ZetaCephei (original poster member #79378) posted at 7:53 PM on Tuesday, August 2nd, 2022
"I know what I did was wrong, but I just can't keep paying for the affaair forever"
And this was literally days after Dday1 and I was still in shock, so not like he was suffering any real consequences of his actions at that point, except having to cut the AP loose. Now, he is ashamed of those words and doesn't push at all for me to get over it, but in the early days he was really an ass.
Me: BW, 46 -- Him: WH, 46 -- 9 years + 5 years LTAs simultaneously + 4 ONS -- Dday1: July 2021 -- Dday2: September 2021 -- Just living from day to day, not capable for any major decision at the moment