20+ year relationshipNever officially marriedDday November 20194 wonderful grown childrenWH multiple APs, currently involved with married COWKicked him out on Dday and that was that
Bill and Melinda Gates
Was chatting with another BS and first thing she said when this news broke is...I wonder which one cheated.
Today the NY Post (not the most credible) published an article saying Bill has been seeing his ex-girlfriend the entire time he has been married to Melinda!
SI community, where do you put the odds that he has, in fact, been cheating all along?
I'm thinking 90/10.
22 comments posted: Tuesday, May 4th, 2021
Hope Gap Movie Very Realistic
Hi all. Every once in a while there's an SI thread about movies that "get it" re: infidelity. And those that don't. I recently watched Hope Gap on Amazon Prime, and so much of it resonated with the themes we see here over and over. Potential spoilers below...
The WS becomes distant and it makes the BS act crazy trying to figure it out
The WS uses the resulting crazy as an excuse to cheat
WS blames BS, sometimes in a backwards way such as "I can't make you happy"
Wayward language "I didn't intend for this to happen" "We were unhappy"
The wayward acting like he's the good guy while refusing to do anything to address BS's devastation
AP totally unconcerned with the havoc brought to the WS's family
BS very needy after Dday and adult child caught in the middle
The movie is very triggery, not recommended for anyone who is early in the process. Wondering if anyone else has seen it and what your thoughts might be?
15 comments posted: Thursday, March 25th, 2021
SI Christmas Cards
Hi everyone! I thought I signed up for SI Christmas cards, but I haven't received any instructions. How does this normally work?
8 comments posted: Wednesday, December 16th, 2020