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Bleep's Update


Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 4:55 AM on Friday, March 10th, 2023

I can see you having a great nb thread!

You go Bleep!

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 10:10 PM on Monday, March 20th, 2023

Congratulations Bleep!

I am glad that you are finally out of the fire.

Good luck in recovery. It's slow. I've been legally divorced for more than two years and I am still getting better (slowly). Of course, a year+ of appeals and other BS didn't help. Still, go easy on yourself and I'm so happy that you are finished with this part of your life.

Me: BH, age 48Her: WS, age 45 (multiple EAs and PAs)D-Day: August 30, 2016

Diagnosed with depression in December 2016, which was primarily caused by my xWW's affair and associated emotional abuse.

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 WhoTheBleep (original poster member #49504) posted at 11:27 PM on Wednesday, March 29th, 2023

"I can see you having a great nb thread!"

We will see, Shehawk. :) One can hope!

Thanks for your support, Barcher. Obviously, I feel much better, but I get emotional at unexpected moments. Thank you for pointing that out. I expect this will continue. I’ll just roll with it and accept the process. My brain and body have a lot of unraveling to do.

I just came back from a vacation with a girlfriend. It had been preplanned, and the timing could not have been better. Onward.

Once I process things a bit more, I hope to be able to help others from a place of strength. Thank you SI family, I could not have gotten through this without your support.

[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 11:27 PM, Wednesday, March 29th]

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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