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rolfasaurus ( member #42348) posted at 11:47 PM on Sunday, February 9th, 2014

I would love to be of help. Please add me to the Arizona, Phoenix area list. :)

Serenity to accept the things I cannot change.
Courage to change the things I can.
Wisdom to know the difference.

posts: 50   ·   registered: Feb. 4th, 2014   ·   location: United States
id 6678207

GreatRoleModel ( member #36809) posted at 3:03 PM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

I can help please add I am in Raleigh NC

BS (me)
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!
“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost

posts: 493   ·   registered: Sep. 12th, 2012   ·   location: USA
id 6753500

Mochagurl ( member #14660) posted at 5:44 PM on Saturday, May 17th, 2014

Would love to help. Columbus OH area.

Me: BS-56
Him: WS-56
Married: 36 years
Divorced: 11-17-15
DD 36, DD 26, DS 23, DD 20
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

posts: 312   ·   registered: May. 18th, 2007   ·   location: Ohio
id 6803065

karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 7:56 PM on Friday, June 13th, 2014

I can snoop near Bristol and Norfolk Counties in Massachusetts.

Also border Pawtucket R.I. not sure of their counties but can help in that area as well.

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

posts: 4035   ·   registered: Jun. 13th, 2012   ·   location: Massachusetts
id 6835072

lilflower1000 ( member #36634) posted at 4:12 AM on Tuesday, June 24th, 2014

Add me to the snoopers list..

Georgia--Middle GA-- Warner Robins area

Me: 51 BS
Married 19 years
Dday1: 8/1/2012 ( followed by multiple Ddays)
D-day2( AP#2):Easter-April 12 , 2020
4kids(18,16, 13, 8) + 2 grown Step kids I love like my own

posts: 407   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2012   ·   location: Georgia
id 6846455

ckss4 ( member #43691) posted at 3:53 PM on Thursday, July 10th, 2014

Please add me to the northwest NJ list

posts: 58   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2014
id 6867158

1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 6:11 PM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014

You can add me in the St. Louis area

Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for

posts: 4131   ·   registered: Apr. 12th, 2013
id 6891167

BlueinStLou ( member #44416) posted at 5:22 PM on Thursday, August 21st, 2014

You can add me to the St. Louis area, especially the western suburbs, but I travel in Missouri for business so depending on timing I might be able to cover lots of other Missouri spots.

DDay1 3/26/2014
DDay2 4/15/2014
DDay 3 7/15/2014
DDay 4 8/15/2014
DDay 5-7 December 2014
DDay 8 - 9/10/15
DDay 9 - 10/15/16
Me BS 42
WH 41

1DD, 2 DS

posts: 475   ·   registered: Aug. 7th, 2014   ·   location: Midwest
id 6918488

SoLostStillNumb ( member #44248) posted at 8:53 PM on Tuesday, September 30th, 2014

Please add me to the Northern VA/Prince William County/Fairfax County list. I'd love to help.

Me: BS 30 Him: XH 30
Married: 5 years, together 7. No kids.
DDay: 6/3/14
Divorced: 04/2015!

"There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in."

posts: 228   ·   registered: Jul. 26th, 2014   ·   location: VA
id 6963791

Jomarion ( member #43659) posted at 11:29 PM on Thursday, April 2nd, 2015

Please add me to the list. I am in mid-Wales, UK. I can snoop in Shropshire, Powys, Ceridigion, and Gwynedd counties. Also possibly Cheshire.

me:BGF, 54, American immigrant. one son. me and my ex get along great, the most amicable split imaginable!
him:WBF,43, Polish immigrant
together since 2006,
DDay:October28,2009,after his 3 teen kids push him to cheat with OW.
5 betrayed me

posts: 298   ·   registered: Jun. 8th, 2014   ·   location: UK
id 7173792

devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 2:09 AM on Friday, April 3rd, 2015

I can help in Oklahoma City, Del City, Midwest City, Moore, Yukon areas of Oklahoma.

