after dDay and he some excuse. Pre-meditated much?

I'm sorry everyone. I'm sorry for the broken hearts and shattered worlds. I'm sorry we have to search on websites to find the truth in our lives. I'm sorry that people feel they have to cover their asses instead of trying to make amends to the ones they have wronged. It's a shit world we live in sometimes. I'm grateful we have SI and each other to help us through.

(((hugs)))

Thanks for the link blueskies.

Account was updated just a few months ago and his coordinates were the hotel he normally stayed at for a monthly meeting out of town. (one weekend a month, 2 weeks a yesr, I think most can connect those dots.)

WHs email showed up on Ashley.cynic.al but nothing on ashleymadison.sucks. What gives??

try just the first part of his email before the @ symbol. You can also search the last name.

I can't get any hits. REALLY Common first name. 3 letter last name so I'm getting 50k+ matches.

I signed up to see if WH was on there years ago (2009?) I think it asked for an alternate email and I put my work email in. It showed up on my search. I work for the gov and I'm afraid I'm going to lose my job if it's found. I've been on vacation this week so I'm concerned about what will happen on Monday.

I know that it was stupid, but I was desperate to find out if he was on the site that I wasn't thinking.

Any words of wisdom?

I don't understand why they can't shut these search sites down. It is such a violation of privacy. It's personal information.

Also, how do you even find this site without knowing about it? I tried google searching for AM leaked data or search data and this AMsucks site doesn't ever come up. I'm hoping that it's that hard for others too, but everything I have hoped for has been blown up this past week. I'm pretty much out of hope at this point.

All of this has been such a trigger. Then yesterday one of WH old A emails got a notice that a group he belonged to was not going to be accessible. I changed the pw on this and two other A emails and check them from time to time. I logged in and went through but couldn't find any group info. I began to look at emails dating between 2009-2012. Personal ad replies. All the emails I sent him as someone else when I set him up. I wrote down 6 sex/dating sites he was a member of back then. Some I guess don't exist since I tried to load them and got nothing.

Doing all of this is total self torture I know. I had asked him to his face last week if he had joined AM. He said no. All this info is out there now and I could look him up but I can't bring myself to do it. It would mean that he looked me in the face and lied just days ago. The lies are more devastating to me than his PA. Go figure.

Up until a few months ago before he was fired I was totally obsessed with "having to know". Now....it has been such a waste of time for me. Time I can't get back. He cheated. I have proof he cheated. Moreso I have proof of continued lies and deceit. What more do I really need to know? I'm so sorry to all of those who have found their SO or others on AM. I hurt for every new BS because of the hack.

The whole thing just sucks!

I have deleted the database on my computer. I no longer felt clean having it.

I'm man enough to admit when I'm wrong, I was wrong for invading other people's privacy

I checked the ashley madison sucks link and when i enter the email addy it takes me to a page and comes up blank

ok the ashley sucks site got reported because they were releasing too much information and the search got disabled