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Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)

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BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 3:15 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014

bump for Tdock

WH - 49
BW - gerrygirl

posts: 6125   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2009   ·   location: Tri-Cities
id 6765371
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NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 6:35 PM on Monday, June 16th, 2014

Bumped for those who haven't seen this yet...

Me: FWS 46

Divorced

posts: 445   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2011
id 6837559
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Wayflost ( member #41583) posted at 7:51 PM on Monday, June 23rd, 2014

Bump for dana47

"Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly."

posts: 762   ·   registered: Dec. 9th, 2013
id 6846027
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JustWant2BHappy ( member #43351) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, June 26th, 2014

Wow - Thanks Maia. This is really wonderful and helpful. I also am printing it and reading it daily, it has given me strength today.

posts: 57   ·   registered: May. 6th, 2014
id 6850118
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DrJekyll ( member #43618) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

bump for tangledknot

A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women

Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny. C.S.Lewis

posts: 1266   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Midwest
id 6859382
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ImSorry11 ( member #43517) posted at 7:06 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Bumping for Macsecond

Me: WW 33
Him: BH 37
DDay 5/23/14, 4 month EA/PA
Married 8 years Together 12
3 Beautiful Kiddos

posts: 54   ·   registered: May. 24th, 2014
id 6861502
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Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 7:10 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Thank you!!

Still learningytonavig atethis forum . Is there a way for me to save threads or bookmark or flag them for myself ?

Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

posts: 815   ·   registered: Jul. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 6861507
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NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 6:02 PM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014

Bump

Me: FWS 46

Divorced

posts: 445   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2011
id 6882865
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tangledknot ( member #43927) posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014

Thank you for this bump. I saved this to a word document on my laptop a could weeks ago. I will read it again. Hopefully this sinks in soon.

posts: 176   ·   registered: Jun. 30th, 2014
id 6883060
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 8:49 PM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014

bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 6891382
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:22 PM on Monday, August 11th, 2014

bump

posts: 12225   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 6905979
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RMarred ( member #44242) posted at 10:16 PM on Tuesday, August 12th, 2014

This is wonderful, Maia. Thank you.

Even though I truly am not missing OW one bit, I found this a very good read, for many of the other points it made!

Me: WBF
Her: BGF (SparrowSoul)
D-Day: 7/5/14

I was up above it. Now I'm down in it.

posts: 102   ·   registered: Jul. 26th, 2014
id 6907369
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PenitentMan ( member #43174) posted at 3:20 PM on Wednesday, August 27th, 2014

bump

Me: FWH (39)
Her: BW (34)
DDay 1: March 2013 (EA/PA that *I* rugswept)
DDay 2: April 2014 (PA with double betrayal. OW was wife's friend)
Married: Since 2001

posts: 552   ·   registered: Apr. 20th, 2014
id 6925487
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StartingFreshNow ( member #44224) posted at 11:08 PM on Wednesday, September 24th, 2014

Bumping

Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)

posts: 316   ·   registered: Jul. 24th, 2014   ·   location: USA
id 6957555
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 8:11 PM on Thursday, October 9th, 2014

bump....

I wish there was a way to pin this to the top of the Wayward section.

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 6972784
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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 9:38 AM on Sunday, October 19th, 2014

For chibri

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
id 6982043
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Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 9:53 PM on Monday, October 27th, 2014

bump for Regret44

Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

posts: 815   ·   registered: Jul. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 6990738
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somethingremorse ( member #42047) posted at 6:02 PM on Monday, November 3rd, 2014

Bump.

I've never bumped something before.

Me: WH (40s)
DDay 11/03/13
In MC and IC

posts: 911   ·   registered: Jan. 13th, 2014   ·   location: Pennsylvania
id 6998763
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Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 7:58 PM on Tuesday, November 18th, 2014

Bump

Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

posts: 815   ·   registered: Jul. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 7014120
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 11:23 PM on Thursday, November 20th, 2014

bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 7017244
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