beautifulM33 ( member #51261) posted at 3:35 AM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016
Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 9:25 PM on Wednesday, February 3rd, 2016
Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
thisissogross ( member #30294) posted at 7:05 PM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2016
i edit frequently because i have to
Wayflost ( member #41583) posted at 4:45 AM on Saturday, April 30th, 2016
Bump, because there are so many of you who are asking for this help.
"Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly."
W3IRZ ( member #48882) posted at 1:06 PM on Saturday, May 14th, 2016
BS - me 42 on DD
FWH - him 44 on DD
Married 21 years on DD
DDAY- 6/30/2015
8/29/2016 update - Reconcilled and completely happy
Skibunny ( member #52590) posted at 3:28 PM on Monday, May 16th, 2016
Me: WW, 31, FOO issues, post natal depression, in IC
Him: BH, 31
Met 2004
Married 2011
EA/PA with COW 2015
DD Feb 2016
Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 9:45 AM on Tuesday, May 17th, 2016
waving. glad it's helping guys.
I think I wrote this what,11 years ago?
Todays my wedding anniversary. 13 years. Hubby and I work together and I'm more in love today than I've ever been.
Keep going. it's worth it.
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18
Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 10:17 PM on Sunday, May 22nd, 2016
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18
cntrlz ( member #52057) posted at 10:24 PM on Sunday, May 22nd, 2016
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 5:24 PM on Monday, May 30th, 2016
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 12:47 PM on Monday, June 6th, 2016
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18
AcquasantaJoe ( new member #51242) posted at 8:54 PM on Wednesday, June 8th, 2016
Thank you Maia. This was and is so awesomely on target. I'm not a Christian but I can still relate to the spiritual part.
Me: WS, 56
Her: BS, 50s
D-Day 9/15, EA/PA
Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 10:31 PM on Wednesday, June 8th, 2016
Cool. I actually have a lot of diverse friendships. :-)
Glad it helped. Withdrawal suuuuuucks.
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 11:26 PM on Wednesday, June 15th, 2016
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
ThatGuyNoMore ( member #42899) posted at 4:43 AM on Sunday, July 17th, 2016
Me and BW both 50
Married 24 years, 4 kids
D-Day 3/5/14
14 years of infidelity including multiple ONS and a 6½ yr LTA
I lied to everyone including myself.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:30 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2016
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:05 AM on Saturday, July 30th, 2016
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
1lifeoflies ( member #54208) posted at 2:59 PM on Saturday, July 30th, 2016
I'm a betrayed spouse looking for answers as to why, what was going thru her mind. This helped give me some perspective.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 1:25 AM on Monday, August 15th, 2016
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 9:08 PM on Sunday, August 21st, 2016
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
