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elKAPPYtan (original poster member #72085) posted at 5:35 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Peace 
Me: 36 STBXWW: 36 DDay: Oct 3rd 2019
"You keep it in between the pages of the books you burn so no one gets to read" -Corey MF Taylor
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:50 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
..Soooooo,
Do I have to ask what you will be doing at precisely 4:20 PM this afternoon??? 
It's at least one pleasure in life that Covid-19 hasn't fucked up!
Enjoy brother, enjoy...
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 5:59 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Well, I haven't toked in many years, but maybe I'll give our pooch an extra CBD spray or so around 4:20 today! He salivates when I bring out the bottle (fwiw... it IS beef flavored).
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:01 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
number4
Why is he on that? Does it help with pain?
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:25 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
it IS beef flavored).
I read that as beer, not beef lol
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 7:28 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
And today is my birthday, so thank you for the well wishes.
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
elKAPPYtan (original poster member #72085) posted at 7:44 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
I read that as beer, not beef lol
SAME! lol
Me: 36 STBXWW: 36 DDay: Oct 3rd 2019
"You keep it in between the pages of the books you burn so no one gets to read" -Corey MF Taylor
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 7:58 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
number4
Why is he on that? Does it help with pain?
He had a few episodes this winter where he injured either his neck or back (or both), jumping down from a high berm. We had to do a few rounds of gabapentin and an anti-inflammatory, as well as get a couple of ramps so he doesn't jump up/down off of the couch or bed. And he was waking up during the night, so we assumed it was because he was having pain after we finished the meds. That's why we started the CBD. It didn't really help him stay asleep at night (I think he just has a small bladder), but he did seem to get a bit spunkier in his energy, so we think it does help in some other way, and we haven't had to use the gabapentin/anti-inflammatory regimen since starting the CBD.
You should see him when I take out the bottle from my bedside table at night... he starts licking his lips before I even spray it in his mouth. He doesn't even mind when I have to lift up his upper lip to spray it in. We refer to him as our junkie now.
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:31 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Happy Birthday, Zen!!
I live just down the road from where 4/20 began (my cousin went to the actual high school).
Usually quite a party in this area but with Covid it’s all been cancelled.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 8:33 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
With that reaction it must be doing something good for him.
I used the CBD vape juice for pain. Omg it was amazing. And seeing as the doc told me if i continued with tylenol and advil like i was my kidneys would fail it was a life saver.
I can't smoke the stuff though.
Also where did 4/20 come from. I forget. 
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 10:25 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
..something about being off work at 4, and 20 minutes later, you're stoned! 
I could be way off the mark here... 
smy
PS: @ Zen... Hope you're having a great B-Day...
Please send cake!
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trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 10:42 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Origins. In 1971, five high school students in San Rafael, California, used the term "4:20" in connection with a plan to search for an abandoned cannabis crop, based on a treasure map made by the grower. They called themselves the Waldos because they met outside the school walls and 4:20 was their meeting time.
My nephew got married on 4/20 at 4/20...it was a great destination wedding....oh, how I long for the winter getaway to Jamaica, mon!
[This message edited by looking forward at 6:45 PM, April 20th (Tuesday)]
Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 10:45 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
...and Happy Birthday, ZenMumWalking
Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 11:34 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
I read that as beer, not beef lol
beer flavored spray sounds better than beef flavored spray.
The thought of beef flavored spray gives me the shivers. 
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 11:36 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2021
Happy Birthday Zen!!!
Ironically, in spite of my enjoyment of cannabis, I have never been one to celebrate 4/20. I mostly use it to chill out and to go to sleep... which doesn't seem very much like a party thing to do, you know?
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:33 PM on Wednesday, April 21st, 2021
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 7:46 PM on Wednesday, April 21st, 2021
Happy birthday Zen. Man that cake above looks so good. I want cake. Ya know the best part of being an adult? If i want cake for breakfast i can have cake for breakfast hahahahaba
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 12:03 AM on Thursday, April 22nd, 2021
Origins. In 1971, five high school students in San Rafael, California, used the term "4:20" in connection with a plan to search for an abandoned cannabis crop, based on a treasure map made by the grower. They called themselves the Waldos because they met outside the school walls and 4:20 was their meeting time.
A friend of mine posted yesterday on FB that she went to the high school where it started. I don't know her exact age, but suspect she probably missed being there when it happened by a few years.
And she posted an interesting link... if you google Gail Farrell and Dick Dale sing Brewer and Shipley's song "One Toke Over The Line," on The Lawrence Welk Show, you will see them singing an arrangement of the song. Lawrence Welk describes this song as a "modern spiritual"!!
Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R
wanamakeitwork ( new member #56876) posted at 2:58 PM on Thursday, April 22nd, 2021
Has anyone else noticed 4/20 is also taco Tuesday this year?
wanamakeitwork ( new member #56876) posted at 2:59 PM on Thursday, April 22nd, 2021
Has anyone else noticed 4/20 was also taco Tuesday this year?
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