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The Simplified 180

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BentandBroken ( member #72519) posted at 3:21 AM on Friday, April 10th, 2020

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20+ year relationship; Never officially married
Dday November 2019
4 wonderful grown children
WH multiple APs, currently involved with married COW
Kicked him out on Dday and that was that

posts: 329   ·   registered: Jan. 9th, 2020   ·   location: Michigan
id 8531017
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:49 PM on Sunday, April 26th, 2020

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8536261
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:24 PM on Friday, May 8th, 2020

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8540571
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:36 PM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2020

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8559022
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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 4:10 PM on Tuesday, July 28th, 2020

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8567336
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:12 PM on Wednesday, September 30th, 2020

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8593001
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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 9:04 PM on Friday, October 30th, 2020

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Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

posts: 6709   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2010
id 8603884
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:10 PM on Saturday, November 21st, 2020

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8611193
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:48 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8630874
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:45 PM on Tuesday, May 11th, 2021

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8658602
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:34 PM on Friday, June 18th, 2021

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8668220
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SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 2:24 PM on Monday, September 13th, 2021

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posts: 10034   ·   registered: May. 30th, 2002
id 8688264
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:12 AM on Saturday, February 19th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8717272
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, June 20th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8741051
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:40 PM on Wednesday, August 31st, 2022

and again. I really like 'the simplified 180'.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8753200
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:52 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8759734
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:06 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2022

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8764306
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leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:28 PM on Thursday, January 5th, 2023

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BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 3800   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8772198
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:27 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8778429
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:12 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 30293   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8794683
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