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Caught ex-fucknugget in yet another current lie, over six years after our D.

I received a phone call from the military base (the base contact regarding DS stuff) wanting to confirm address since it had been a while.

They had my correct physical address, but it was being questioned because apparently they just spoke to ex-fuckhead and he told them his physical address was the same as mine, but that he had remarried. Being the Einstein that he is, he apparently didn't think they would question why he, being remarried, had the same physical address as his ex-wife. So they called me to verify as they thought I might have moved away.

Since the person I spoke to said they had just talked to him I naturally asked exactly what he said regarding my address. His response was "Yes, that is still the family address."

I couldn't help but laugh and I explained that he is a pathological liar and this is par for the course. Of COURSE he didn't come right out and say he lived there. That would be a direct lie, and that's not how he operates. Instead he worded it in a way such that if was questioned he could respond with, "Oh, there must have been a misunderstanding. I didn't say *I* lived there." That's how he rolls...still.

The person was wondering why he would do that and I explained it was easy, really. He was avoiding child support for his baby momma in another state and he doesn't want any paper trail the state might find to track him down. The person chuckled and said, "Yeah, I'm dealing with a deadbeat in another state, too, so I understand completely."

I closed the convo with an encouragement to do a return phone call to the doucheweasle to ask for his true physical address knowing he gave false information. I'm hoping it happens so HE knows I won't allow him to drag me into his deceptive practices.

I can't (nor do I even want to try) imagine the mental gymnastics needed to keep all the lies straight in his world, but I am sure glad he is not my monkey nor my circus any longer.

So, liars are gonna lie. That's what they do!

Carry on!

the mental gymnastics needed to keep all the lies straight in his world

It hurt-ed my head to think about.

Assclown on my end is apparently on 2 years probation and continues to drive on a suspended license. And I'm suurrre he's not even thinking about drinking and driving. Why they want to keep digging their own graves is beyond me.

Fucknugget = *snort*

Carry on indeed!

Same ol' same ol'. What an idiot. Thinks he's so clever but he snot.

So nice to see your healthy attitude about it all Phoenix, you're like a beacon for us all, showing the way to move on with good boundaries, and a good life.

Carry on!

the mental gymnastics needed to keep all the lies straight in his world

Exactly! I always say that it must be exhausting to be them.

I couldn't help but laugh and I explained that he is a pathological liar and this is par for the course

Same as my ex. Sad but my son is starting to see his dads false promises as par for the course. My ex just apologizes and said “I forgot” or makes up an excuse that isn’t true. I feel for the kid, but from his own experience he takes what his dad says with a grain of salt.

Some people can change but my ex is in denial and tells himself he has no problem - this is also a lie. 😆

What a fucking IDIOT!!!!!

So, liars are gonna lie. That's what they do!

Yup! and aren't you grateful that you've moved on?

SO happy for you

Okay guys, start getting the popcorn ready!

Just got off the phone with the state troopers. They are looking for xhole to serve child support papers. Had a nice convo and gave all the info I had (down to vehicle description), and told them due to his long history of successfully evading service they would be better off using the newspaper publication option at this point. He is going to pass that along to the state CSE office.

Newspaper service...legal service and public shaming at the same time. Just doesn't get any better than that!

That just made my day.

Popping the popcorn, can you please let me know what newspaper I should be subscribing to???

DUMBSHIT!!!!!!

ETA: oh, and keep it coming Phoenix, love the laughs in this latest chapter of 'Adventures with Xhole'

[This message edited by ZenMumWalking at 11:08 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)]

Thanks phoenix for helping that child.

Being the Einstein that he is, he apparently didn't think they would question why he, being remarried, had the same physical address as his ex-wife.

This so clearly shows the disorder. OMG

This thread made me smile.

Phoenix, next call you get, tell them they should put a GPS tracker up his behind when they catch him, in case there's another OC in the future.

This is awesome!!

Legal service (I had no idea!!) and public shaming combined!!

He is going to owe a ton of money.

And I'm guessing if he ignores the newspaper he will be arrested, in contempt? Such a shame...

Karma in action!

Good to see you Phoenix.

Ugh. I don’t know where you are but service by publication in the state I used to practice in was bullshit because the publications they were required to use were publications that no one read. Seriously. It was a total and expensive joke. They also will have to get (again in most states) a court order to allow service by publication only after proving they exhausted all other avenues. It’s expensive and sucks...I say all this just to give you the heads up that they may call again wanting more info so they can prove they exhausted every source.

Oh well. At least you can laugh about him trying to evade service and living his life that way!

What an assclown. We have similar timelines. God I'm so glad the house is finally out of both our names. I have zero to do with him now. Though an occasional comeuppance phone conversation to debt collectors might be amusing if it were ever to happen. Lol