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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 7:34 PM on Tuesday, June 26th, 2012

Apologies for the delay and big thank yous to:

Ariel73

DejaVuu

beachbunny

Chili

homewrecked2011

FormerDimwit

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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stillhere09 ( member #24924) posted at 9:48 PM on Saturday, June 30th, 2012

I was in East Orlando, but have moved. I am now in Ohio, and I would be glad to help anyone in the Trumbull Mahoning County area. Perhaps even parts of Ashtabula.

Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M

posts: 3204   ·   registered: Jul. 22nd, 2009   ·   location: Ohio
id 5907100
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LAFA ( member #31868) posted at 7:50 PM on Sunday, August 5th, 2012

I'm willing to be added. Honolulu.

When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

posts: 247   ·   registered: Apr. 14th, 2011   ·   location: Hawaii
id 5957534
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pbjkiki ( member #35145) posted at 11:40 PM on Wednesday, August 15th, 2012

In Salt Lake City. Add me if you want.

posts: 333   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2012
id 5974243
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LostinSadness ( member #36495) posted at 9:01 PM on Sunday, August 26th, 2012

I am in Pinellas County FL (West Central FL) and would be happy to help.

Me: BS 47
Him: WH 46

posts: 298   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2012   ·   location: FL
id 5989744
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atsenaotie ( member #27650) posted at 6:59 PM on Wednesday, August 29th, 2012

Lee County in SWFL, I will be happy to help

--Ats

LTA FBS
dday 10.5.09
Divorced

posts: 4173   ·   registered: Feb. 19th, 2010   ·   location: FL
id 5994871
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1Bite2Shy ( member #36430) posted at 10:47 PM on Thursday, September 6th, 2012

Wish I'd had this 6 years ago.

Happy to help too. Salt Lake City (west) Utah

D Day : July 30 2012
Trying to R.

posts: 90   ·   registered: Aug. 11th, 2012   ·   location: US
id 6007478
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Keepbreathing5 ( member #36534) posted at 4:40 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2012

I'm happy to help. I'm VA, Dulles, Leesburg, Ashburn area

BSO (me): 24
WSO (him): 27 (cheaterSteve05)
Engaged 1.5 years, Together 6 years
EA: ~4 months/ PA: ~2 months with MOW (coworker)

posts: 64   ·   registered: Aug. 17th, 2012
id 6031630
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Issaquah ( member #34484) posted at 5:02 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2012

Happy to help too. I'm In the Norfolk, VA area. I was wishing someone else was in this area to do a little checking up for me.

BS - Me, 45
ExWS - Husband, 47 SA dx in March 2013
T-25, M-21 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays / OWs since 1999
Most recent DDay 8-12
Divorced

posts: 876   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2012   ·   location: Virginia
id 6031669
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Diva0702 ( member #32309) posted at 9:36 AM on Saturday, October 6th, 2012

Happy to help anyone this end. South West of England. Please add me to list.

Me: BW 53
Him: FWH 47
4 wonderful grown children
2 beautiful grandchildren
Married 20 years
Together 23 years
Dday March 10 2010. 4 yr A.
Me: RGN(ret), N.Dip.,BA(Psych),MA (Psych),BA Music.
OW: 55 year old taxi driver

posts: 333   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2011   ·   location: UK
id 6049796
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notinsane ( member #36286) posted at 3:19 AM on Sunday, October 7th, 2012

I could help in NM (mostly Albuquerque, but occasionally Los Lunas or Belen).

posts: 276   ·   registered: Jul. 28th, 2012
id 6050490
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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 8:36 PM on Thursday, October 11th, 2012

I would be happy to help, I am in Lake County Fl. NW of Orlando.

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

posts: 6708   ·   registered: Jul. 15th, 2012   ·   location: Florida
id 6057088
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NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 1:21 AM on Friday, October 12th, 2012

I am in northeast Florida with LOTS of free time. I can make phone calls or do reconaiisance.

Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

posts: 1258   ·   registered: Jun. 30th, 2012   ·   location: a state of consciousness
id 6057454
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CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 2:48 AM on Monday, November 12th, 2012

I can do the Big Island. I'm on the Kona side but get to most parts of the island fairly regularly.

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

posts: 1968   ·   registered: Oct. 11th, 2011
id 6097323
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 6:46 PM on Tuesday, November 13th, 2012

Thank you to:

stillhere09

LAFA

pbjkiki

LostinSadness

atsenaotie

1Bite2Shy

Keepbreathing5

Issaquah

Diva0702

notinsane

Kajem

NoTriangles

CheaterMagnet

We now have two investigative member in Hawaii...

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
id 6099631
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slippedhalo ( member #31159) posted at 9:44 PM on Wednesday, November 28th, 2012

I'm back after a long break and would like to be added to the list. I am in central Iowa. Let me know if you need help.

posts: 69   ·   registered: Feb. 11th, 2011
id 6119995
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lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 4:46 AM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012

Add me, please. Hamilton, Ontario.

Me: BS/45
Him: WS/42
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 21 years.
Reconciled.

posts: 1806   ·   registered: Sep. 2nd, 2009   ·   location: not toronto anymore
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Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 7:58 AM on Friday, December 28th, 2012

Add me to the St. Louis metro area! Particularly west of the MO River. I'd be glad to help!

"Absence makes the clarity grow stronger" - cantaccept

"A good man with good intentions has no reason to lie" - somer222

posts: 1399   ·   registered: Jan. 5th, 2012   ·   location: US
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hurting2much ( member #25643) posted at 1:50 PM on Friday, December 28th, 2012

I have moved. Now in Southern Illinois, just east of St Louis, MO.

Divorced

posts: 1117   ·   registered: Sep. 25th, 2009
id 6155985
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girlie114 ( member #34127) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, December 30th, 2012

Please add me to the Northeast Indiana area for anyone that needs help in that area.

posts: 61   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2011   ·   location: girlie114
id 6157844
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