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purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 8:17 AM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2012

Please add me to the list as Lubbock and West Texas

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

posts: 3013   ·   registered: Dec. 20th, 2011   ·   location: Here
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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:28 PM on Sunday, January 29th, 2012

I'm happy to help out if I can. You can add me to the list for Eastern Iowa.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

posts: 40250   ·   registered: Aug. 29th, 2011
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sadness60 ( member #34003) posted at 12:53 PM on Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

Me Too......

Happy to help out - Birmingham & Surrounding area, West Midlands UK

Me (52) WS 2004
Me BS 1997 & ongoing?
Me BS 1998 & 2004 & who knows?
Me BS 2011 x 2 at least
Her 48 WS/WS/BS/WS/WS/WS.....
Married 23 years, Kids 14 & 12

posts: 59   ·   registered: Nov. 24th, 2011   ·   location: UK
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 4:18 AM on Tuesday, February 7th, 2012

childofcheater--where were you when I needed you...

purplejacket4, NIK, sadness60 & tiredandhurt

Your all in! Thank you!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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HurtYetHealing ( member #34376) posted at 8:24 PM on Thursday, February 9th, 2012

I can be added to the North/Central/South New Jersey area.

Happy to help anyone that needs it.

Me-38 BW, Him-40 FWH
5 amazing children
Dday: December 2, 2011
M: 20 years(13@JFO), together for 24 (17@JFO) Status: Roller coaster of R
It takes a heart to forgive, and a brain to move on.

posts: 707   ·   registered: Jan. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: New Jersey
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Land of the Lost ( member #34087) posted at 1:25 PM on Friday, March 2nd, 2012

You can add me to the Greater Milwaukee area.

posts: 117   ·   registered: Dec. 2nd, 2011
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 3:51 AM on Monday, March 5th, 2012

HurtYetHealing & Land of the Lost: Done-and thank you!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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TiredOfTears ( member #31945) posted at 12:59 AM on Thursday, March 8th, 2012

You can add me to NW Pennsylvania.

BS(me)-36
WH-38
OW-20 (was engaged, broke that off for a "future" with my husband)

Married 13 yrs, together 19 years
2 beautiful girls

DD#1: 3/27/10
DD#2: 6/5/10
Some trickle truths along the way

posts: 63   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2011   ·   location: Northeast US
id 5731297
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 5:39 AM on Thursday, March 8th, 2012

Gotcha, TiredOfTears; thank you!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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Polly4 ( member #31015) posted at 11:33 AM on Thursday, March 8th, 2012

You can add me. I am in Central Wisconsin.

BS 45
WW 46
OW old enough to be his mother
OW #2 Young and sleezy
He is on all of the dating sites, so I have no clue how many others there really are.
Not sure if she is the only one either?
4 boys
21,19,19 and 15
Married 17 years
dday- 13

posts: 89   ·   registered: Jan. 28th, 2011   ·   location: Midwest
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 3:33 PM on Thursday, March 8th, 2012

Thank you, Polly4

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
id 5732208
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MWCM ( member #27426) posted at 1:19 AM on Friday, March 23rd, 2012

So I don't have a lot of space to go out snooping, but I am in South Central Vermont and I see there is no one listed for Vermont. I would be happy to help anyone if at all possible.

MW

D-day 1 1-29-10
2 August 2010
3 March 2011
Me BS 54
Him WS 56
Married 32 years at DDay
EA / PA affair

posts: 133   ·   registered: Feb. 2nd, 2010   ·   location: mcmw
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BrokenLadyInMs ( member #34897) posted at 3:27 PM on Friday, March 23rd, 2012

Add me, I am in central Mississippi

Me 56 WSO (Significant Other)58
Together 26 years
Living together 6 years
DDay 5/13/11
In R, but could be better
"How can a love that'll last forever get left so far behind?"

posts: 68   ·   registered: Feb. 23rd, 2012   ·   location: Mississippi
id 5756866
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 3:51 PM on Friday, March 23rd, 2012

Thank you, MWCM & BrokenLadyInMs; you've each filled a gap!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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Ariel73 ( member #35109) posted at 5:36 PM on Friday, April 20th, 2012

You can add me, I'm in the Oakville, ON, Canada area.

Married 12 years
BS: Me, 40
WS: Husband, 40
Three Kids: 4, 9 and 10
DDay: March 19th, 2012, 2-year PA

posts: 259   ·   registered: Mar. 21st, 2012
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DejaVuu ( member #34720) posted at 8:48 PM on Thursday, May 10th, 2012

Add me to the list. I can cover SFV, SCV, LA, Eastside, Westside and as far south as Long Beach, CA.

Me: BS | Him: WS
Three amazing daughters
D-Day: Too many to post :/

It is only in our darkest hours that we may discover the true strength of the brilliant light within ourselves that can never, ever, be dimmed.
~Doe Zantamata

posts: 88   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: CA
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beachbunny ( member #35476) posted at 4:46 AM on Tuesday, May 15th, 2012

You can add me as well-Los Angeles

posts: 751   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2012
id 5836266
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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 4:42 AM on Wednesday, June 6th, 2012

Add me to the St Louis MO area...will be glad to do what I can.

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Loving flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

posts: 2140   ·   registered: May. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: Reality
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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 4:47 AM on Thursday, June 14th, 2012

You can add me in Spartanburg, SC

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

posts: 5367   ·   registered: Jan. 30th, 2012
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FormerDimwit ( member #2122) posted at 12:58 AM on Saturday, June 16th, 2012

Since I live in the Victorian section of Savannah, walking distance to downtown, have a vehicle and a camera, I'd like to submit my name to the list, should my services be required.

Life is a crapshoot
Enjoying celibacy & granny-hood.
D gave birth March 20, 2008 & August 12, 2011; two adorable granddaughters. D refuses to get married. Is that my fault? Good question...
S is trying to get used to living in the south

posts: 834   ·   registered: Sep. 4th, 2003   ·   location: Savannah, GA
id 5884664
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