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Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:41 PM on Tuesday, May 26th, 2015

bumping for midwest12

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

posts: 8408   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2009   ·   location: EU
id 7232704
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Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 8:45 PM on Thursday, June 4th, 2015

bump

Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

posts: 815   ·   registered: Jul. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 7242803
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 10:45 PM on Monday, June 29th, 2015

bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 7268494
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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 10:10 PM on Wednesday, July 1st, 2015

bump

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

posts: 55165   ·   registered: Sep. 2nd, 2007
id 7270600
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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 9:00 PM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2015

waving.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
id 7277209
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ThatGuyNoMore ( member #42899) posted at 4:30 PM on Tuesday, July 14th, 2015

bump

Me and BW both 50
Married 24 years, 4 kids
D-Day 3/5/14
14 years of infidelity including multiple ONS and a 6½ yr LTA
I lied to everyone including myself.

posts: 650   ·   registered: Mar. 26th, 2014   ·   location: US
id 7282899
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NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 5:07 PM on Tuesday, August 18th, 2015

Bump

Me: FWS 46

Divorced

posts: 445   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2011
id 7318392
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lostinmydream ( new member #48996) posted at 11:07 PM on Tuesday, August 18th, 2015

you know? the wave of pain? It was normally brought on by "magical thinking" As a good friend told me:

"It is also important to recognize that we feed our addiction with our minds. It is a bitch. An alki has to go buy and drink the booze; a junky has to score and shoot the dope, all we have to do is replay the past or fantasize about the future. "

My gosh, this is my struggle every day now...

posts: 5   ·   registered: Aug. 16th, 2015
id 7318823
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NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 2:46 PM on Wednesday, August 19th, 2015

It was for me too, Lost.

With continued NC, it gets better. But your efforts have to be consistent. Don't let yourself be sucked back into fantasyland.

Me: FWS 46

Divorced

posts: 445   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2011
id 7319391
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ThatGuyNoMore ( member #42899) posted at 5:36 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2015

bumped for achtung

Me and BW both 50
Married 24 years, 4 kids
D-Day 3/5/14
14 years of infidelity including multiple ONS and a 6½ yr LTA
I lied to everyone including myself.

posts: 650   ·   registered: Mar. 26th, 2014   ·   location: US
id 7327404
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hallelujah ( member #32283) posted at 6:11 PM on Friday, August 28th, 2015

bump

posts: 157   ·   registered: May. 26th, 2011
id 7329850
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WalkinOnEggshelz ( Moderator #29447) posted at 10:51 PM on Sunday, September 13th, 2015

Bump

Me: WS late 40’s
Him: BH (HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

posts: 14280   ·   registered: Aug. 27th, 2010   ·   location: Texas
id 7345024
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Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 6:15 PM on Tuesday, October 13th, 2015

Bump


posts: 3615   ·   registered: Oct. 10th, 2012
id 7370659
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Marcy70 ( member #48134) posted at 8:03 PM on Monday, October 26th, 2015

Bump

Me: WW (1970)
Him: BH (1970)

posts: 284   ·   registered: Jun. 5th, 2015   ·   location: Midwest US
id 7381714
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ThatGuyNoMore ( member #42899) posted at 10:07 PM on Friday, November 6th, 2015

bump for momandmore

Me and BW both 50
Married 24 years, 4 kids
D-Day 3/5/14
14 years of infidelity including multiple ONS and a 6½ yr LTA
I lied to everyone including myself.

posts: 650   ·   registered: Mar. 26th, 2014   ·   location: US
id 7390577
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Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 10:28 PM on Wednesday, November 25th, 2015

bump

Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

posts: 815   ·   registered: Jul. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 7405704
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Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 7:29 PM on Tuesday, December 15th, 2015

bump for Amd2523

Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

posts: 815   ·   registered: Jul. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 7422233
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Amd2523 ( member #50738) posted at 7:42 PM on Tuesday, December 15th, 2015

Thanks for finding this and posting it. I just posted this morning asking for help with this exact subject! Very very helpful, I will save this for the times when my mind drifts to FOM.

posts: 76   ·   registered: Dec. 9th, 2015
id 7422261
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Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 3:27 AM on Sunday, January 10th, 2016

bump for futuretense

Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

posts: 815   ·   registered: Jul. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 7444473
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beautifulM33 ( member #51261) posted at 3:34 AM on Tuesday, January 12th, 2016

So helpful.

posts: 80   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2016
id 7446278
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