Possibly limited areas in Edmond, it has gotten really big lately. Never hurts to ask! I don't check PMs every day, though, so give me a few days' notice when possible.

Me: 2xBS b 1962
xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.

posts: 5095   ·   registered: Oct. 30th, 2014   ·   location: Central USA
id 7173946

isthismynewlife ( member #43292) posted at 6:06 AM on Friday, April 3rd, 2015

I can help! Central California area

Me 42 BS
Him 42 FWS
DDay #1 11/28/13 - 7 months EA/a little PA with my supposed friend.
DDAy #2 8/25/14 - oops - did I forget to mention that it was a 15 month PA/EA? He thought the first version would hurt me less.
Things are improving daily!

posts: 310   ·   registered: May. 1st, 2014
id 7174096

crushedgrapes ( member #45096) posted at 6:13 PM on Monday, April 6th, 2015

I'm looking for some one that may be going to the Kentucky Derby.

This may be a long shot but if any snoop is going to be there perhaps they can help me out.

I have strong suspicions that WH is meeting the OW there.

Please PM me if you think you can help.

Me BS Age 53
Him WH Age 52
DDay Aug 8 0214
DS32 & DS21
Married 24 yrs, together 31yrs

posts: 86   ·   registered: Oct. 3rd, 2014
id 7176955

1moretess ( member #47635) posted at 11:32 AM on Tuesday, April 28th, 2015

You can add me, I am in Northern New Jersey Sussex/Morris County NJ

Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care.
ME 44 BS together 18 years
Him 55 stbx (a abusive narcissist in every form.)

posts: 144   ·   registered: Apr. 23rd, 2015   ·   location: One Level Up from Batshit Crazy
id 7202726

SMSA925 ( member #43955) posted at 7:14 AM on Wednesday, April 29th, 2015

If I can help anyone in the Greater Myrtle Beach area, I'm available.

Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
My ducks lined up, life is good!

posts: 859   ·   registered: Jul. 2nd, 2014   ·   location: Phila. PA
id 7203805

Husburned ( member #46422) posted at 4:06 PM on Friday, May 15th, 2015

I'm happy to help in Durham or Chapel Hill, NC


"Everyone has a plan... Until they get punched in the mouth."

-Mike Tyson
Married in '94, She cheated. D-Day Jan '15. Tried R for a year, but we didn't have the tools for it. Now mercifully divorced.

posts: 3123   ·   registered: Jan. 20th, 2015   ·   location: South of Canada, North of Mexico
id 7221285

Lostly ( member #43953) posted at 10:18 PM on Monday, June 22nd, 2015

You can add me for Colorado Springs, Co. I can also drive to Pueblo and some of the smaller towns in Southern/Eastern Colorado. I would gladly be of service.

BW 48 - Multiple d-days
Divorced 2012 after 19 yrs
6 smart, beautiful, amazing kids.

I have finally found my voice and it is good!

posts: 234   ·   registered: Jul. 2nd, 2014   ·   location: Australia
id 7261594

IWILLSOAR ( member #48373) posted at 8:47 PM on Monday, August 10th, 2015

You can add me to the Wellington, Oh list. I dont check messages everyday so give me a few to get back with you.

BS 50
WS 59
DDay 1 9-1-13, OMW#1 and then the
Past 8 years started to unravel

posts: 93   ·   registered: Jun. 24th, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7310303

gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 5:13 PM on Monday, September 21st, 2015

Please take me off the California list/San Jose/ Morgan Hill/Gilroy areas. I no longer live there.

Thank-you !


It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

posts: 20502   ·   registered: May. 19th, 2008   ·   location: Closer to where I want to be..
id 7351290

growingnumb ( member #4508) posted at 7:43 AM on Sunday, November 1st, 2015

Colorado here - north metro Denver area.

Courage in women is often mistaken for insanity.

posts: 514   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2004   ·   location: Upward
id 7386112
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