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Thanks daisy and coco. ♥️

Yeah, those shitty things pop up on IG. I hate it too. So triggering.

Oh joy another day. At least the sun is out here. Happy Monday ladies.

My favorite quote of the day [I added the word FUCK because...womenz thread]

WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU A FUCKING MONDAY DIP IT IN GLITTER AND SPARKLE ALL FUCKING DAY

Dipping anything in glitter makes it better

I really don't miss xshitbag. But we got 16" of snow and shoveling SUCKS. So that was my day - shoveling that shit and getting SI christmas cards done. My hands are killing me...

What's everyone doing for thanksgiving?

What's everyone doing for thanksgiving?

Eating!

My 15yo wants to volunteer at the local homeless shelter. I have tasked my fch with dropping off food for delivery to people in need.

I'm going to make some desserts today, classic pecan pie and a Reese's peanut butter cup brownie chocolate peanut butter cheesecake.

We go to my mom's. She's in her 80s. So while we all go to her house as tradition - we also do all the cooking. She just preheats the oven, sets the table and gets a bottle of wine.

Our adult child is working [healthcare professional], our teen is splitting the day between us and her BFs family.

I've been baking up a storm the past 3 nights. Pumpkin pies, apple pies, apple cake, pumpkin bread, chocolate covered pretzles, etc. Stuffing prepped and ready.

WH and I are supposed to go out tonight with another couple to see a band and dance a little.

We always host Thanksgiving. I make the turkey, sweet potatoes and appetizers. Everyone else brings at least one item.

Chaos, have fun tonight!

Our Thanksgiving is done and done! It was pretty quiet, my Mom came for a few days so it was nice. H took one of the kids to his moms to visit one day, even nicer that I didn't have to go! Not that I really go anymore anyway. I used to feel like I had to go - not so much any more!

Just wanna share a little story that makes me chuckle every time I remember it. I used to run with a group of ladies, we were running the weekend just before Thanksgiving, all talking about what we were doing for Thanksgiving. We'd all shared when someone asked "Sue" what she was making, her response, without missing a beat...."making reservations". I miss my running ladies!

Happy Thanksgiving to all who have yet to celebrate it!

Happy Wednesday ladies.

Had a great day yesterday. Went to NYC and we walked around. Just fabulous. A break from the same old same old here in the burbs.

I’m lucky to have great friends. I’m going to their house for thanksgiving.

I’m really not into any of this. Feel sort of lost. Oh well, I’ll just come here and wander around .... bump into one of your ladies.

My mom is making chicken fried steak and I can't wait to nom it!!

Kinda looking forward to it actually. Last year, thanksgiving was less than 3 weeks from DDay. So looking forward to reclaiming this holiday a bit. Plus, knowing that I am going to have delicious southern cooking and xshitbag is stuck with his family's truly crap cooking makes it taste even better

Haven't posted over here for a bit, but just wanted to pop on and say Happy Thanksgiving Bitches!

You are all the epitome of fabulousness!

We're going to his family. Mine aren't included, the 2 sides have never bonded.

I hate it.

My home is hosting Thanksgiving this year. Son and I baked pies all day today, daughter driving in tomorrow, and my parents will be here

Enjoy your Thanksgiving everyone.

Ok. I just got a thrill from Chilli calling us bitches. High moment of the day!

Anyone heard from Scooby lately?

Coco - I've seen some thread titles in the Investigative Tips forum "Update on Scooby". I haven't read them, I don't have premium access(?).

Happy glitter thanksgiving ladies!

Enjoy your day. ❤️

I fear I will never truly get over his 10 year LTA. He has done everything expected I am 6 years out but still I think about the betrayal daily. What should I do.

Pinball, thanks. I got an update on another thread. Someone else was asking.

Hardtomove, what do you want to do? It's ok to decide it's a dealbreaker, even years later. I imagine a LTA is very difficult to get past. Are you, or have you, been in IC?

I just saw a post on jfo, that scooby is living a hectic, drama free life, doing great and the divorce is moving along nicely.

How was everyone's Thanksgiving (who celebrates)?

Mine was good. My sister came to eat with us. She's a mess! I was missing my oldest boy, but was glad he was able to have a meal with friends. I was worried he'd be alone.

My husband cooked almost everything. My 15yo sone made homemade rolls and mac & cheese from scratch. Well, he didn't make the pasta from scratch. We donated a ham, pumpkin pie, and water for delivery to local homeless people. We have a large population of homeless people who live in woods around here. I want to see if I can get active in that on a more regular basis. I can make hats, gloves, socks, scarves, blankets, etc.

I ate all the things, including a piece of brownie peanut butter cheesecake and pecan pie (that I accidentally left the butter out of 🤣, and still managed to stick to my nutrition plan. M pretty proud of that. The struggle bow will be to not binge on all the leftover desserts.