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Let's talk grandparenting!

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:21 PM on Friday, October 14th, 2022

Congratulations, Tanner! Great news.

Saw our GS last weekend ... almost 13, likes his teachers! Loves watching youtubes about history. It was great discussing Napoleon with him, however briefly. Still sweet to us, though not always to his dad.

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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 5:13 AM on Sunday, October 16th, 2022

Today we planned for all of us to have lunch at my daughter’s house. My W went over a few hours before to help them out and let them have a nap.

My daughter has had a terrible headache ever since the 3 failed epidural attempts. My W made her go to ER. She was leaking spinal fluid. They did a blood patch and she was better almost immediately. So she was released and we had a great time.

We got the sweetest picture of our 13 yo Son (severely autistic) holding him. He was so happy to be holding a baby, his first nephew.

Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R
BH M 31 years

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 number4 (original poster member #62204) posted at 10:27 PM on Monday, October 17th, 2022

Ugh... our little guy has RSV. 🙁 On day 3; they say 3-5 is the worse.

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Two adult daughters
1st affair: 2005-2007
2nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017
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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 9:19 PM on Friday, October 21st, 2022

Ugh... our little guy has RSV. 🙁 On day 3; they say 3-5 is the worse.

My Granddaughter has it she’s 8, so she is staying with us for a few days so the baby doesn’t get it.

[This message edited by Tanner at 9:21 PM, Friday, October 21st]

Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R
BH M 31 years

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 number4 (original poster member #62204) posted at 11:12 PM on Friday, October 21st, 2022

The news is saying that it's spreading widely. Kids are spending nights in ERs and waiting rooms because there's no room on the peds floor or PICUs.

And now, our D has it! GS has turned the corner, but they did make an ER visit Tuesday morning. He had a few really rough days. 🙁

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Him: WH
Married - 30+ years
Two adult daughters
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2nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017
Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addiction
Status: R

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 1:18 AM on Saturday, November 19th, 2022

We got the sweetest picture of our 13 yo Son (severely autistic) holding him. He was so happy to be holding a baby, his first nephew.

Wow! Just a beautiful picture in my mind!

RSV. Quite scary. Our little girl is still quite isolated. She's around other kids, briefly, only one day a week when I take her to a library program. She still hasn't ever been in a store. Her cousin, youngest of 4, the others go to school, had it. A few rough days, but he's on the mend. GD got her first COVID shot yesterday and a sniffy nose today. Probably a coincidence.

I have to share a wonderful story, I'm still tearing up when I think about it.

We babysat yesterday. Grandpa put her down for her nap. I went to a doctor's appointment. When I came back she was sitting with Grandpa reading a book. She didn't fuss over me, just greeted me with her favorite word, "Hi!" She has a small speaking vocabulary, "dat" for cat, that and a few other words, "up" for up and down, she's not picky, she signs "more" and "help", says momma, dada and deda for grandpa. A few others. Anyway, I sat down on the floor near her toys and she came over and started to play. She stopped, looked into my face, said "hug!" hugged me and rocked me back and forth before going back to her toys. My heart!!

This grammy thing is just wonderful...

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