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'Twas the mightiest thing I've done since dday, in my opinion. I woke up today resolved to burn it down. Cloudy with a chance of fallout. And I'm strangely relieved.

Wonder if should sit back and watch it burn or if should let her know that I told he partner EVERYTHING. Pointers? Advice on such a measure?

I'd sit back and watch. Sometimes these things just snowball as they roll downhill.

No need to give anybody a heads up.

They call you Twisted for a reason! Forgot to add that Christian Business Partner Man advised me much the same as my family here- run for the hills and don't look back!

Does the sleazy chiro family and partners know if not take a little indulgence and spill the story to them .

Then maybe find a way to be still part of the little girl you were a father to life

Does the sleazy chiro family and partners know if not take a little indulgence and spill the story to them .

Then maybe find a way to be still part of the little girl you were a father to life

I am very interested in how this is going to play out.

I won't leave you hanging. Once CBPM lowers the boom she will lash out. I think he is going to tell her folks too. Literally TELL on her. They respect the shit out of him because he was a professional lifeline for her when she pissed her other career down the drain. Luckily I'll be on the road for much of the next 10 days. Maybe shithead lover will be there to catch her when she falls? Shine that light on it folks. That is some sage advice right there.

...and it may be that CBPM will spread the word to the conservative clientele, et al, that the chiro center employs a dirt bag.

Had a lengthy, very uncomfortable conversation today with CBPM. He challenged my story to make sure I was being honest. I told him I had pics to support my claims. I believe it's about to hit the fan. I'm thinking I'll have some backlash headed my way soon. Let it come.

Shoot, tell him to go pay visit to the STBXW's home when OM is there. Can't get anymore solid evidence than that!

He challenged my story to make sure I was being honest. I told him I had pics to support my claims. I believe it's about to hit the fan.

Or, it hit the fan and she denied it all.

Shouldn't matter brother. N/C, N/C and just for variety more N/C.

Not your circus and most definitely not your monkeys anymore.

I told him I had pics to support my claims

Jack, is this the pic mentioned in your May31st post?

I took a picture of his car with license plate in the driveway that day. Exif data on pic shows time date and precise GPS coordinates

Keep in mind she has had more than a month to lie and minimize to him.

Hey Jack...how are you holding up? Is it getting any easier? I am impressed by your strength.

Greetings brother, wow! Good for you! You deserve better and there are many available and decent women out there- get yourself health and move on in your life - be strong and be greatful it was not a more involved situation -

Hey guys. Thanks for checking in on me. Headed back from another west coast trip. I've been holding the line pretty well and made no contact official last week by blocking her from text and phone. She reached out a couple of times via email though with a simple "please call me". I believe things are starting to get tight for her and she is looking for help. Its taken all I am and plenty of distractions to not reply. I'm still hanging in there though. She will learn nothing from this if I bail her out, plus I'm giving about zero shits these days. It's difficult, but I know it's for my own well being. Peace and love to all my brothers and sisters here.

It's been a week a or two since I have updated here. I ended up touching the hot stove again a few times last week. I am doing my best to maintain NC again. It's been 5 days now. I have her blocked on everything I possibly can. It's a struggle though. My pain this time around is on me. I was weak and let her crack open the door again. Doesn't change how much this has all sucked. I've lost 15 pounds, but I am back to sleeping 5-6 hours a night, which is better than 2-3 I was running on. Joined some meet-up groups locally and my first one is tonight. I think it will be an immense help to go out and meet some new people vs. sitting in my apt with only savage thoughts to keep me company.

Trying, but it is a struggle to chase the dread out of my gut each day. Thank you.

You fall, get back up...

Each time it will get a little easier.

We're still here for you.

No 2x4 from me...I have to give you kudos for being completely transparent to us so we can support you - even if we have different methods of doing so.

Continued strength and peace to you,

Lala

Been thinking about you jackfl, good to see you hanging in there.

It's the next big adventure out there, get out there and enjoy it.

I love to see updates. Just wanted you to know that you haven't been forgotten. You are in my prayers.

Contact prolongs the agony. I get it though and am still rooting for you. Hope you have a great evening. :)