Topic is Sleeping.
demolishedinside ( member #47839) posted at 2:38 AM on Thursday, March 10th, 2022
You are absolutely I’m my thoughts, friend. Wishing I could make you laugh the way you always made me laugh. Friends hold each other up. Don’t forget we are all here.
BS - me/3 kids
DD - April 2015 / SA-Jan. 28, 2017
DD2- October 23, 2018
Divorced and happy
Walloped ( member #48852) posted at 6:45 PM on Friday, March 11th, 2022
NTV - I don’t have the words. I’m just truly sorry to hear such sad news.
Wishing you peace, healing, and serenity.
Me: BH 47
Her: WW 46
DDay 8/3/15
"Every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don’t always soften the bad things, but vice versa the bad things don’t necessarily spoil the good things or make them unimportant.” - The Doctor
MalibuBayBreeze ( member #52124) posted at 12:46 AM on Sunday, March 13th, 2022
NTV
My deepest condolences to you and your family. I just lost my mom on February 26th.
Your humor and kind words always helped get me through some very rough times, and I'll never forget that and will always appreciate it.
I'm so sorry you're going through this.
A man or woman telling the truth doesn't mind being questioned.
A liar does.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:22 AM on Sunday, March 13th, 2022
NTV sending hugs and prayers.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
BlueIris ( member #47551) posted at 3:00 AM on Tuesday, March 15th, 2022
Oh NTV, I'm so sad for you and your kiddos. Dem told me a few days ago, and you've been in my thoughts ever since. I know I don't come on here very much, but I often think of you and the rest of my dear friends here who held each other up during the rough times, and I hope you feel our support for you now. Wishing you courage and healing, and especially peace.
BW | Dday 2-20-2015 + TT for several weeks
"The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off."
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 5:41 PM on Wednesday, March 16th, 2022
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 7:16 PM on Wednesday, March 16th, 2022
I was feeling a bit blah today and thought I'd pop to visit my old friends and see what's happening. I can't tell you how sorry I am to read about your wife and I know there are no words that help anyway. But please know that you'll be in my thoughts and that you can reach out to me anytime. I am so so sorry.
BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 6:39 AM on Tuesday, March 29th, 2022
Just checking back in. Thanks for the kind thoughts!
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 9:10 AM on Tuesday, March 29th, 2022
Thank you for checking in. I hope you are finding peace. Sending you love and hugs and prayers.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 11:09 AM on Tuesday, March 29th, 2022
Sending prayers to you and your family. I am sorry for your loss.
truthsetmefree ( member #7168) posted at 7:21 PM on Wednesday, March 30th, 2022
Sending you and the kids big hug, NTV. I’m so very very sorry. 
Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo
Funny thing, I quit being broken when I quit letting people break me.
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 2:12 AM on Thursday, March 31st, 2022
I haven't been on SI for quite some time, NTV. For some reason I checked in tonight. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you have lots of support for your tragic loss. You've been strong for so long. Take time to grieve, comfort and find comfort with your loved ones. Words seem so inadequate. I'm sorry, NTV.
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
Luna10 ( member #60888) posted at 7:04 PM on Thursday, March 31st, 2022
I just saw this thread, I’m so so sorry for your loss NTV. You’ve been such a great support when I joined here, I’m sorry to ready you’ve been hit by the loss of your wife.
I hope you find the strength to heal and support your children on their journey too. My thoughts are with you.
Dday - 27th September 2017
psychmom ( member #47498) posted at 3:14 AM on Monday, April 4th, 2022
I don’t come round here much nowadays, but saw your post and wanted to add my condolences and mojo to all you’ve received. I’m so sorry for your loss, NTV.
BS (me); fWH (both 50+; married 20 yr at the time; 2 DD DDay 1- 9/13/2014 (EA)- 3+ yrsDDay 2- 10/24/2014(PA2)-July'14-Sept'14DDay 3- 11/12/2014(PA1)-Oct-Feb '14Reconciled
Notthevictem (original poster member #44389) posted at 10:04 PM on Monday, April 4th, 2022
Thanks again for well wishes. I've been having ups and downs but your kind thoughts are much appreciated.
I've updated my profile to current location... 5 years late... but I'm now up in Washington state.
...huh, that's probably not relevant.
Anyways, I'm taking it a day at a time and trying to stay busy. Days are easier for that. Nights are the worst. I've got several good friends texting and chatting with me all hours of the night, so that helps some.
I'm pretty sure I'm in a place now, emotionally, that I can talk or answer questions about it. Or life or whatever. Not yet in a good place for fart jokes, though.
Rambling... anyway. Thanks again!
[This message edited by Notthevictem at 10:05 PM, Monday, April 4th]
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:00 PM on Monday, April 4th, 2022
Taking it one at a time is good.
I'm so glad you have people there to help you through the nights.
Sending hugs and fist bumps.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Topic is Sleeping.
