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SI Staff (original poster moderator #10) posted at 12:07 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Please welcome some new Staff members to Survivinginfidelity. Phoenix1 has been made a moderator. Bigger, Foreverlabeled, Oldwounds, and Unhinged have graciously agreed to become Guides.
We feel confident that they will continue to help new and old members alike as they always have.
Thanks everyone
[This message edited by SI Staff at 7:02 PM, June 28th (Friday)]
maise ( member #69516) posted at 12:32 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
This is so awesome! Congrats you all!
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
ibonnie ( member #62673) posted at 12:36 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
"I will survive, hey, hey!"
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 12:51 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Congratulations, all, and thanks for committing your time to SI!
ETA: Typo? There's no Foreverwounded registered on SI.
[This message edited by BraveSirRobin at 6:58 PM, June 28th (Friday)]
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 1:03 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
I fixed it!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 1:34 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
I was about to alert the mods
I'm so grateful to be apart of this amazing team of people, Bigger, Oldwounds, Unhinged
both new and existing! Truly what a group we've got.
I only came to SI to get my shit together, but found so much more than I could have hoped for. SI saved my life and I'm so honored to be able to give back like this.
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 1:46 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Fantastic choices. Thanks to you all, in advance.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
maise ( member #69516) posted at 1:52 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
I agree with all, these are amazing choices. You all give great insight and I'm grateful to read each of you's advice. Thank you each for everything you offer. I know I couldn't have excelled in my recovery without this website and its people.
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
Thissucks5678 ( member #54019) posted at 2:17 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Congrats everyone, and thank you for committing your time and energy - it is much appreciated.
DDay: 6/2016
“Every test in our life makes us Bitter or Better. Every problem comes to Break Us or Make Us. The choice is ours whether to be Victim or Victor.” - unknown
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 2:49 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Yay! I was hoping it was forever labeled, but envisioned serious awkwardness if I cheered the wrong appointee!
OrdinaryDude ( member #55676) posted at 3:12 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
All excellent choices, their contributions here have been invaluable to myself and a myriad of others.
I was young and dumb and stayed with a cheater.
HouseOfPlane ( member #45739) posted at 3:26 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
DDay 1986: R'd, it was hard, hard work.
“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
― Mary Oliver
HoldingTogether ( member #29429) posted at 3:33 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Aha! I just knew there was something a little off about all the SI staff. But good for you guys! The first step is admitting you have a problem.
So what is it? Booze! Pills? Gambling? What kind of addictions are we talking about here?
Huh? What’s that?
Additions? Oooohhhh
Well never mind then.
Us-Reconciled.
You keep waiting for the dust to settle, and then, one day you realize... This is it, that dust is your life going on around you.
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 3:38 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
OMG(osh)! HoldingTogether is really Emily Latella IRL. Who'd a thunk it?
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
Owl6118 ( member #42806) posted at 3:41 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
This is my first post in over a year, but wonderful news pulls me out of lurkerdom. What an outstanding group of people. Some I know from interacting, all I respect greatly from years of thoughtful posts.
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 4:00 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
The only person you can change is yourself.
burninghouse ( member #63308) posted at 4:01 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Congrats and thank you for your time!
BW (me)
WH (him)
D-day 3/2018
Divorcing
Reminding myself often, "The last of the human freedoms: to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor Frankl
deephurt ( member #48243) posted at 4:31 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
me-BW
him-WH
so far successfully in R
Followtheriver ( member #58858) posted at 8:12 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Congratulations! All of you are wonderful additions and I really do appreciate you being here to help us all. So, thank you.
Foreverlabeled,
Now that you have moved up to a corner office on the top floor, with keys to the executive lunchroom and bathroom, your own parking space and all the other fabulous perks and never ending glory that comes from being part of such an amazing team, I hope you won't forget about that kind of
crazy, Poisonous Nut, who made it all possible. I think you owe that Poisonous Nut a drink or maybe several because I don't know if you would have been considered for the position if it wasn't for her. Lol.
But seriously, I wouldn't be where I am today without your help, guidance and support. I am blessed to call you my friend.
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 10:45 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2019
Woohoo!!! Congratulations to you all
!!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
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