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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 5:11 PM on Sunday, November 1st, 2015

Up to date through growingnumb, 11/1/15--thank you everyone!!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
id 7386311
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JRod ( member #50935) posted at 3:24 PM on Sunday, December 27th, 2015

When conveniant, please add me, in DFW - Dallas, Texas.

Me: BH 55
Her: WW 34
Together: 8 years, DD-7
DDay: November 14, 2015
Confrontation: December 17, 2015 leads to TT
Current status: Attempting R with MC
"Someday, everything is gonna be smooth like a rhapsody, when I paint my masterpie

posts: 76   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2015   ·   location: Dallas
id 7431871
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jb885 ( member #11330) posted at 8:34 PM on Friday, January 15th, 2016

Not sure if I was on here before but I have moved from NC to Galveston, TX if you want to add me!! :)

By the time you swear you're his,
Shivering and sighing,
And he swears his passion is -
Infinite, Undying,
Lady, make a note of it -
One of you is lying.
~Dorothy Parker

posts: 342   ·   registered: Jul. 17th, 2006   ·   location: North Carolina
id 7450114
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jb885 ( member #11330) posted at 8:34 PM on Friday, January 15th, 2016

Not sure if I was on here before but I have moved from NC to Galveston, TX if you want to add me!! :)

By the time you swear you're his,
Shivering and sighing,
And he swears his passion is -
Infinite, Undying,
Lady, make a note of it -
One of you is lying.
~Dorothy Parker

posts: 342   ·   registered: Jul. 17th, 2006   ·   location: North Carolina
id 7450115
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Scornedmommy ( member #49499) posted at 2:33 AM on Thursday, January 28th, 2016

You can add me... I'm in Maryland, Not far from the PA border and the surrounding Baltimore area.

posts: 396   ·   registered: Sep. 6th, 2015   ·   location: Northeast
id 7461855
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Charlee ( member #50386) posted at 7:01 PM on Wednesday, February 3rd, 2016

New Here - Forgive my ignorance, but what is considered "snooping"? What activities fall under this list and what are the expectations or can someone direct me to obtain more details about what "snooping" entails?

THANKS!

ME: BS, 62
HIM:62
MARRIED: 40 years
DDay: #1 9/19/15
Dday #2 2/28/18
WAS headed to D NOW R?

posts: 677   ·   registered: Nov. 15th, 2015   ·   location: NE
id 7468108
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Newlife4me2015 ( member #50547) posted at 3:32 PM on Monday, March 28th, 2016

You can add me. Dallas/Ft worth Texas

"Say goodbye to where you been and tell your heart to beat again'
BS:(me) 45
WH: 45
Married 5/31/1997
Trying to R
Affair started: 10/2013. (or so he says)
Affair ended: 03/2015 or 5//2015 but continued to be &

posts: 66   ·   registered: Nov. 27th, 2015   ·   location: Texas
id 7514064
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CitrusC ( member #45652) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, April 14th, 2016

Bump

posts: 57   ·   registered: Nov. 17th, 2014
id 7529299
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Thistles ( member #18970) posted at 6:22 PM on Monday, October 31st, 2016

You can add me to marylands eastern shore

Me-BS-52
Him-FWS 51
M-25 yrs
D-Day Mar 26,2008
NC phone call Aug 2
Reconciling not working out
Had him move out 6-1-11
Divorce final 1/4/13

posts: 270   ·   registered: Apr. 3rd, 2008   ·   location: Maryland
id 7697257
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frigidfire86 ( member #32324) posted at 12:52 AM on Thursday, November 24th, 2016

I moved, so can you remove me from Germany and add me to Louisiana - Fort Polk area.

Me: 34
Him: 35
Married 14 years
Daughter, 13 yrs old
D-Day: 2011

posts: 685   ·   registered: May. 31st, 2011   ·   location: Texas
id 7713473
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fireandflame ( member #56393) posted at 8:13 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2016

You can add me, Sweden - Stockholm, Uppsala (Uppland).

Me BS M/34
WS F/41 (4everguilty)
2 DDs 7 and 5
Together since 2005
D-Day: 19 nov 2016
LTA EA/PA: 13 months

posts: 202   ·   registered: Dec. 12th, 2016   ·   location: Sweden
id 7732645
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Starboard ( member #55967) posted at 8:39 PM on Tuesday, January 10th, 2017

You can add me... I can travel anywhere in Hudson County, NJ and my phone area code will appear "local" enough anywhere in the NYC metro area for anyone needing someone to place a call

Are we there yet?

DDay July 2016

posts: 196   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2016   ·   location: Coteau des Prairies USA
id 7753146
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sad81712 ( member #37418) posted at 3:24 AM on Friday, March 3rd, 2017

You can add me to the list Las Vegas/Henderson NV

"Pain is mandatory for all of us. It's what teaches us. Suffering is what's optional. That's what happens when we try to skip over the pain."-Glennon Doyle Melton
BW(me)-52 WH-51
Married 25yrs
DD & DS
D-day 8-2012

posts: 163   ·   registered: Nov. 8th, 2012
id 7799785
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WhatElseToDo ( member #35233) posted at 1:16 AM on Saturday, June 3rd, 2017

You can add me to the list for Seattle, WA.

"Closure happens right after you accept that letting go and moving on is more important than projecting a fantasy of how the relationship could have been"

posts: 252   ·   registered: Apr. 4th, 2012   ·   location: Seattle
id 7881294
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Used2bhappy10 ( member #59324) posted at 3:46 PM on Sunday, July 16th, 2017

Please add me to Illinois, NW suburbs and Lake County

Me: 50+
WH: 50+
M: 30+ years, 2 adult DD
DDay March 2017
Strong into R with a better than ever WH

I saw that.
Signed,
Karma

posts: 261   ·   registered: Jun. 21st, 2017   ·   location: US
id 7920192
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solo ( member #57709) posted at 6:36 PM on Monday, October 30th, 2017

You can add me. Houston, Texas.

posts: 206   ·   registered: Mar. 6th, 2017
id 8011568
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josiep ( member #58593) posted at 4:55 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2018

Are there still people using this feature?

BW, 70 YO; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.
DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. Divorced.

posts: 3062   ·   registered: May. 5th, 2017
id 8191193
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orchid2424 ( member #58716) posted at 10:07 PM on Monday, July 30th, 2018

You can add me to this list: Central Alberta (Edmonton to Lloydminster) in Canada

Me - BW, 45; He - WH, 46
Married 20; Together 25
D-day - Aug '17
Divorcing.

Betrayed. Built up after being heart-broken. Life is good.

posts: 142   ·   registered: May. 13th, 2017   ·   location: Alberta, Canada
id 8218430
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tapered ( member #50970) posted at 7:30 AM on Sunday, September 30th, 2018

You can add me. I’m from Southern California.

Me: BW 58

WS 54

DiD: 2/2015 (affair started July 2014)

Filing for Divorce (WS unaware)

[This message edited by tapered at 11:12 AM, October 1st (Monday)]

posts: 120   ·   registered: Dec. 27th, 2015
id 8257199
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Itsanewday ( member #49991) posted at 5:52 PM on Tuesday, November 20th, 2018

Is this forum active? Seems like everything is from 2011?

I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become.

posts: 100   ·   registered: Oct. 19th, 2015   ·   location: Georgia
id 8287195
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