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WalkinOnEggshelz (original poster member #29447) posted at 6:09 PM on Sunday, July 28th, 2019
Hey everyone!
For the past 5 years now, HT and I have thrown a G2G her in North Texas in October. It’s a great time. We have done things like the County Fair, a party boat, and Escape Room. G2G’s are an amazing experience. There is nothing quite like meeting people that have a unique understanding of your experiences. It’s cathartic and you have the opportunity to make some new life long friends.
Soooo, I’m looking to see who is interested this year. 
Here’s what we have in store.
When: October 11th-13th.
What: Friday meet and greet at our house.
Lots of great food and drinks. October is also pretty
special to us as we have our home decorated to the
nines for Halloween!
Saturday we will work out details as I figure out how
many people we are looking at. Usually a group activity
then dinner and drinks out for the night.
Sunday brunch before everyone goes their separate
ways home.
We have had some come from as close as 30 minutes away to as far as Canada! We have a hotel close by and as time approaches I will give out details.
We would love to see some of our old friends and look forward to meeting some new ones.
So who is in?
For sure:
WOES and HT
MadeofScars
traicionada
punky
lieshurt
UnlovedAndBroked
maise and ChanceAtLife35
TX1995
FollowtheRiver
BraveSirRobin and Timespiral
Thinking hard about it:
Unhinged
BR and WH5
josiep
Iwasyoungonce
Arfaj
jjct
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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 12:22 AM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
Depending upon my work schedule and W's travel, I'd love to make it this year. Put me down as tentative. 
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
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HoldingTogether ( member #29429) posted at 3:48 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
That’s great Unhinged! You’ve been on the list of members we want to meet in person for years now. It’s like Pokémon, gotta catch ‘em all 
! Gonna do my best to hold you to that tentative RSVP
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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 4:52 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
Count me in
I won't be able to arrive until around 9 or 9:30 pm that Friday though.
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BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 7:00 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
Oh, I WANT to go.
But - seeing Kathleen Madigan (comedian) friday night here in our state.
Will talk to WH5 about maybe just Sat/Sun if he wants to do that.
Figures it would be the same weekend 
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punky ( member #12233) posted at 7:40 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
I will come to some or all activities!
But we have got to do the State Fair. Eating fried food isn't the same without my purple friends.
13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 7:45 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
RSVP: Yes And just to make extra sure nothing gets in the way at the last minute, I am going to disaster training in 2 weeks 
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
UnlovedAndBroked ( member #47870) posted at 1:49 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2019
Hi! It's been a while since I've seen anyone and would love to catch up with everyone. Count me in!
"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk
WalkinOnEggshelz (original poster member #29447) posted at 11:23 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2019
Awesome guys! Off to a good start.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 1:41 PM on Saturday, August 3rd, 2019
I'd really love to attend and will let you know as soon as I can figure out my schedule.
If I come, does anyone want to drive me by a certain nearby area and join me in throwing eggs at a certain house? Or maybe toss insulting confetti throughout their neighborhood? Or just drive by and stick our tongues out?
(And I really am just joking because I wouldn't ever do any of those things and I wouldn't waste my time even driving over there. Especially when I would have to miss part of my time visiting with my S.I. peeps!)
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Iwasyoungonce ( new member #70856) posted at 2:39 AM on Sunday, August 4th, 2019
This is relatively close to us but I'm scheduled to attend a seminar for BS's on the 12th.
Also, we're in very early stages still and I'm not sure either of us is ready to meet up with people IRL.....
Learning to live again....
Arfaj ( member #59457) posted at 2:43 AM on Sunday, August 4th, 2019
We are local and I’d absolutely love to come, though there’s a chance I’ll have to be out of town then. Should know closer to time.
Me: BW
Him: WH (StoneLotus)
Married January 2017
Kids 7, 3, and baby
D-Day 1: 01-15-2017 (rug swept)
D-Day 2: 06-17-2017
D-Day 3: 12-16-2020
1 LTPA, 1 LTEA, 2 EAs, 5 Online Sexual RP partners
WalkinOnEggshelz (original poster member #29447) posted at 11:23 PM on Monday, August 5th, 2019
Super! I’m going to add you guys to the “Thinking real hard” column.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
maise ( member #69516) posted at 8:11 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2019
Im interested! Currently located in Houston so this won’t be far or difficult to get to!
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
ChanceAtLife35 ( member #69527) posted at 8:12 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2019
Sign me up, I will tag along with Maise!
Me: WW (multiple EA’s PA’s)
Her: BW
DDay: 6/9/18
IHS - Divorcing
In IC, 12 Steps program, currently reading "Boundaries in Marriage"
WalkinOnEggshelz (original poster member #29447) posted at 1:30 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Wonderful! Adding you guys to the list!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 10:24 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
Will there be a visit or four to Cracker Barrel?
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
WalkinOnEggshelz (original poster member #29447) posted at 11:25 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
I know of one not that far away. We could definitely make sure you got there!
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 1:17 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2019
I just came to see if there was anything in my area and here y’all are! We aren’t in Dallas or Fort Worth but close enough to either to hopefully make something work. WH and I are in a lovely limbo state but I know I’d love to be around people who get it. I’ll see how WH feels, but would love to come meet some of you if I can swing it one of the nights - with or without WH! We are in town, so the only thing that might come up is sports schedules for the kids!
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
TX1995 ( member #58175) posted at 1:20 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2019
And Josiep, I’d be thrilled go egg a house with you. Well, not really since it’s not nice or legal, but man, a nice bag o flaming poop on the doorstep ala Can’t Buy Me Love couldn’t be so wrong?!
I'm the BS. WH had an EA/PA with a cOW. DDay was 4/17. Working on R. Married 15 years and together 20 at DDay.
DDay #2 and #3 6/19. Grew a conscience and admitted a full blown physical affair.
Current and forever status is reconciling. I don't
Topic is Sleeping.
