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wantingtotrust ( member #6313) posted at 9:07 PM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2011

oops disregard last post. If i had teken a minute to look but as most know the anxiety at times gets to you!!

posts: 232   ·   registered: Jan. 25th, 2005   ·   location: Orlando, Florida
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flower0ne ( member #28354) posted at 2:55 PM on Sunday, October 2nd, 2011

Spokeo here.

FWS: Him 39
BS: Me 37
OW: Bitchface 22 (his bosses sister/SIL)
DD: Second week of January '10
A was approximately 6 months and ended late February.

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fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 5:50 PM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

German native speaker. I can help with translations.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 6:08 PM on Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

Thanks for the offers, I'll update asap. But, for those kind people that offer PI work and the likes, please see the snooping list. You can PM her and get added to the list.

If you're confused on which list you can be added to, please ask.

Thanks!

[This message edited by really trying at 12:09 PM, December 6th (Tuesday)]

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

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feeling bi polar ( member #31086) posted at 1:35 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2011

I am snooping on OW and need to get access to someone unexpected with a linked in account. She touts herself as a model. PM me for more info. Thanks

In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life — It goes on. —Robert Frost

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forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 11:30 PM on Thursday, January 26th, 2012

I am not great w/computers.....how do I pm people from this list?

Thanks!

Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

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forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 11:31 PM on Thursday, January 26th, 2012

I am not great w/computers.....how do I pm people from this list?

Thanks!

Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

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notquiteoverit ( member #32919) posted at 12:20 AM on Friday, January 27th, 2012

Hi - you can put me on the list for Spokeo, and I can also translate German.

Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11

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WhiistleSt0p ( member #29762) posted at 12:57 PM on Tuesday, March 13th, 2012

I'm looking for someone to tell me how to deal with unwanted texts.

I don't think I need to reply, but they don't come from a number, the text has a gmail origin.

I wish you peace, and calm moments, a perfect flower bloom or ray of sunshine. Allow pieces of joy to warm you on the inside, and put one foot in front of the other.

Me: BS 53/FWW 2001- in my prev M
Him: WH 65
OW: 64 (Phone calls for high sch

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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 7:15 PM on Wednesday, April 18th, 2012

update today, thanks.

forgiving now, if you still need help PMing people from the list, let me know.

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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lifestoshort ( member #18442) posted at 1:45 AM on Saturday, April 28th, 2012

need help finding a cell number please. pm me

Im 45. 1st H I left in 2001 after 3 kids. narcassist.
2nd exH had MANY affairs.FALSE R. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I got 100% custody. ex hasnt seen kids in 5 yrs.
2014 to now: dated highschool sweetheart. He cheated w 23 yr old. she stayed

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Angelstar5 ( member #35276) posted at 8:17 PM on Sunday, April 29th, 2012

Do we have an updated list of people who can help newbies with detective work, recovering texts, things like this. He has had dozens of email accounts and when I finally hack them they look to have never been used. He is so not computer savvy..so I think he forgets and just makes a new one.

Me 56,WH 55alcoholic/Married 25y
2 kids age 16 and 28
DDay #1-7/3/94 hooker, DDAY #2,2/10/12 found 100's of calls to a hooker gaslighting begins. DDay#3 3/26/12 proof/TT DDay#4 3/28/12 weekly sex with 2 hookers Dec-Feb. Several EAs

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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 9:28 PM on Sunday, April 29th, 2012

As far as help from this list, I would contact the last few people mentioned after the type of services offered. They are most recently added.

Have you checked out the snopping and investigative threads in this forum?

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

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lost family ( member #32578) posted at 8:31 PM on Thursday, May 10th, 2012

You can add me to the list for the AFF, male profile, gold membership for a month.

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lost family ( member #32578) posted at 8:06 AM on Friday, May 11th, 2012

I can also translate from French

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homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 5:05 AM on Thursday, June 14th, 2012

Is everyone on here free? I am wondering, for instance, I found a phone number and a male answered. How can I find out if this is my husband's secret phone?

Also, who would I contact to see if WH has a secret fb account, and what is his IM name on his blackberry?

WOW! Thank goodness for this site....

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 7:33 AM on Thursday, June 14th, 2012

homewreaked, you can PM anyone on this list who has a FB account, maybe they can help you.

lostfamily - thank you and I will add you asap.

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

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hurting7897 ( member #34761) posted at 12:51 AM on Wednesday, June 20th, 2012

I am on cougarlife, AFF, yahoo messenger, Linkedin, myspace, facebook (I have a fake profile just for my PI work) and I will be happy to help anyone any way I can.

Married 20 years
Me-BS-51
Him-FWH-46 "healing4us2"
2 kids, DD 12 and DS 16
D-day #1 Jan. 30,2012
D-day #2 April 12, 2012
D-day #3 April 15, 2012
June 24, 2012--Decided to R.
January 21, 2013-Forgave him! Life is sweet
May 4, 2015--T

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forksintheroad ( member #32362) posted at 2:53 AM on Tuesday, July 24th, 2012

I can offer the service of searching for property records in MA & NH...if you would like to add me to the list

35 BW(me); 35 FWH(him)
2DD's 6 yrs, 3 yrs; 2dogs/3cats
Together 16 yrs, married 8 yrs
DDay May 29, 2011; EA/PA Nov 05-March 06; working on R
People may not remember what you did or said but they will always remember how you made them feel

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takingtime ( member #35661) posted at 11:27 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012

Does anyone have MYLife. PM me please. Preliminary search shows my WS and OW linked thru there. Would like to know more of what it says

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