looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 2:29 PM on Thursday, April 27th, 2023
Hello SI friends,
One day at a time...and I am blessed with a supportive family and God's grace.
Blessings to all!
Together 56 years, Married 51 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:34 PM on Thursday, April 27th, 2023
I really appreciate your updates. I'm very happy for you.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
MIgander ( member #71285) posted at 8:41 PM on Thursday, April 27th, 2023
Congratulations! Looks lovely where you're at!
WW/BW Dday July 2019. BH/WH- multiple EA's. Denial ain't just a river in Egypt.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:56 PM on Thursday, April 27th, 2023
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 10:47 PM on Thursday, April 27th, 2023
Hurray! Quite an accomplishment! Glad you are living your best life!
Me: BS 55 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 10:59 PM on Thursday, April 27th, 2023
Oh congratulations - that's such a huge accomplishment!!
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 11:08 PM on Thursday, April 27th, 2023
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:11 PM on Friday, April 28th, 2023
Doing Great!!!!! Congratulations
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
number4 ( member #62204) posted at 5:32 PM on Friday, April 28th, 2023
Married - 30+ years
Two adult daughters
1st affair: 2005-2007
2nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017
Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addiction
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 10:56 PM on Friday, April 28th, 2023
WS - remarried to BH but not in R
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 6:41 AM on Saturday, April 29th, 2023
So happy for you!
One day at a time for 14 years. Wow!
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!