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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 5:25 PM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
So sad, and so sorry to hear.
Keeping her and her family in my thoughts and prayers today.
ps
Fuck Cancer.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 7:49 PM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
I also remember MJ and think I spoke with her once. You definitely knew where you stood with her and I miss that.
Also sending good thoughts to her family.
i fucking hate cancer.
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:10 PM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
Oh no, I hate to hear that. Yes, definitely fuck cancer. 
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 10:11 PM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
I haven't posted here in some time, but MJ and I kept in touch via other places. I will miss her and her kindness and wit very, very much. The bonds we form in places like this are long lasting.
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 10:39 PM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
I spent time with Missesjai at a Texas G2G. Such a fun time! I’m sorry to hear of her passing. Cancer can f*ck off. 
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:16 PM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2021
That’s so sad. I’ll keep her family in my thoughts.
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 12:03 AM on Thursday, July 8th, 2021
I'm so SO sorry to read this.
She was a truly sweet woman. I'll also be keeping her family in my thoughts.
Rest in peace, MissesJai.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 5:15 PM on Thursday, July 8th, 2021
I’m very sorry to hear this. She touched many lives, for sure.
May she RIP.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
cinnamongurl ( member #37879) posted at 2:23 PM on Monday, July 12th, 2021
I am so sorry to hear this! I haven't been on this forum for some time, but MJ helped me through some dark days. May she rest easy and my heart and prayers go out to her family. Cancer just plain sucks.
Me:FWS 42 He: FBS 43 and my heart
Together 22 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
CG
psychmom ( member #47498) posted at 2:43 AM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021
I recall her wisdom and the kindness she shared with many. Condolences to her family and all who loved her.
BS (me); fWH (both 50+; married 20 yr at the time; 2 DD DDay 1- 9/13/2014 (EA)- 3+ yrsDDay 2- 10/24/2014(PA2)-July'14-Sept'14DDay 3- 11/12/2014(PA1)-Oct-Feb '14Reconciled
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:58 AM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021
I remember her on here, too. Sad to learn of her passing. RIP MissesJai.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 6:12 AM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021
She was a beacon of light for me in the early days
God's speed MissesJai
me-BS him-WS
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
annanew ( member #43693) posted at 7:38 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021
Rest in peace, MissesJai.
There were as many cancer deaths in the US in 2020 than US covid deaths to date (over the past year and a half). Of course there are many different types of cancer, and it's not a fair comparison in some ways, but I always keep these numbers in mind.
Single mom to a sweet girl.
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 2:47 AM on Friday, July 16th, 2021
So very sad. Prayers for her family.
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 3:46 PM on Saturday, July 17th, 2021
((((MJ)))) I'm so sorry to hear that. I sent her a PM some time ago and never heard back.
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 7:15 PM on Friday, July 23rd, 2021
So sorry to hear this. She was a wonderful source of experience for us all here. May she rest in peace.
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 1:57 PM on Saturday, July 24th, 2021
This is very sad news.
Thoughts and prayers for all who are grieving.
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
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