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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 7:34 PM on Tuesday, June 26th, 2012

Apologies for the delay and big thank yous to:







You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
id 5900532

stillhere09 ( member #24924) posted at 9:48 PM on Saturday, June 30th, 2012

I was in East Orlando, but have moved. I am now in Ohio, and I would be glad to help anyone in the Trumbull Mahoning County area. Perhaps even parts of Ashtabula.

Me-50 BW

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M

posts: 3204   ·   registered: Jul. 22nd, 2009   ·   location: Ohio
id 5907100

LAFA ( member #31868) posted at 7:50 PM on Sunday, August 5th, 2012

I'm willing to be added. Honolulu.

When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

posts: 247   ·   registered: Apr. 14th, 2011   ·   location: Hawaii
id 5957534

pbjkiki ( member #35145) posted at 11:40 PM on Wednesday, August 15th, 2012

In Salt Lake City. Add me if you want.

posts: 333   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2012
id 5974243

LostinSadness ( member #36495) posted at 9:01 PM on Sunday, August 26th, 2012

I am in Pinellas County FL (West Central FL) and would be happy to help.

Me: BS 47
Him: WH 46

posts: 298   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2012   ·   location: FL
id 5989744

atsenaotie ( member #27650) posted at 6:59 PM on Wednesday, August 29th, 2012

Lee County in SWFL, I will be happy to help


dday 10.5.09

posts: 4173   ·   registered: Feb. 19th, 2010   ·   location: FL
id 5994871

1Bite2Shy ( member #36430) posted at 10:47 PM on Thursday, September 6th, 2012

Wish I'd had this 6 years ago.

Happy to help too. Salt Lake City (west) Utah

D Day : July 30 2012
Trying to R.

posts: 90   ·   registered: Aug. 11th, 2012   ·   location: US
id 6007478

Keepbreathing5 ( member #36534) posted at 4:40 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2012

I'm happy to help. I'm VA, Dulles, Leesburg, Ashburn area

BSO (me): 24
WSO (him): 27 (cheaterSteve05)
Engaged 1.5 years, Together 6 years
EA: ~4 months/ PA: ~2 months with MOW (coworker)

posts: 64   ·   registered: Aug. 17th, 2012
id 6031630

Issaquah ( member #34484) posted at 5:02 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2012

Happy to help too. I'm In the Norfolk, VA area. I was wishing someone else was in this area to do a little checking up for me.

BS - Me, 45
ExWS - Husband, 47 SA dx in March 2013
T-25, M-21 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays / OWs since 1999
Most recent DDay 8-12

posts: 876   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2012   ·   location: Virginia
id 6031669

Diva0702 ( member #32309) posted at 9:36 AM on Saturday, October 6th, 2012

Happy to help anyone this end. South West of England. Please add me to list.

Me: BW 53
Him: FWH 47
4 wonderful grown children
2 beautiful grandchildren
Married 20 years
Together 23 years
Dday March 10 2010. 4 yr A.
Me: RGN(ret), N.Dip.,BA(Psych),MA (Psych),BA Music.
OW: 55 year old taxi driver

posts: 333   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2011   ·   location: UK
id 6049796

notinsane ( member #36286) posted at 3:19 AM on Sunday, October 7th, 2012

I could help in NM (mostly Albuquerque, but occasionally Los Lunas or Belen).

posts: 276   ·   registered: Jul. 28th, 2012
id 6050490

Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 8:36 PM on Thursday, October 11th, 2012

I would be happy to help, I am in Lake County Fl. NW of Orlando.

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

posts: 6708   ·   registered: Jul. 15th, 2012   ·   location: Florida
id 6057088

NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 1:21 AM on Friday, October 12th, 2012

I am in northeast Florida with LOTS of free time. I can make phone calls or do reconaiisance.

Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

posts: 1258   ·   registered: Jun. 30th, 2012   ·   location: a state of consciousness
id 6057454

CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 2:48 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012

I can do the Big Island. I'm on the Kona side but get to most parts of the island fairly regularly.

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

posts: 1968   ·   registered: Oct. 11th, 2011
id 6097323

 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 6:46 PM on Tuesday, November 13th, 2012

Thank you to:














We now have two investigative member in Hawaii...

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
id 6099631

slippedhalo ( member #31159) posted at 9:44 PM on Wednesday, November 28th, 2012

I'm back after a long break and would like to be added to the list. I am in central Iowa. Let me know if you need help.

posts: 69   ·   registered: Feb. 11th, 2011
id 6119995

lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 4:46 AM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012

Add me, please. Hamilton, Ontario.

Me: BS/45
Him: WS/42
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 21 years.

posts: 1806   ·   registered: Sep. 2nd, 2009   ·   location: not toronto anymore
id 6145984

Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 7:58 AM on Friday, December 28th, 2012

Add me to the St. Louis metro area! Particularly west of the MO River. I'd be glad to help!

"Absence makes the clarity grow stronger" - cantaccept

"A good man with good intentions has no reason to lie" - somer222

posts: 1399   ·   registered: Jan. 5th, 2012   ·   location: US
id 6155827

hurting2much ( member #25643) posted at 1:50 PM on Friday, December 28th, 2012

I have moved. Now in Southern Illinois, just east of St Louis, MO.


posts: 1117   ·   registered: Sep. 25th, 2009
id 6155985

girlie114 ( member #34127) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, December 30th, 2012

Please add me to the Northeast Indiana area for anyone that needs help in that area.

posts: 61   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2011   ·   location: girlie114
id 6157844
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