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My disgusting XH remarried last fall. He had dated this woman for several years, but I did not know her well. I wanted to warn her, but couldn't figure out how to do it without coming off as the crazy ex, and he is a very gifted and convincing liar. Well friends, Karma showed up and drove a tank over him. Only a few months into the marriage, she intercepted a text from his girlfriend and the shit hit the fan. He had just sold his house and all of its contents, bringing nothing but the clothes on his back when they got married. He had sold of all his furniture and home goods. And she kicked him out. He is quarantining alone in an apartment. Where he has no one to spend time with and tons of time to think about how badly he has fucked up his life. Oh and here's another fun detail. His AP turned out to be whackadoodle and they had to call the police because she was stalking them both. And did I mention my XH is a major money grabber? His wife is quite wealthy and he is extremely cheap, so he is also watching her big fat bank account slam shut to him.

I'm calling it Karma, but it's really just some brutal and predictable consequences. About damn time.

Thank you for sharing. I try not to make light of the misfortune of others. But, your post brought forth laughter and a smile.

I bet your xwh hates his

brutal and predictable consequences.

Based on your post, it seems like a "tank" shell blew his buttocks off and then rolled over him.....ouch!

Given his circumstances, he will have plenty of time to think about his choices and their ramifications.

[This message edited by Ripped62 at 1:51 AM, April 17th (Friday)]

I love a good karma story. I hope his wife leaves him for good. Maybe now is the time you let her know his history so she knows he will never change.

Ahhh, the law of reaping and sowing at its finest.

I think we don’t always know or see it, but that tank does come. I mean, if you repeat the same patterns over and over, it is bound too.

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If I'm not mistaken, tanks can leave some 'serious' tread marks...eh??

You've now joined the "Good Karma Story" CLUB.

Welcome!

smy

This has made my day. Beep beep!

I do love a good karma story!

I totally told her everything. Everything I knew, and everything I suspected. I brought receipts.

Strangely he has since admitted to her more infidelity in our marriage than I even knew. And since they all minimalize, it was no doubt even worse than he's admitting. It's okay though, according to him, because our marriage "was over anyways" and I apparently also had a boyfriend. Wow - I had no idea!

It's just even more concrete evidence I made the right decision to get out.

Go you!! Hopefully that ensures she does not get back with him. And bravo to her for kicking him out immediately.

Couldn't happen to a nicer guy!

Best quarantine story!!

BEEP BEEP!!!

He’s not sitting alone thinking how his behavior and poor choices led him to this place. Not him!

He’s already scoping out his next victim.

I love good Karma stories. I wish I had one about my XWW to add...

I love Karma posts -- and love hearing this one. It's interesting how the pandemic is triggering consequences.

I haven't snooped on my ex's Linkedin page in a very long time (the only portal into her life that I have) but I was curious if she was affected by the covid situation at all. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't hoping for signs of unemployment.

I found out that she left her job last Fall (where she sat beside AP) and is now working at a much smaller local company. A woman who once told me "I get lots of job offers, I'm coming up in the world" when pressed with evidence of secret job interviews jumped from a major global company to a single-location, family-owned company closer to her AP's house in the sticks. Oh and him? Apparently as of April 2020, he no longer works for their old company either. I'm trying to withhold filling in narrative gaps with my fantasies, but on its face, this doesn't seem like an enviable scenario for either of them. Hopefully he had his house paid off that she moved into.

I'm human. I want the scoop so badly. Did anyone know these two lovebirds were F'ing and S'ing in the supply closet and living together for the year between DDay and her finally leaving the company? Why did she end up leaving? Etc. Etc. This is why you shouldn't snoop I guess!

Edit: So the company is still global. Funny how her and mine are both based out of the same European country. Still, AP is unemployed. I need to stop snooping, what have I become!

[This message edited by AbandonedGuy at 3:13 PM, April 29th (Wednesday)]

Karma is awesome! Thanks for sharing this story.