kaon99
10 years? multiple ???
Yikes!
a bit of reading material for you to help find yourself -
Why people cheat:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=329523
They always affair down:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=326449
20/20 Hindsight--What I wish I'd done:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=161389
Coping with life after dday:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=303084
Assorted Articles courtesy of UnicornSearcher:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=164576&AP=41&HL=912
How I as a BS contributed... and how WW did...:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=191768&HL=14400
Infidelity - The Funhouse Mirror of Fools - for BS's:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=159280
Fill in the Blanks:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=311895
Tactical Primer:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=235051
Communicating with a foggy spouse:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=255670
Boundary Setting:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=231851
Negotiation:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=246366
More on the "Fog":
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=261192
10 Tough Questions to Ask Yourself:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=196811
How to play "The Game" and win:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=266197
Rational Situational Analysis:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=280155
Understanding the 180:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=232785
The Two Most Powerful Words:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=291070
The Problem with the "Dear WS" Letter:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=295222
Why They Leave:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=206895
Will the Affair work out in the end?:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=267238
What does this mean?:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=275740
Crisis Management:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=319692
The Single Toughest Thing About Infidelity:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=327044
The Four Pillars of Reconciliation:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.net/forums.asp?tid=328962
Some hard truths:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=126844&HL=1246
Archetypes for infidelity:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=246103
Feeding the Shame Monster
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=324596
The Process of Self Delusion
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=286950
Compartmentalizing
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=276342
Some Insight Re: Reconciliation
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=241326
Post infidelity Stress disorder
http://74.125.47.132/search?q=cache:lj5L4VQBCxwJ:www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp%3Ftid%3D175680+post+infidelity+stress+disorder,&cd=2&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us
The Process of Self Delusion
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=286950
Compartmentalizing
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=276342