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cancuncrushed posted 6/30/2019 08:02 AM

I have a friend...…….

who had complete ED for 3 plus years....
who took testosterone shots....which didn't help physically....
The shots convinced him, he could mentally...it was his partners fault.....that he couldn't perform..
He decided he needed an AP...he was entitled...afterall...who is expected to stop sex?
added Viagra to the mix...and had very little result if any...

He was absolutely shocked when the sex talk took place...he believed and continued to believe he was a star performer....one any young women would crave...absolutely shocked...so what if it was mostly attempted...

AS you pointed out......what kind of sex was it for his spouse? What did she want? His reality was very skewed...completely unable to accept it...Its not a job..

[This message edited by cancuncrushed at 8:08 AM, June 30th (Sunday)]

ShutterHappy posted 6/30/2019 08:16 AM

This affair is ongoing? Are you going to inform his wife?

Ripped62 posted 6/30/2019 08:26 AM

Prissy4lyfe

It seems you have popped his "wayward" balloon by providing the truth. Well done.

I would be thrilled to dine at a luncheon or dinner party with you in attendance.

Your wit and character would have me/others in attendance rolling with joy and laughter.

Thank you for sharing.

Babette2008 posted 6/30/2019 09:07 AM

:Laugh:

Hope2B posted 7/1/2019 03:36 AM

Thank you so much for this! Reality hits people right in the face sometimes. I hope the WS really internalizes what you said!
I was told once, by a male friend, that any time a man has sex and gets off, it's good sex.
Standing ovation to YOU, prissy4lyfe!!!!!!

realitybites posted 7/1/2019 07:33 AM

This guy was REALLY floored That his wife could possibly have not been satisfied with their sex life. LOL. This asshat was focused on how HE was going to get the attraction "back" to his wife and never considered that HE was the problem. Never crosses his mind that he got bad sex with his wife because HE GAVE BAD SEX.

Thank you for pointing this out. ^^^^^^

SOOOOOO tired of hearing the same crap over and over.... "I don't get any sex at home" "My husband/wife just isn't into what I like" "I can't go without sex" But it seems to be OK to KEEP a marriage cuz ya know.... they would have to live on a budget and they would have to share the kids... and gosh... that's not fair.

It really is true when they say that the one who cheats is usually the one who gives the least to the marriage.

If you want good sex you gotta GIVE GOOD SEX.

mchercheur posted 7/1/2019 09:10 AM

It really is true when they say that the one who cheats is usually the one who gives the least to the marriage.

crazyblindsided posted 7/1/2019 12:39 PM

I think this might be my favorite post on SI

You have a way with words prissy4lyfe.

My WS needs this special announcement

Chaos posted 7/1/2019 12:50 PM

Standing. Slow. Clap.

Laughing so hard I can hardly type.

Babette2008 posted 7/1/2019 13:48 PM

If you want good sex you gotta GIVE GOOD SEX.

This ^^^^^^^

That includes paying attention to your partner *before* you are in bed. If you ignore your partner all day/night they probably are not going to be in the mood when you decide to come to bed.