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sarahm49 ( member #37351) posted at 7:31 PM on Tuesday, January 22nd, 2013

Add me in. I am in the London Ontario Canada Area

BS:Me 50
D-Day Oct 20,2012
TT until final disclosure Dec 21, 2012 at polygraph.
Married 24 years

posts: 155   ·   registered: Nov. 1st, 2012   ·   location: Ontario
id 6187077

bitchboots ( member #38051) posted at 3:47 AM on Saturday, February 2nd, 2013

Most definitely add me to the list. I am in Dallas/Ft. Worth/Arlington and surrounding areas.


Me: BS
DDay 4/27/2012---3 weeks after our 10 year anniversary.
Second DDay--1/2/2013--R is over

~~~~Finding my moxie~~~~
"May your past be the sound of your feet upon the ground"...FUN

posts: 336   ·   registered: Jan. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Dallas
id 6201885

womanfromohio ( member #34600) posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, April 4th, 2013

You can add me in.

Dayton, Ohio

3 children (15, 10, and 5)
Together 14 years, married 9
DD- June 2, 2011 (didn't find out until October 4, 2014)

posts: 109   ·   registered: Jan. 20th, 2012
id 6285188

Knowing ( member #37044) posted at 5:40 PM on Friday, April 5th, 2013

Add me for Montreal, QC, Canada & Southwestern Quebec, Canada region (Town of Chateauguay & valley all the way to US border)

BW, R last 4 years of marriage out of 15... FINALLY, HAPPILY DIVORCING!

We are in R.

posts: 698   ·   registered: Oct. 5th, 2012
id 6286935

Coma ( member #29353) posted at 5:36 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Never Read this thread. Add me for Staten Island & Brooklyn NY

"Love, look what you've done to me"

posts: 537   ·   registered: Aug. 18th, 2010
id 6333466

Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 11:06 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2013

Please add me for Australia. Anywhere. I am happy to help anyone. I'm sorry I can't add my exact location as I live in a small town. Can make calls etc


[This message edited by Laura28 at 5:46 AM, May 13th (Monday)]

Married 33yrs Me BW 59Yrs Him FWH 62yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

posts: 2772   ·   registered: Jul. 8th, 2010   ·   location: Australia
id 6333537

mainlyinpain ( member #39134) posted at 8:16 AM on Saturday, May 25th, 2013

Add me for north/northwest Chicago suburbs.


posts: 602   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2013
id 6349143

mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 2:49 AM on Monday, June 17th, 2013


Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

posts: 13400   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2006   ·   location: The suburbs of hell
id 6376473

 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 3:39 AM on Monday, June 17th, 2013

Eesh; finally up to date

Thank you to:













and mom of 2 for the bump!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
id 6376511

Blackhair ( member #39451) posted at 2:37 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013

Add me to the list pls, I am in South Calgary Alberta, Canada, thx

M: 10 years both late 40s.
3 Children
DDay: April 2013
Legally separated on Oct 2013.
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

posts: 203   ·   registered: Jun. 5th, 2013   ·   location: Canada
id 6478641

confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 3:12 PM on Sunday, September 8th, 2013

You can add me to this list of fine people,please.

I am in central,east central Indiana.

FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.

posts: 15220   ·   registered: Jan. 15th, 2011
id 6478668

Broken1Again ( member #32211) posted at 3:15 AM on Saturday, September 14th, 2013

You can add me to the list, I'm in the Toronto Ontario Canada Area

BS: 40
WS: 42
Two boys 13/11
Married 15 years
Dday: too Many to remember. 3 significant OW and many "less"'significant OW. Believe WS has bad boundaries and craves the attention.
In R.

posts: 1068   ·   registered: May. 19th, 2011
id 6486680

RedRaven6500 ( member #39626) posted at 12:50 PM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

I currently live in the UK and would be more than happy to help out, whether you are English or visiting. Especially with military members/spouses that are stationed over here. EDIT: So meant to say I can help out from Northampton to Cambridge, that includes RAF Molesworth, RAF Alconbury, RAF Mildenhall, RAF Lakenheath.

[This message edited by blking at 7:22 AM, October 3rd (Thursday)]

BW: 46, WH: 46, Married: 27 years
DD: 26, DS: 24
DDay 1: 22 Oct 2011
DDay 2: 03 June 2019
Year PAs/EAs started: 2004, possibly 2003
OW: 3 serious long-distance PA/EA's, several casual PA's, some at the same time. Classy
In R

posts: 136   ·   registered: Jun. 21st, 2013
id 6509568

sportsfan ( member #9918) posted at 8:19 PM on Thursday, October 17th, 2013

I noticed that Tonehua is on the list for south central PA but I don't think she is active here anymore so please include my in south central PA.

posts: 2151   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2006   ·   location: FL
id 6527279

frigidfire86 ( member #32324) posted at 12:15 AM on Friday, November 8th, 2013

I'm no longer living in North Carolina, but if anyone needs help in Germany (Grafenwoehr / Vilseck area) I can help.

Me: 34
Him: 35
Married 14 years
Daughter, 13 yrs old
D-Day: 2011

posts: 685   ·   registered: May. 31st, 2011   ·   location: Texas
id 6554096

StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 9:47 PM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

How do I add myself to be a snooper? Tucson, AZ and Sierra Vista, AZ area.

[This message edited by StillLivin at 3:54 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)]

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5955   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 6584389

painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 9:19 PM on Saturday, December 21st, 2013

You can add me for MA (Boston and north on 95), NH (coastal areas), and Maine (Southwestern)


DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

posts: 2249   ·   registered: Oct. 19th, 2013   ·   location: East Coast
id 6607463

sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

You can add me to the Buffalo, NY USA list.

D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

posts: 5718   ·   registered: Mar. 8th, 2004   ·   location: NY
id 6618498

JadedMusicWidow ( member #975) posted at 7:50 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2013

I was in Las Vegas area but divorced WH so I am now in the Fargo, ND and Moorhead MN area if anyone needs assistance in my area, I am happy to help

I used to have a handle on life ...but it broke off.

posts: 453   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2003
id 6618501

goodbye_virginia ( member #16321) posted at 5:02 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

Please add me, Austin tx.

Me- BW 38
Him - WH 46 alcoholic
We are attempting R but I still doubt it all sometimes
Divorced as of 09/2018

posts: 58   ·   registered: Sep. 24th, 2007   ·   location: Texas
id 6623358
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