Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 5:11 PM on Sunday, November 1st, 2015
Up to date through growingnumb, 11/1/15--thank you everyone!!
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
JRod ( member #50935) posted at 3:24 PM on Sunday, December 27th, 2015
When conveniant, please add me, in DFW - Dallas, Texas.
Me: BH 55
Her: WW 34
Together: 8 years, DD-7
DDay: November 14, 2015
Confrontation: December 17, 2015 leads to TT
Current status: Attempting R with MC
"Someday, everything is gonna be smooth like a rhapsody, when I paint my masterpie
jb885 ( member #11330) posted at 8:34 PM on Friday, January 15th, 2016
Not sure if I was on here before but I have moved from NC to Galveston, TX if you want to add me!! :)
By the time you swear you're his,
Shivering and sighing,
And he swears his passion is -
Infinite, Undying,
Lady, make a note of it -
One of you is lying.
~Dorothy Parker
jb885 ( member #11330) posted at 8:34 PM on Friday, January 15th, 2016
Not sure if I was on here before but I have moved from NC to Galveston, TX if you want to add me!! :)
By the time you swear you're his,
Shivering and sighing,
And he swears his passion is -
Infinite, Undying,
Lady, make a note of it -
One of you is lying.
~Dorothy Parker
Scornedmommy ( member #49499) posted at 2:33 AM on Thursday, January 28th, 2016
You can add me... I'm in Maryland, Not far from the PA border and the surrounding Baltimore area.
Charlee ( member #50386) posted at 7:01 PM on Wednesday, February 3rd, 2016
New Here - Forgive my ignorance, but what is considered "snooping"? What activities fall under this list and what are the expectations or can someone direct me to obtain more details about what "snooping" entails?
THANKS!
ME: BS, 67
HIM:62
MARRIED: 45 years
DDay: #1 9/19/15
Dday #2 2/28/18
Newlife4me2015 ( member #50547) posted at 3:32 PM on Monday, March 28th, 2016
You can add me. Dallas/Ft worth Texas
"Say goodbye to where you been and tell your heart to beat again'
BS:(me) 45
WH: 45
Married 5/31/1997
Trying to R
Affair started: 10/2013. (or so he says)
Affair ended: 03/2015 or 5//2015 but continued to be &
CitrusC ( member #45652) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, April 14th, 2016
Thistles ( member #18970) posted at 6:22 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016
You can add me to marylands eastern shore
Me-BS-52
Him-FWS 51
M-25 yrs
D-Day Mar 26,2008
NC phone call Aug 2
Reconciling not working out
Had him move out 6-1-11
Divorce final 1/4/13
frigidfire86 ( member #32324) posted at 12:52 AM on Thursday, November 24th, 2016
I moved, so can you remove me from Germany and add me to Louisiana - Fort Polk area.
fireandflame ( member #56393) posted at 8:13 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2016
You can add me, Sweden - Stockholm, Uppsala (Uppland).
Me BS M/34
WS F/41 (4everguilty)
2 DDs 7 and 5
Together since 2005
D-Day: 19 nov 2016
LTA EA/PA: 13 months
Starboard ( member #55967) posted at 8:39 PM on Tuesday, January 10th, 2017
You can add me... I can travel anywhere in Hudson County, NJ and my phone area code will appear "local" enough anywhere in the NYC metro area for anyone needing someone to place a call
Are we there yet?
DDay July 2016
sad81712 ( member #37418) posted at 3:24 AM on Friday, March 3rd, 2017
You can add me to the list Las Vegas/Henderson NV
"Pain is mandatory for all of us. It's what teaches us. Suffering is what's optional. That's what happens when we try to skip over the pain."-Glennon Doyle Melton
BW(me)-52 WH-51
Married 25yrs
DD & DS
D-day 8-2012
WhatElseToDo ( member #35233) posted at 1:16 AM on Saturday, June 3rd, 2017
You can add me to the list for Seattle, WA.
"Closure happens right after you accept that letting go and moving on is more important than projecting a fantasy of how the relationship could have been"
Used2bhappy10 ( member #59324) posted at 3:46 PM on Sunday, July 16th, 2017
Please add me to Illinois, NW suburbs and Lake County
Me: 50+
WH: 50+
M: 30+ years, 2 adult DD
DDay March 2017
Strong into R with a better than ever WH
I saw that.
Signed,
Karma
solo ( member #57709) posted at 6:36 PM on Monday, October 30th, 2017
You can add me. Houston, Texas.
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 4:55 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2018
Are there still people using this feature?
BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017
orchid2424 ( member #58716) posted at 10:07 PM on Monday, July 30th, 2018
You can add me to this list: Central Alberta (Edmonton to Lloydminster) in Canada
Me - BW, 45; He - WH, 46Married 20; Together 25D-day - Aug '17Divorcing.
Betrayed. Built up after being heart-broken. Life is good.
tapered ( member #50970) posted at 7:30 AM on Sunday, September 30th, 2018
You can add me. I’m from Southern California.
Me: BW 58
WS 54
DiD: 2/2015 (affair started July 2014)
Filing for Divorce (WS unaware)
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Itsanewday ( member #49991) posted at 5:52 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2018
Is this forum active? Seems like everything is from 2011?
I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become.