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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 5:37 PM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014

bump

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

posts: 15429   ·   registered: Nov. 5th, 2010   ·   location: The Great White North USA
id 6761734
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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 8:29 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014

Wow! This is the truth; I wish my husband would read it. He probably won't, though.

Me FBS early 40s
Him XWS mid40s (lovemywife4ever), D
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me
Free and loving life

posts: 3100   ·   registered: Dec. 22nd, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
id 6763316
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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 6:14 PM on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014

Bump

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

posts: 7922   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2011
id 6768905
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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 2:29 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014

bump

Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 6773208
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MomtoRoses ( member #42271) posted at 3:31 PM on Tuesday, April 29th, 2014

bumpity bump

i'm the bs
he is the wh.
7 ddays: affairs, online activities, ea, pa, longterm pa,longterm ea, one night stands.
I'm the last to know.

posts: 86   ·   registered: Jan. 30th, 2014
id 6778501
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Gemstone ( member #42000) posted at 4:08 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014

There needs to be a way to have this permanently at the top

Wonderful

posts: 97   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2014   ·   location: United Kindgdon
id 6780079
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Trying2LoveAgain ( member #43024) posted at 4:10 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014

Awesome! This describes the way we,as BS, feel and what we go through. My H has told me many times that he doesn't always know WHAT to do for me, or HOW to help. This is a great guide! I hope it stays posted on here forever! Thanks SO much!

Me:BS
Him:FWH
2 DS:2 D Grandchildren
"Life is a journey, travel with Care "...Me 🙈🙉🙊"Life is not a dress rehearsal, make the ONE you have count"....Me

posts: 1073   ·   registered: Apr. 7th, 2014   ·   location: Never Neverland
id 6783019
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BrokenButTrying ( member #42111) posted at 9:36 PM on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014

Bump.

Madhatters - We have R'd.

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. We can do this.

posts: 1363   ·   registered: Jan. 18th, 2014   ·   location: UK
id 6788136
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Mjuu ( new member #43386) posted at 2:06 PM on Saturday, May 10th, 2014

Thank you ever so much for posting this, and thank you whoever wrote it!

Since I found out about the affair 1,5 years ago I've been in a complete despair, fighting pretty much solo for my marriage and with a 1,5 year old to take care of (I know: I was one month from delivery when I found out).

I found this webpage only yesterday and it feels like it has saved my life, and hopefully also my marriage. Thank you all for sharing.

Me: BW age 32
Him: WH age 35
Together for 2,5 years, 1 child.

Long-distance relationship; he slept with another woman when I was away. Was expecting our child when I found out.

posts: 1   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2014
id 6793461
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isthismynewlife ( member #43292) posted at 6:32 PM on Tuesday, May 13th, 2014

Bump

Such a great post!

Me 42 BS
Him 42 FWS
DDay #1 11/28/13 - 7 months EA/a little PA with my supposed friend.
DDAy #2 8/25/14 - oops - did I forget to mention that it was a 15 month PA/EA? He thought the first version would hurt me less.
Things are improving daily!

posts: 310   ·   registered: May. 1st, 2014
id 6797346
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remorsefulww ( member #42029) posted at 5:21 PM on Sunday, May 18th, 2014

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DD 1 2009 EA/PA, DD 2 2014, broke nc 2015.All the same AP
His DD 9/16/2015 ONS & EA,PA with coworker.
Mad Hatters
WW/BW Me
BH/WHJSG1

posts: 82   ·   registered: Jan. 12th, 2014   ·   location: new york
id 6804029
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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 7:30 PM on Friday, May 30th, 2014

Bump

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

posts: 7922   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2011
id 6818181
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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 8:36 PM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2014

Bump.

posts: 31089   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2010
id 6856455
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 7:00 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 6859393
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Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 9:02 PM on Tuesday, July 8th, 2014

Bump

Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

posts: 815   ·   registered: Jul. 3rd, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 6864967
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 2:58 PM on Wednesday, July 9th, 2014

bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 6865734
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BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 9:25 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

bump

WH - 49
BW - gerrygirl

posts: 6125   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2009   ·   location: Tri-Cities
id 6884414
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Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 7:39 AM on Tuesday, July 29th, 2014

Bump

Me 50 (BS) Him 58 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.

Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)

posts: 396   ·   registered: Aug. 21st, 2013   ·   location: England
id 6889265
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BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 8:45 PM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014

Bump

Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010

posts: 5437   ·   registered: Feb. 25th, 2014   ·   location: United States
id 6891373
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sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 7:51 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014

Bump

Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts

posts: 2425   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2014   ·   location: midwest
id 6902904
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