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Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)

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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 7:07 PM on Thursday, April 20th, 2017

bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 6:57 PM on Wednesday, April 26th, 2017

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 2:48 PM on Saturday, June 17th, 2017

bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 6:25 PM on Tuesday, June 27th, 2017

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
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SilverStar ( member #46958) posted at 12:51 AM on Sunday, July 9th, 2017

bump for jaaj

BW me
WH him
2 kids
D-Day 11/11/14

posts: 455   ·   registered: Feb. 25th, 2015   ·   location: United States
id 7912961
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 5:16 AM on Friday, July 14th, 2017

Bump for BlueSprinkles. You can do it, Sprinkles! Stay strong!

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 7918147
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WalkinOnEggshelz ( Moderator #29447) posted at 12:02 PM on Monday, July 17th, 2017

Bump

Me: WS late 40’s
Him: BH (HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

posts: 14280   ·   registered: Aug. 27th, 2010   ·   location: Texas
id 7920714
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WalkinOnEggshelz ( Moderator #29447) posted at 11:04 PM on Sunday, July 30th, 2017

Bump

Me: WS late 40’s
Him: BH (HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

posts: 14280   ·   registered: Aug. 27th, 2010   ·   location: Texas
id 7932497
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 7:43 PM on Wednesday, August 23rd, 2017

bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 7954563
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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 3:18 PM on Tuesday, September 5th, 2017

waving.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

posts: 6874   ·   registered: Sep. 20th, 2005   ·   location: I am a Bluegrass-American
id 7964656
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 6:33 PM on Saturday, September 30th, 2017

Bumped for RNLB617.

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 7986974
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Stuckinthesouth ( member #60181) posted at 9:19 PM on Thursday, October 12th, 2017

Great post!

posts: 56   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2017   ·   location: Mississippi
id 7997740
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 1:01 PM on Sunday, October 22nd, 2017

Bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 8005328
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 1:00 AM on Saturday, November 18th, 2017

Bumped for Lucky77

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8026875
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OneInTheSame ( member #49854) posted at 8:27 AM on Thursday, December 14th, 2017

Thank you, Maia, for this! I am here trying to understand what my brother's mindset is so I can understand what my beloved sister-in-law is dealing with. Brother, in 47th year of marriage, reconnected with old flame and divorced s-i-l. He is back, and they are counseling together. He is grieving, which sounds horrid for my s-i-l. He may have carried a torch for the old flame (no puns intended) as my s-i-l believes, and is dealing with the loss of both the romance (is it love?) and the reliving of another life. I am angry at him but want to understand.

thank goodness my WW swears she did not have to grieve, as she did not have feelings. However, reading your post, I see signs of her grief for yet an older relationship reared its ugly head during our post d-day period. So I am reading this a few times for myself . . .

(I edit to correct typos)
I am the BS in a lesbian marriage. My WW's ex-girlfriend was the AP.
D-day of the 6 mo A was 10/04/15
We are doing okay, but by now I wanted it to be better

posts: 2485   ·   registered: Oct. 6th, 2015   ·   location: Pacific Northwest
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 1:09 AM on Saturday, December 30th, 2017

Bumped for TiredSoul2017

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
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Lucky77 ( member #61337) posted at 9:45 PM on Monday, January 1st, 2018

Bumped for Tab4

WS
1 year PA/ 2 Yr EA
Oh the depths of the betrayal

posts: 331   ·   registered: Nov. 7th, 2017
id 8060434
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 3:42 PM on Tuesday, January 9th, 2018

Bumped for BlueSprinkles

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8067014
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 3:18 AM on Wednesday, January 17th, 2018

Bump for Abc123abc

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
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EvolvingSoul ( Guide #29972) posted at 2:52 AM on Thursday, January 25th, 2018

Another bump.

Me: WS (60)Him: Shards (55)D-day: June 6, 2010Last voluntary AP contact: June 23, 2010NC Letter sent: 3/9/11

We’re going to make it.

posts: 2531   ·   registered: Oct. 29th, 2010   ·   location: The far shore.
id 8078587
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