Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 10:58 PM on Sunday, November 23rd, 2014
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18
forgiven223 ( new member #43446) posted at 10:27 PM on Tuesday, November 25th, 2014
Hi sweet Maia! This is hobbit from DH. I've missed you! I found this board because I was searching for you this past summer when I needed some words of wisdom. You'll never know how much you've helped me. :) I love your Withdrawal guide. 
NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 7:04 PM on Wednesday, November 26th, 2014
NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 6:11 PM on Wednesday, December 3rd, 2014
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 7:56 PM on Thursday, December 11th, 2014
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 9:56 PM on Thursday, January 15th, 2015
bumped to put it back on top
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 9:05 PM on Friday, February 6th, 2015
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Daisy3220 ( new member #46616) posted at 9:22 PM on Friday, February 6th, 2015
Me: WS
Dday dec2014
One child 7
Married 8 years
unrecognizable1 ( member #46126) posted at 9:43 PM on Friday, February 6th, 2015
Holy crap! Let me repeat that...holy crap!
I'm relatively new to this board and I'd not seen this thread prior to today. All I've done so far is read your initial post. I felt so much anxiety reading it. I felt like running away, like screaming, crying, throwing up...something.
I will go back and absorb more when I can. I can't at the moment. I felt like you were in my head. Sometimes I feel like the thoughts will consume me.
Thank you for sharing.
Me: WS, late 40s, He: BS, mid 30s (TryngToRebuild)
DDay: 12/12/14 (day before wedding)
NC since 1/13/2015 w/primary AP, NC for months with anyone else.
IC & MC. I don't PM w men.
EvolvingSoul ( member #29972) posted at 1:06 AM on Thursday, February 12th, 2015
Yet another bump. I am digging the response right above this one. Way to face your fear, unrecognizable1!
Me: WS (63)Him: Shards (58)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11
We’re going to make it.
Marialena ( new member #46727) posted at 4:40 AM on Thursday, February 12th, 2015
This was great, thanks to you Maia! I've been in a relationship with a MM for two years now! I'm married women myself. I have tried letting go so manytimes but each times I come back. This time I told him I can't continue this, since he's leaving our common work place, what's the point! I'm going through another withdrawal, it hurts so bad, I'm not sure I will succeed this one too.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:50 PM on Saturday, February 21st, 2015
Bump.
NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 5:27 PM on Friday, February 27th, 2015
hallelujah ( member #32283) posted at 1:36 PM on Saturday, March 14th, 2015
Elphabasmom ( member #47137) posted at 8:26 PM on Saturday, March 14th, 2015
Thanks for this...I slowly need to read it and digest it. I am struggling with some aspects of letting go, because I have an almost two month old, and her biological father is AP. The affair was outed when I was 10 weeks pregnant...AP knew about it, and said he was red to be a part of the baby's life. We're waiting for a paternity test now. My H has been amazingly loving, and adores this baby girl. In some ways, I feel like I need to hold on to the way I felt about AP, because I don't want to see anger and resentment toward this beautiful baby that so strongly resembles AP. I'm getting there though...definitely keeping this for reference.
Me: WW 32
Husband: 35
Children: 9, 5, baby (DNA results are in, AP's biological child)
DDay: July 1, 2014
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 10:25 AM on Saturday, March 21st, 2015
NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 9:07 PM on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015
NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 7:24 PM on Friday, April 3rd, 2015
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 4:46 PM on Thursday, April 30th, 2015
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 1:52 PM on Wednesday, May 20th, 2015
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
